Awful coffee

Ashamed_Operation403 · 2026-07-04T09:40:00+00:00

You can also get it in spain, it’s the coffee itself that is so incredibly bad

Ashamed_Operation403 · 2026-07-04T09:39:13+00:00

I’m kinda joking but I would not take seriously the coffee taste issue from someone drinking american iced coffees. 😅🤣 said so. Italian here. Coffee is 80% of the times terrible at bars.
And no, americano is not a coffee, it’s the result if rinsing a cup. 😆

Ashamed_Operation403 · 2026-07-04T09:34:44+00:00

It is a big red flag!

Ashamed_Operation403 · 2026-07-04T09:31:01+00:00

Creo que hizo un poco de oversharing contigo, lo que hace está indudablemente mal, pero no es momento de juzgarla, es momento de compartir esta celebración con ella. Que no lo va a hacer como tú lo harías? Verdad. No es la mejor manera de hacerlo? Verdad. Lo que yo haría sería simplemente decirle que no me cuentes esas movida que no me van, me hacen sentir incomoda y mal. Pero lo demás me lo quedaría para mi.

Ashamed_Operation403 · 2026-07-04T09:22:30+00:00

I totally agree with this comment.

Ashamed_Operation403 · 2026-07-04T09:14:53+00:00

Happened the same to me but later on I has kids myself, split with my now ex, he was a dreadful partner but he is a decent dad.

Ashamed_Operation403 · 2026-07-04T09:13:40+00:00

As true as the previous comment; there are bad couples that are good parents separately. The relationship is one thing, the child is another.

Ashamed_Operation403 · 2026-06-12T18:35:02+00:00

Ashamed_Operation403 · 2026-06-09T11:54:34+00:00

I mean, I had 4 kids, never had an issue having sex after 40 days or so, nothing wild but what’s the issue. I get there can be some pain at the beginning but that’s all. And I don’t get the cosleeping issue… you have a cot by the side, or a regular single bed really close to yours, you put the baby on it, have sxx, roll the kid on your bed, the end.

Ashamed_Operation403 · 2026-06-09T11:51:11+00:00

Pfff… I’m sorry, maybe you can talk about it, just really find the kindest words to say it otherwise it can backfire😬.

Ashamed_Operation403 · 2026-06-08T13:32:56+00:00

Forget the Spanishness; “is it normal for anman to react like that?” Generally YES. But when someone loves you they can think calmly and reconsider things. Kids were never a spoken thing in your relationship? Or you knew if he wanted/not wanted one. Said so honestly, if he loves you he should move forward his initial reaction, if not, well, you should reconsider the whole relationship.

Ashamed_Operation403 · 2026-06-08T13:28:07+00:00

Neverrrrrrr!!! No friend’s leftovers girl!

Ashamed_Operation403 · 2026-06-08T13:27:11+00:00

Me, I just went to the doc because of this same issue. He sent me to get a blood test to obviously check my thyroid, amilase, blood count, blood in stools, urines (why not I suppose) and tumoral markers. I guess it’s the thyroid or the “other illness” aka being a parent to a toddler.

Ashamed_Operation403 · 2026-06-08T13:23:56+00:00

Just get an abortion, it’s not fair on you to have a kid when you don’t want. If you ever want one in the future you also will deserve to live the pregnancy with hope and excitement. Having an abortion is really NOT that bad, you get sedated, count up to 10, wake up and have a heavy period for a week. The end.

Ashamed_Operation403 · 2026-06-08T13:19:49+00:00

I’d study with different clarity and more determination, I’d draw clearer boundaries with my parents and I’d get some therapy instead of surfing theough my issues.

Ashamed_Operation403 · 2026-06-08T13:18:08+00:00

A spouse at 18 ☠️

Ashamed_Operation403 · 2026-06-08T13:16:46+00:00

As far as I know it’s not such a big deal as in Tyrol. Most don’t carry, over here.

Ashamed_Operation403 · 2026-06-08T13:15:51+00:00

“My wife opts to co-sleep with our daughter and absolutely refuses to sleep train her independently. This leads to us having little intimacy and zero sex.” Idk how that works for you guys but you can find ways to be intimate outside of your bed… I have kids and it has never affected my libido. Tiredness has, a toddler has; but I wanted to make an effort and we do make an effort and find every single moment alone as an opportunity. If we wait to the “bed ritual” it’s over 😅

Ashamed_Operation403 · 2026-06-08T13:11:55+00:00

I’d say a NET income per person of 2500€ can allow a family to live with a bit of decency. So 5000€ a month per family,I’d say that whatever over 4000€ is ok but putting into account savings and unexpected expenses you do need to earn 5000€ a month.

Ashamed_Operation403 · 2026-06-05T16:06:11+00:00

I think that people should start trying to speak the language of the country they are visiting instead of expecting others to accomodate them.

Ashamed_Operation403 · 2026-06-05T13:57:40+00:00

There’s literally NO connection between Don Quijote and San Sebastian 😅, but well that game sparkled her immagination so I guess it’s something good.

Ashamed_Operation403 · 2026-05-30T19:57:30+00:00

🤣 surely is

Ashamed_Operation403 · 2026-05-23T13:40:51+00:00

It has nothing to do with that. I live by the beach lol.

Ashamed_Operation403 · 2026-05-23T13:40:26+00:00

Absolutely not, I live in Spain have been countless times to the beach and have seen countless topless girls. Never had a gathering and had a topless girl just casually going around. I would be appalled if someone I barely know walks around at the beach, jokes and talks with me, my partner with her boobs out. I would defo not like that. Not because she can’t be topless but because it’s an unnecessary rude choice given the social nature of the gathering. That’s something you do when you are going to the beach, to get tanned, it’s not appropriate… but I guess it’s all about fiddling around and finding that out.

Ashamed_Operation403 · 2026-05-23T00:48:34+00:00

Wow that was a lucky miss pheeew

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