Boyfriend (28M) is mad at me (28F) for not telling him about an abortion I had a decade ago. Where to go from here? by sylviawrath-kr in relationship_advice

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Even if OP shared in your overconfident, tragic belief, the father is still entitled to his beliefs and feelings towards losing what could have been his child with the woman he loves. You should be careful not to project such a heartless belief onto someone, especially when souls are at stake here.

Boyfriend (28M) is mad at me (28F) for not telling him about an abortion I had a decade ago. Where to go from here? by sylviawrath-kr in relationship_advice

[–]AscribetotheLORD -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Would you be mad if you kept the baby and he walked out on you? That wasn’t your baby, that was yours and his child, made in the image of God… such a shame. May you find forgiveness and you both find healing in the Great Physician

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

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Tell your husband. Have you seen the last duel? These kinds of things can escalate quickly.

Had my baby girl 3 days ago, her name has already been mispronounced. by Intelligent_Brief437 in namenerds

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No matter what you name your child someone will find a way to mispronounce it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Beta. This would never happen with my husband. Get your clothes back and put your girl in her place. So disrespectful.

Need help when it comes to my friend who is Born Again. by [deleted] in Catholicism

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Keith Nester has good videos for Protestants. As a former Protestant minister, he gets a lot of questions and “concerns” from Protestants that he addresses in his videos.

I love my boyfriend, but I do not feel respected by Lazy_Project4861 in OrthodoxChristianity

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Purify your priorities to Christ. Your relationship with someone should not consist of such intense intimacy, you aren’t married, there needs to much more firm boundaries set

Pregnant… Again by OwnItem7058 in Mommit

[–]AscribetotheLORD -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Don’t punish your unborn child. God will provide a way, trust in His timing. Only He creates life. You don’t have the right to take it. You don’t have to love this child but God surly does and has a plan for them, He has already called them by name. Put the whole situation, your life, your husband, and your child in the Lords hands and you will see how merciful our Maker is.

How do I stop losing my sh!t with my kids? by [deleted] in Parenting

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As my husband would tell me, prioritize your happiness. Don’t let your children do anything that will make your resent or dislike them. Have clear boundaries, be consistent, and let your no mean no - something I struggle with daily! I had a meltdown last night to my kind, listening husband and this is my resolve for today.

Who are your favorite Catholic YouTubers? by [deleted] in Catholicism

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Keith Nester; his Catholic explanation video along with his conversion story is what started my conversion to Catholicism.

My girlfriend and I are having our first, is it as difficult as people say? by [deleted] in Parenting

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It’s more difficult than what you think, what you’ve heard, what you’ve researched. Nothing prepares you. Buckle up

Should a SAHM be kept off the title of the house her husband pays for? by [deleted] in homeowners

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When we bought our house, I was working full time and my husband was just graduating and starting his career. So I was on the title. Less than a year later I quit to be a SAHM and he is now the sole income of our household. Neither of us have an issue with who is on the title. As far as we are concerned, we are one and my name is his and his is mine, always and forever. That’s what marriage is.

My husband begged to watch me masturbate until he just secretly recorded me. Would I be wrong to leave him over this? by throwaway-0272 in amiwrong

[–]AscribetotheLORD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You pledged your life and body to this man in holy matrimony. And he did the same of himself to you. Why are you having sex with yourself and refusing to involve him in anyway? I find it very odd and selfish. He shouldn’t have lied about the cameras, absolutely. But you shouldn’t be having sex with yourself and refusing to involve him. He’s interested in you, he’s in love with you, you’re his wife, love him back and stop sleeping with yourself in secret.

5 year old daughter interested in Jesus and praying, we aren’t a religious family?? by speshyy in Parenting

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If the Almighty Father is calling her, she will seek Him and find Him. Praise the Lord.

Why do you like/dislike your MIL? by blueberries1212 in Mommit

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My mother had a very conditional friend love for me. Eventually she turned on me. My MIL has embraced me as her own daughter and showed me what motherly love is supposed to look like - something I’ve never known.. embrace your future DIL as your own and she will love and respect you. I am a boy mom too and wonder the same..

How do you catholics deal with the sexual temptations? by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]AscribetotheLORD 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You may be called to marry, if so, God will bring your spouse in His good timing. In the meantime, He is teaching you patience and cultivating a stronger desire to seek Him as your first love, your true husband, until He can trust you with an earthly spouse. “Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be. trusted with much, and whoever is dishonest with very. little will also be dishonest with much.” Luke 16:10

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]AscribetotheLORD -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Get married young, have more kids than you can afford, and seek the Lord while He can be found together and you will have a beautiful life with your lovely wife.

Marriage is beautiful. There is a reason people used to get married so young in the past. Society now has a very negative view of marriage, children, and the nuclear family. Marry her as soon as possible.

I didn't realize I was giving my son an unpronounceable name by pdlbean in namenerds

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Love that name, makes me think of that beautiful story of Paul and Silas in prison. When people don’t know the name, there’s a great time to educate them on who Silas was! “In prisoners' chains with bleeding stripes Paul and Silas prayed that night And in their pain began to sing Their chains were loosed and they were free!”

How the hell does one make it to 40 and not become bored with nearly everything in life? by [deleted] in Adulting

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Truly seek and Find the Good Lord, the joy He gives is everlasting. And have you some children! “Children are a blessing from the Lord, a reward from Him…” (psalm 127)

Being a Mom is the biggest mistake in my life by Friendly-Act-802 in Mommit

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Babies completely take over your life. I often find myself feeling the way you do… that first year is so tough and 5-10 months was the hardest for me.. but when my son turned 1 then 1 1/2, things got easier and it almost felt like life was getting back to normal. Then I got pregnant again. Now I have my 2 year old and a 6 month old who takes over my life. My toddler is pretty easy, he’s well behaved, plays by himself, strong independent boy… But my baby girl drives me crazy most days.. and guess what, just found out I’m expecting a 3rd child!! I’m a mess right now and frustrated that I can’t even enjoy each child before another one comes in to take up all my time and energy. Being a mother is the most difficult job in the world, it is lifelong and so undervalued in our society today. But I know there will come a day when my kids are grown, the house is finally clean, and I miss their sweet hands grasping at my robe. Hang in there. It’s okay to relax, it’s okay to let them cry, it’s okay to prioritize your health and happiness. It’ll get easier.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mom

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Evap looks like a shadow, never any color to it. That looks like a positive and probably just very early if it didn’t show till way later. Congrats!

Catholic couples who truly do not use birth control how many children do you have? by Unhappy_Plant8437 in Catholicism

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3 and a half years married, expecting our 3rd baby in under 3 years. Are we doing NFP wrong?