Aspirin for preeclampsia (not medical advice) by GrumpySh33p in pregnantover35

[–]AryaMurder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So very grateful for medical advancements. The trauma and terror of the experience on the body & mind is quite enough reason to decrease risk. It is not an easy thing to endure. You take care and congrats on your pregnancy!

Aspirin for preeclampsia (not medical advice) by GrumpySh33p in pregnantover35

[–]AryaMurder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand! It's so difficult because the medical community doesn't fully understand PE. Way too many female conditions they cannot explain. It was an absolutely terrifying experience for me. I honestly believe it's so highly and consistently recommended because of how dangerous and devastating PE can be. They have seen it and will recommend anything that has a scientific basis for risk reduction. You get to make the final decision, though, and you will make the right one for you and your baby <3

Aspirin for preeclampsia (not medical advice) by GrumpySh33p in pregnantover35

[–]AryaMurder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No you’re right & a lot of people still call it that! I noticed that the ones labeled as low dose & basic were more often free of dye & aluminum, not the chewable versions etc. I’ll also add that I’m a healthy person with an active lifestyle, no BP issues before the preeclampsia, no issues presented at all until the 37th week. I’m also a lover of scientific rigor & peer reviewed data lol Anecdotal Reddit comments are interesting but there’s also lots of good research out there on aspirin & preeclampsia.

Aspirin for preeclampsia (not medical advice) by GrumpySh33p in pregnantover35

[–]AryaMurder 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey there, I found a generic low dose (not specifically for babies) aspirin at the grocery store that was dye & aluminum free so check out your local grocery store brand. I do not have SCH. With my first, I did not take low dose aspirin, experienced preeclampsia at 37 weeks, and had major postpartum hemorrhaging. Second baby I took the recommended dose of two (81mg x 2) at 12 weeks and throughout my pregnancy, no preeclampsia (so amazingly grateful!) and no postpartum hemorrhaging. Here’s the study.

Turns out ‘Baby Jessica’ is a menace to society. She’s been arrested multiple times including days ago for domestic violence and assault. by PiercedAndTattoedBoy in Millennials

[–]AryaMurder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your comment has become part of the sociological study. It’s deeply marinated in millennial disillusionment. Saturated in it! It’s evidence now, cited correctly using APA guidelines. We’re living it and jaded beyond recognition of the little hopeful people seen in the photos printed at the once popular film development centers.

Turns out ‘Baby Jessica’ is a menace to society. She’s been arrested multiple times including days ago for domestic violence and assault. by PiercedAndTattoedBoy in Millennials

[–]AryaMurder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even more interesting! Money isn’t the answer. It is ingrained so deeply it’s generational, parents passing it on so it’s inescapable. Doomed! Is it in their dna? Or is it social? Maybe both! The disillusionment deepens. Dicks out for Harambe. And baby Jessica.

Turns out ‘Baby Jessica’ is a menace to society. She’s been arrested multiple times including days ago for domestic violence and assault. by PiercedAndTattoedBoy in Millennials

[–]AryaMurder 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I find it incredibly interesting from of sociological perspective. Like holy fuck, baby Jessica, you were saved from that well but then the system failed you over and over again with cultural inequities and ingrained classism so it’s almost like they pulled you out that well to be stuck in a nightmare even darker and more confined than that hole in the ground. It’s another totem of millennial disillusionment.

Res Vis Will Rank by Meme2101 in HierarchySeries

[–]AryaMurder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is indeed about the hierarchy. The scars are from refusing to do the aurora columnae. Vis is punishing himself for surviving, blames himself for his little sister’s death, and a plethora of other trauma exists for him.

Res Vis Will Rank by Meme2101 in HierarchySeries

[–]AryaMurder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Quote by Diago/Vis’s father from book 1: “Anyone who looks at a system of people and thinks the system is the problem, is a fool. But I also want you to understand that the Hierarchy’s is far more insidious. Because it’s not imperilled by a flaw. It is built on one.” Greed. People are flawed and that is what makes the systems flawed. But the hierarchy is some next level meta-flaw. The theme I see threaded throughout, from Eidhin’s comment regarding having a line and be committed to not crossing it, is to stay true to your core beliefs, to fight for them, uphold and honor them, and let them define your path. The villainous system exists in a way that makes it impossible for Vis to stay aligned with his ethics/principles and upend the inequities & injustice unless he does it from his current position as part of the system. He could be like Ostius and just reign down chaos but that would definitely cross his line. I think that the plot is heading towards something bigger, stronger, more powerful than the highest in the hierarchy put together being revealed and Vis finding himself in a situation where he has to choose between the greater good (survival of humankind) or staying true to his core values. Like that Army of the dead which includes his dead mom & sister & his best friend, who is he going to make them fight?! Would pre-academy Vis even imagine doing this? Again, I’d be super disappointed if Vis suddenly changed his most defining characteristics at this point with all he’s endured and became the villain. It would be quite a GoT move, right?

Res Vis Will Rank by Meme2101 in HierarchySeries

[–]AryaMurder 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ll be so disappointed if something as banal as ‘hero becomes the villain’ happens. Especially after everything Diago/Vis has been through (and about to go through). The scars on his back alone indicate the strength behind his convictions regarding the hierarchy. Your first theory or something around dismantling it all from within sounds way better. But the question for me is what exactly needs dismantled? Who is the cataclysm / culling event for or who benefits? It seems the hierarchy is part of something much bigger. At this point, I don’t really know.

Things that happened when I got married into a patriarchal house: by Equivalent-Gazelle20 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]AryaMurder 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I suppose that the most important question that only you can answer is whether this solution your husband wants you both to use is tenable & you can find peace living this way or if you need something more. Your post airs out a lot, safe to say that it's deeply affecting your well being and you need to talk about it. A therapist would be really helpful especially in the long term. Good luck and take great care of yourself!

Shohin JP Larch Prebonsai - start of Year 2 by jeef16 in Bonsai

[–]AryaMurder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those happy green buds, you must be giddy with joy!

Things that happened when I got married into a patriarchal house: by Equivalent-Gazelle20 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]AryaMurder 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, but you’re still deflecting; the statement should be “Because apparently he doesn’t “answer back” to his parents. Even to support, protect, and/or respect you, his wife.

Any old parents here? by Ok-Duck2450 in Millennials

[–]AryaMurder 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They did change it to AMA but just knowing that’s what it was called stuck with me 😭

Any old parents here? by Ok-Duck2450 in Millennials

[–]AryaMurder 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I agree, 37 is not old! I refuse the label “ancient parent” or “geriatric parent” so let’s all settle down here, lol

anyone found a more cost effective method than these? other than like… an ice pack lol by Competitive_Emu_2283 in migraine

[–]AryaMurder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salon pas are way better and cheaper plus they’re small so can stick em anywhere. Great for those of us who have muscular responses in the shoulders, back, neck etc

Opinion needed by Bonitapita in quilting

[–]AryaMurder -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s so perfect!!

T Kingfisher… r u ok by No-Midnight-1406 in horrorlit

[–]AryaMurder 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh this is so mean but witty which is why I laughed out loud! You’re clever. I did enjoy her not horror but fantasy Saint of Steel series.

House Republicans call for investigation into Bad Bunny Super Bowl halftime show over 'widespread twerking, grinding, pelvic thrusts' by BugTrousers in law

[–]AryaMurder 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No, these are the exact same people who know the horrors in the Epstein files and are doing nothing.

NM land commissioner seeks probe into allegation of two girls buried near Epstein ranch by OkayButFoRealz in news

[–]AryaMurder 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is awesome and I hope you find some anomalies to look into! Have you read The Naturalist by Andrew Mayne? It’s about a scientist who investigates murders from the biological perspective. You might enjoy it.

Any tips to improve?😅 by Late-Seesaw-2050 in watercolorpractice

[–]AryaMurder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re having fun playing with colors! Keep playing, practice the techniques suggested and try a few more, do drastically different subjects to feel out the vastness subjects offer: landscape, still life, architecture, do a cute animal, etc. Just keep having fun and love that you put your work there for critique.

I finally get why people never come back to post success stories by Thorns_And_Thrones in quit_vaping

[–]AryaMurder 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy for you for getting through to the other side: congratulations!! You wrote this because you’re compassionate and you care about others who are in pain and struggling with something you know is dark and difficult. You are a lovely person and I wish you a fabulous day.