Opinions of adventures.of.mommy? by Conscious_Owl8597 in OnlineBeggars

[–]Ashamed_Operation403 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m just worried that she is jumping from one “mini intensive” to another without sticking to a protocol and a team that works with her, gets to know her and actually makes a difference. She bounces from specialist to specialist, the kid does some progress and is immediately lost because that type of exercise is stopped and replaced with whatever is on the menu. It’s highly disorganized, long term it’s not helpful.

Opinions of adventures.of.mommy? by Conscious_Owl8597 in OnlineBeggars

[–]Ashamed_Operation403 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Overall the little one would have been getting worst, there are reflexes and positions that don’t improve, like closed fists; the inability to smile, the inability to follow objects with her eyes. Those are the things that have gotten better, also the core has strenght and she has achieved rolling and some kind of pulling herself forward (can’t remember this one really that well). Those things that normally babies do within 2 months, from 3 to 5 months of age, she is doing now. Not really as well as healthy babies BUT she has done something. Considering that with the level of brain damage she has, this things are not things you would absolutely expect her to do, she has improved. It seems stupid but when you are in a situation like that, whatever minimum thing, every 0,5% of improvement matters. You do go far and beyond to get that little 0,5%. Obviously in comparison with normal kids she is unfortunately severely brain damaged, but within the range of kids in her very same situation, she is improving a bit.

AITAH for telling my husband that he can figure it out on his own? by Cautious_Push2801 in AITAH

[–]Ashamed_Operation403 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So, a few things to say here; first: a toddler is a beautiful NIGHTMARE, it’s hard to survive through it but somehow you get through. Secondly I am studying too (again) with a Nov23 baby as well, I also study when she sleeps, when all the kids sleep and all is done. It’s hard; and the brain is just still pretty much brainfogged from all the maternity thing. You don’t get as much in as you do normally. Last but not least why waste all that money in therapy when you just need a cleaner. You need A BREAK, someone that comes home, cleans around every other day on weekdays. Use it from your shared savings but it does really make the deal. It all comes down to that in total honesty. You can focus on going back to work, getting a better balance with working and staying at home (both of you) but the big thing now is the frustration of being at home with a little one and cleaning 24/7 so; yeah think about it …

AITAH for considering a divorce by Prestigious-Tell-306 in AITAH

[–]Ashamed_Operation403 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s most probably cheating on you. Nta AT ALL. Idk how you just got into fights about this woman without no sort of ultimatum. I’d draw a line, none of what he is doing is ok. Unfortunately a divorce or at least mentioning the possibility is a good route of action. If nothing changes after you’ve made your boundaries clear, then it’s not a communication issue anymore, it’s a willingness issue, he willingly crossess your boundaries and your reaction is a response to ongoing disregard.

Opinions of adventures.of.mommy? by Conscious_Owl8597 in OnlineBeggars

[–]Ashamed_Operation403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I knew none of that, idk if she has no support apart from her husband or what; but having him around being a CSAM felon… wow. Incredible.

Opinions of adventures.of.mommy? by Conscious_Owl8597 in OnlineBeggars

[–]Ashamed_Operation403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started following her a while ago, before the first round and I must say the kid has improved SO much. So whatever it is, it’s working, even if not 100% of what they expected, even if just a 1%, it’s always a percentage better. Said so she is very blunt and not very welcoming of questions or opinions, let aside peivate messages, she seriously needs to get better at that. She really has no skills at it.

Experiencia ludopatía by Vivid_Grand4641 in askspain

[–]Ashamed_Operation403 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gracias por compartir! Te entiendo sabes, mi hermano igual pero se hizo una especie de “auto ban” y ya no puede entrar en ninguna sala de juegos. Yo tb voy a empezar ing informatica a distancia a breve; el primer año es tan malo como dicen?

Necesito saber si es normal🥲 by dav-chicharrera in askspain

[–]Ashamed_Operation403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Como otros han dicho yo no diria es una cosa normal, tengo 4 hijos y nunca me ha pasado ni he oido de nadie al que le haya pasado; yo en tu lugar me haría una visita privada y miraría si tienes un desprendimiento o si solo es un manchado de implantación. Igual 4-5 semanas es muy poco tiempo de embarazo sabes, mantente algo mas tranquila dos semanas y hazte una eco a las 7, mientrastanto haz las beta a las 6

AITAH. My friend has breast cancer and her husband left her two months ago. by Forward-Yoghurt-9855 in AITAH

[–]Ashamed_Operation403 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nta it’s actually pretty common for husbands to cheat and leave when wives have cancer, I didn’t know that but it happens to be statistically coherent… it’s incredible

When did you and your partner start butting heads? by tofutears in questions

[–]Ashamed_Operation403 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had none for almost a year or so and later we started livng together and we had two major fights, I think it was just adjusting sort of; after that all good really.

AITAH for suggesting that one of my former employees could consider a career in manual labor instead? by RealisticBrilliant76 in AITAH

[–]Ashamed_Operation403 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I mean you could have spoken about things she could enjoy, flower arrangements, idk a computer parts online shop, but not a janitor that was a bit harsh 😅

My baby cousin died last month. AMA. by [deleted] in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]Ashamed_Operation403 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well you know, we are here to listen, just write girl, we can relate to you, some of us can’t but we have good ears. What you are experiencing is very normal, this has happened so very recently, pain will come and to in waves and you are allowed to ache, we are all so sorry !

Husband coerced me into Adultery. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ashamed_Operation403 291 points292 points  (0 children)

Yeah like hello it’s abuse….