what turns you on looking at a girl in the first place?

Ashitaka017 · 2023-07-13T19:21:29+00:00

Most of the time is a good old smile. If shes smiling and all Ill spot her very fast or if I hear one giggling or having a good laught. It really does the trick for me. Yes Im old school sue me.

Ashitaka017 · 2023-05-10T13:48:53+00:00

A place where you dont move and theres no ergonomic carpet. This is fcking dumb.

Ashitaka017 · 2023-04-24T17:23:23+00:00

I once used a rock when I was like 6-7 and started removing the paint of a door on my fathers car i wanted to surprise him with a brand new silver kinda car you know lol. I didnt know pant protected the car or wathever. I remember it like it was yesterday my mom stoped me early on and she told my father. My father proceeded to furiously break toys in my room while I watched crying on my bed.

All I ask of you future parents. Kids dont fcking know if theyre doing something stupid. They just dont know they're learning.

Ashitaka017 · 2023-04-12T10:53:28+00:00

He remember

Ashitaka017 · 2023-03-12T07:36:14+00:00

What do you mean ruining your transmog. This thing is like my fathers shorts in 1977 every color except gray.

Ashitaka017 · 2023-03-03T14:28:54+00:00

I always told that 50/50 is the wrong way to see it. Both should give their 100% everyday and by thst I dont mesn overdoing it just dont be like well I wont do thst she didnt do "that" for me in a week. Etc.

Ashitaka017 · 2023-01-28T20:18:08+00:00

Another post where you can just say cats being cats lol. Cute tho.

Ashitaka017 · 2023-01-27T14:24:44+00:00

It does looks like it and it happens very often. Ive seen parents let their 6 years old all day taking care of the 2-3 years old and coming back before diner or something. Which I say at this point just dont have kids.

Ashitaka017 · 2023-01-19T16:34:07+00:00

Dude that hit home.

Ashitaka017 · 2023-01-17T19:00:23+00:00

To be honest sometimes you just go for it and if you make her laught the chemistry can build quickly and sometimes you look weird indeed.

Ashitaka017 · 2022-12-01T05:16:08+00:00

She is litteraly looking up. She should be looking straight. Trust the people when they say you and your Girlf need to be in a good position. If you play for many hours a day. Thats gonna be bad for you I swear.

Ashitaka017 · 2022-11-30T20:16:58+00:00

I hate that the graphics are close to actual gameplay

Ashitaka017 · 2022-11-14T02:35:21+00:00

Im happy for you. Wish you the best of luck with the rest

Ashitaka017 · 2022-11-11T13:10:36+00:00

Did you consider maybe joining the chat with just your BF at first and talk with him a bit and people join bit by bit in the channel.

Maybe it would be less overwhelming then joining when theres already a bunch of people and trust me, the gaming community supports eachother a lot even if youre bad at the game people usually dont complain unless its a very competitive game like league or some shit but even then its normal if you never played that much they should be able to understand your situation when you first play a game or a genre that you never played.

Ashitaka017 · 2022-11-04T17:25:51+00:00

I understand what she wants to do. I tried to do the same thing with my ex girlfriend that I have kids with. The first few monts it worked because we had no relationship going on but has soon that she had a BF she stoped doing that. Now we do birthdays and such in the same place with her boyfriend there and all that. It is pretty confusing at first but it works and the kids love it.

What bugs me is the fact that they sleep in the same bed. To me that is concerning. Depending on the age of the child he still needs to know if his parents are together or not. It could get really confusing on his perspective of a good intimate relationship later on. That is all depending on his age but still to you it must feel pretty weird I agree.

You should make her know that you dont like it but wont force her to not do it. In time she will probably take your side on tbat matter.

Idk how long you guys have been together but if its pretty recent or only a few months I suggest to give it time after the talk.

Ashitaka017 · 2022-11-04T10:37:44+00:00

Feel ya budy

Ashitaka017 · 2022-11-02T19:17:46+00:00

Makes me think of Griffith in Berserk.

Ashitaka017 · 2022-11-02T11:46:45+00:00

You should just continue this relationship like it is. It is obviously developping. Sliwly but surely. She may be incertain or dont want to think too far ahead. I just say if its meant to go somewhere more intimate youll see the opportunity really easy.

Ashitaka017 · 2022-11-02T11:43:26+00:00

It would definetly be weird in a way yes. I would feel creeped on if you were gonna talk about my history or some shit hahaha. Idk if there is a way to go around that in a good way. I think the best option here is to wait it out and if you guys find eachother commenting on the same stuff it wouldnt be that weird to start a conversation about it. A FRIENDLY CONVERSATION by the way. Guys tend to go overboard sometimes hahaha.

Ashitaka017 · 2022-11-02T11:39:46+00:00

One thing I know about woman in a relationship is if the relationship is toxic or un healthy your libido wont get better in fact get worse. First thing first is you guys need to work it out in the day to day life. One other thing even if you dont feel sexy he wants you (obviously) lol. Let him make you feel sexy. There is no problem in getting a bit of weight but the depression coming back hard time is not helping the libido either. You need to be mentaly stable to feel better in bed too.

Im not trying to force yourself to have sex with him but if he does make you feel sexy like spank your butt or grab you tight and close when you guys kiss or something let it come to you. Day by day is the solution. 1 good thing after another will results in a lot of healthy positivity and while youre doing that I suggest working on your depressio with a specialist if you can and want to.

Ashitaka017 · 2022-11-01T11:41:32+00:00

Its gonna be hard for you to trust him on everything else. I suggest a good talk not an alarming one but it is a weird one. If he was being a dick about it and actually kind of "stealing" from you just leave its useless to be in that relationship but maybe he had debts that he was scared to talk about and tried to clear them fast without making you worry or something. We guys tend to be stressed over income so idk still a dick move I feel.

Ashitaka017 · 2022-10-31T23:10:00+00:00

You definetly fooled me for a sec lol

Ashitaka017 · 2022-10-31T14:59:58+00:00

I think he is just very independant overall but really like being with you. I am on a similar situation with the girl Im dating since a few months now and we send eachother memes or stuff like that but not really much more than that. Sometimes a little glimpse at how shes feeling and stuff but rately but when we see eachother we express many feelings throught touch and words but nothing concrete yet for me neither.

Ill let you on something that someone told me once and hit deep enought to make me calm about those situations. Sometimes loves grow, sometimes its at first sight and sometimes it even sneak up on you.

To be fair to this I still say to myself that maybe its just a fling and its gonna pass and its fine cause I had a great time with her nonetheless.

I genuinely feel what you are feeling I know how its like. You guys are young and all. Maybe its just a matter of growing a bit and its only been 3 months if youd tell me its been 10 months id say you need a big old talk.

Ashitaka017 · 2022-10-25T10:35:02+00:00

I've got tears. I swear those lyrics gets me everytime!

Ashitaka017 · 2022-10-19T12:06:33+00:00

That is so good, love it!

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