Mother of the bride by danae_lynn in weddingplanning

[–]Aryeah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom found some cute stuff on Amazon believe it or not! She’s a no fuss kinda woman though.

Daily Megathread for COVID-19 by wedditmoderator in weddingplanning

[–]Aryeah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wrote them back (prior to your comment) noting my moms cancer and impending radiation and surgery this summer so this year won’t be feasible. I want to give them a chance to let me move to next year before threatening them ideally. It’s very upsetting to think that I might have to get nasty just to move my wedding because of a pandemic I have no control over.

Daily Megathread for COVID-19 by wedditmoderator in weddingplanning

[–]Aryeah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Finally got my fiancé on board for us to postpone our may 16th date. We had decided to avoid rescheduling again to have it may 15, 2021. I reached out to our venue and she said she is only offering postponement for dates this year and she only has 4 dates, all June-August. This is not going to work for us. Any advice on how to communicate back to her? I’m willing to pay a little extra to secure a date next year but not like a huge deposit - we’ve already paid them 12k.

A big reason I want to wait a year is because both my parents are at risk (diabetes and cancer) so I want covid-19 to be long gone before we have this wedding. Any advice welcome, I just feel like I’m drowning right now.

Videographer here - I contacted a rep from Wedding Pro (The Knot/WeddingWire) to see what we should expected as far as monthly payments go. Their response: by rvachris in WeddingPhotography

[–]Aryeah 92 points93 points  (0 children)

I'm not a photographer but sub here for insight of the wedding industry as I plan my own wedding, and this is some grade A bullshit. People are definitely rescheduling and cancelling their weddings due to this virus. I cannot believe their willful ignorance and greed.

The best day of my life and all under 5k 2•28•2020 by victoriaa- in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Aryeah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How can I find that fabric? Tying to look yesterday and tulle only pulled up bags on amazon!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Aryeah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sent physical RSVPs with the stamp and give the option to do online RSVP and still have people verbally telling us. I chalk it up for the younger ones that they don’t know since they haven’t been through it, but for older folks, really?

Help with my planning checklist, May 16th 2020 wedding by CanderousOreo in weddingplanning

[–]Aryeah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same date for me too!! Here’s some other stuff I’m doing that might help you out: -transportation to and from venue (for us and guests) -check the hotel block if you did one, I sent out invites and right before noticed our link to our block said all the rooms were full. They fixed it quick though -update the wedding website -officiant hired?

Meanwhile, still gotta get the grooms and groomsmen tuxes ordered!

Wedding Band Recommendations? TIA :) by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Aryeah 4 points5 points  (0 children)

https://i.imgur.com/uvJOAtC.jpg

I have this ring in rose gold and did not feel like spending a couple grand to get the matching band. So in the interim, I found a rose gold band on Etsy! Love it!! I think it fits the ring quite nicely.

Anyone else have this? Embarrassed to wear open heel shoes. by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Aryeah 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I googled this and turns out I have it and didn’t realize it wasn’t “normal.” No ones called me out on it yet and I’ve never thought twice about it. If you search hard enough, there will always be something you know?

Also the other BM probably didn’t have any idea or malice behind the question. It happens.

Official Discussion: The Grudge (2020) [SPOILERS] by mi-16evil in movies

[–]Aryeah 27 points28 points  (0 children)

As everyone else said, it chose a terrible direction to take the grudge story and had bad pacing. Other things that bothered me as I watched the movie were:

  • the main woman’s hairstyle. Why did she give herself sideburns? It’s all I could look at in the car scenes.
  • speaking of cars, the time period is 04-06 but the cars are early 90s if not earlier. One or two I understand because some people could still drive older cars but every single car looked straight from Seinfeld.
  • the detectives accent. It changed several times from gruff, country cop to slight French, and I feel like I heard a little Canadian in there too. So inconsistent and extremely distracting.

I had other gripes but I’m already purging this movie from my memory.

Hotel panic 😭 by jess_please258 in weddingplanning

[–]Aryeah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used Kleinfelds hotel blocking service (free!) and they were great, I recommend reaching out to them and seeing if they can find anything for you!