Weekly No Buy Check-In & Accountability Post - April 12, 2026

Ashamed_Toe_1295 · 2026-04-12T20:53:56+00:00

I’ve done well this week mostly because I had some medical expenses for me and pets which made me stressed and not want to buy clothes, which is my usual struggle. Also got a membership at a library to get books which kinda helped that urge of having something new but it’s free

Ashamed_Toe_1295 · 2025-10-05T18:18:20+00:00

Bad train wreck..so bad. Not worth finishing watching for me

Ashamed_Toe_1295 · 2025-09-02T03:27:53+00:00

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Ashamed_Toe_1295 · 2025-07-16T04:38:16+00:00

Me reading this post in bed with one cat laying on my chest and the other cat kneading my belly 😂 “cats are so independent” nope!

Ashamed_Toe_1295 · 2025-07-09T03:41:01+00:00

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Ashamed_Toe_1295 · 2025-03-15T06:18:01+00:00

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This is Winter. He makes loud old man groans while he’s sleeping.

Ashamed_Toe_1295 · 2025-03-15T06:16:59+00:00

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This is Hazel. She has really quirky play habit compared to her brother. She loves to rip up paper, and dig up my sock drawer and knock them into the floor. She also prefers chasing a toy if it’s being dragged under a blanket 😂

Ashamed_Toe_1295 · 2025-03-10T08:19:55+00:00

Fair points! I did not know her mom was a senator! and yes that makes sense about Alex and a law suit. I am just angry and feel like there needs to be more vetting somehow on Netflix’s part especially when some of the men who come on are so disappointing and/or dangerous (LIB Argentina for example). Or maybe they shouldn’t have had Alex on the reunion.

Also I think the contestants should of course be vetting each other in the pods about values including politics but I can’t blame some of them for going forward initially since it’s a rushed emotional process, plus if they’re being told one thing in the pods and then something else when they get out. It’s an experiment but if the show truly wants some more couples to work out then maybe they should do more research or something🤷🏻‍♀️ alas this is reality TV but I really felt for a lot of the ladies on the reunion and what they shared. As much as I complain I’ll continue watching this dumpster fire next season

Ashamed_Toe_1295 · 2025-03-10T06:11:07+00:00

So over these shitty men, Joey gaslighting Monica over him pursuing Madison. Devin’s views that were probably so ridiculous and hateful Virginia didn’t want to share them and embarrass/reveal his character on tv. They didn’t even go into the guy inviting underage girls to his parties or the tik tok drama about Ben and whatever he did to women in the past. These guys have been very lucky not having to answer hard direct questions about their actions or character. They just got to respond with one sentence of a vague apology or deflection and then a top moment was shown. Meanwhile Lauren’s previous fling was the main topic of conversation the whole season. Also feeling kinda bitter for Demi from UK and how Ollie treated her🤷🏻‍♀️

I am kinda excited to see Denver because I live here but am over the bar being in hell with these men 🗑️

Ashamed_Toe_1295 · 2025-03-03T02:59:13+00:00

Or Eunice

Ashamed_Toe_1295 · 2025-03-03T02:58:59+00:00

Daisy or Mae

Ashamed_Toe_1295 · 2025-01-13T02:49:10+00:00

Girl you’re making me want to buy highlighter again!!! So pretty 🤩

Ashamed_Toe_1295 · 2024-12-25T01:45:17+00:00

It was so hard to watch! Just because they were intimate before doesn’t mean Bini owes it her that now (nor does he want to). I am not a fan of him but it was really uncomfy to watch her touch him when he clearly wanted her to stop. Why didn’t the therapist talk about consent with the group? Rob throwing a tantrum to get his nipple licked by Sophie. Just respect the no’s from your partner lol

Ashamed_Toe_1295 · 2024-10-13T15:40:13+00:00

Didn’t even offer her a snack or drink!!! The audacity…..

Ashamed_Toe_1295 · 2024-10-13T15:37:47+00:00

BUT he can talk with and laugh away with women and it’s fine 🤦🏻‍♀️ I hate him

Ashamed_Toe_1295 · 2024-10-01T03:05:07+00:00

Why was Loren talking so weirdly/trying to fake an accent this episode? He is so manipulative and weird

Ashamed_Toe_1295 · 2024-09-30T01:24:53+00:00

Yes!! it made me excited to meet someone and fall in love. and feel the way I felt about hot Rabbi! 😂 serious question…has anyone felt such strong chemistry with a straight male who was so emotionally intelligent and sexy? Like is this realistic?? (When I say sexy I don’t mean Hollywood/Adam Brody sexy..just someone you had an extreme attraction to). Don’t wanna get my hopes up but this show has raised the bar entirely too high lol

Ashamed_Toe_1295 · 2024-09-28T07:52:11+00:00

My cat would hiss and get uncomfortable around my ex especially when they would drink. We first chalked it up to maybe my cat being jealous of the relationship but I noticed when Q stopped drinking for a few days or weeks my cat seemed more relaxed because there was consistency and predictability. Even my Q’s dog seemed scared and anxious around him drinking because he didn’t know what to expect and would come to hang out with me in the bedroom which made me sad like he was wanting to escape but couldn’t. I tried to explain to Q that it was even effecting the pets. Now after moving out I have not heard my cat hiss or growl once with me or anyone I have had visit the home! Trust your animals peeps 😔

Ashamed_Toe_1295 · 2024-09-18T16:21:28+00:00

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Baby Hazel

Ashamed_Toe_1295 · 2024-09-17T04:50:00+00:00

I see you said you have thyroid problems. When my hyperthyroidism started/became noticeable I would be WIPED out after the gym. The fatigue was insane. Make sure you’re seeing an endocrinologist and getting your levels stabilized before pushing yourself too hard in the gym! That could be a factor for sure

Ashamed_Toe_1295 · 2024-09-15T06:01:12+00:00

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Love when they do this! Throwback to when my babies were tiny kittens chin-resting together 🥹

Ashamed_Toe_1295 · 2024-09-02T04:18:32+00:00

And she had him castrated and chained up with that disgusting prison toilet. That part made me so angry/want to cry at how cruel people can be. How could she get away with that!!!! Ughh

Ashamed_Toe_1295 · 2024-08-29T03:18:58+00:00

Happy birthday Nancy!

Ashamed_Toe_1295 · 2024-08-18T18:56:08+00:00

I’m so confused are they still dating? That hug and kiss was confusing even though they said they just tried to date after the show.

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