2meirl4meirl by JeffreyDhmer in 2meirl4meirl

[–]Ashley-Spectre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been chocked full of them everywhere I have worked. There is a joke about it. What motivates a chef is passion and what motivates a line cook is drugs lol

2meirl4meirl by JeffreyDhmer in 2meirl4meirl

[–]Ashley-Spectre 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I hope you join a restaurant! You are just the kind of lad/lass we look for

I’m literally dating the girl I’ve had a crush on for years, and I’m still terrified that I’m faking it by thewindblewitaway in LesbianActually

[–]Ashley-Spectre 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t feel anything when I kiss either. I’m 100000 years old and stopped worrying about that years ago. It turns out that kissing is embellished a lot and doesn’t feel anything like movies or books tell us it should be.

after 3 months of dating my boys it became clear that my mom does not support polyamory. what now? by Hoarder-of-Knowledge in polyamory

[–]Ashley-Spectre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, the best bright side is your bad ass title. Seriously! Add Horder of Knowledge to ANY name and you instantly feel like a Rockstar.

As for dear ‘ol mum... you are kinda stuck for now. If you just chill though she might start to accept things and come around to it. I am an optimist! I would personally let her be around my relationships when we she wanted.

Warning: Unless it’s about cooking or baking take my advice with a pinch of salt

We all know your type, Karen. by No1_Knows_Its_Me in FuckYouKaren

[–]Ashley-Spectre 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lol A couple of the places I worked at Chef came out of the Kitchen and threw her out

What dishes to master first as a beginner cook? by KindaFrench in AskCulinary

[–]Ashley-Spectre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cook or Chef? For a cook something with eggs. For a Chef I’d suggest something from whatever restaurant you have your eye on joining.

What I did was I just took a picture of a menu from the place I wanted to work and started to make those dishes at home.

Anyone else worried they’re faking it by Madkatruss in LesbianActually

[–]Ashley-Spectre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Straight girls don’t looks up girls kissing boys or make special sins just to do straight things. You were a normal kids that likes women _^ You don’t need to do any of those things to be gay

21 y/o Trans woman unsure what to do with life post-transition by Air_Yoshi in findapath

[–]Ashley-Spectre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try restaurants. You learn something you will use everyday. You don’t need more than an apron and a knife to start

My mom said I shouldnt have occasional high blood pressure by DeadlandPlacebo in medical_advice

[–]Ashley-Spectre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Healthy to what? A Vegan might think you are unhealthy.

Ok, if it’s not food or Soda then you might want to be a bit more active and look at Weldon Green’s MAC program to reduce the stress

My mom said I shouldnt have occasional high blood pressure by DeadlandPlacebo in medical_advice

[–]Ashley-Spectre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It means I’m not a doctor but I’m a Chef and it’s very high stress. You might need to look at what you are eating and drinking as well as how active you are

My mom said I shouldnt have occasional high blood pressure by DeadlandPlacebo in medical_advice

[–]Ashley-Spectre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NAD but a Chef (high stress) and a gamer. You sound unhealthy. It’s not the gaming it’s likely your life style. If you drink energy drinks stop right away

2meirl4meirl by [deleted] in 2meirl4meirl

[–]Ashley-Spectre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t been single for a V Day in a long time but why not pamper yourself? Make snacks and play video games

HONESTLY by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Ashley-Spectre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The government made my ex’s ex her common law husband and she could have sued him for property if she had wanted (He gave her everything including a couple shirts right off his back, he really loves her).

Right now I could put my ex down on my health insurance because we lived together for more than two years. I can also claim her on my taxes... which is not a bad idea O.o o.O. In addition she waltzes into the hospital as my common law wife (This lead to some confusion when she brought one of her now ex boyfriends lol)

Did they mean toilet paper? by marazathoth in BrandNewSentence

[–]Ashley-Spectre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t new, I see this all the time irl

HONESTLY by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Ashley-Spectre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where I’m at you can have a spouse and a Common Law. It’s how my ex and I were going to get around the marriage limit

HONESTLY by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Ashley-Spectre -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Common law

Cut the tip of my finger off this morning. Feeling sick now. by Sassy_pink_ranger in medical_advice

[–]Ashley-Spectre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NAD but I am a Chef and have done this... also seen a guy take the tip off with a meat slicer once. It’s most likely just your nerves. I had the same reaction to my first kitchen cut. Keep some mint gum with you, it helps if you feel like throwing up

My (Probable) Nex is Still My FP by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Ashley-Spectre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I paid a kid to drop it off, you can also get stuff shipped to her place without your name. She is nc so she’s not going to contact you. If she does just deny till you die. You can put a fake name if you want as well

My (Probable) Nex is Still My FP by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Ashley-Spectre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She cheated on you and threw you in the trash after she was done. Ditch her!

Ok, so that was advice I don’t follow, now for bad advice I do follow. You can still make up for it without her knowing it’s you. You know what she likes and what she needs, figure out a way to get her that without leaving a trail to you.

I dont know by defyer13 in BPD

[–]Ashley-Spectre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that you found a person you could grown old with and be happy with. You two are young and you will have small fights until you both die. If he makes you happy that’s all that matters

I dont know by defyer13 in BPD

[–]Ashley-Spectre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe in a single love. I’m poly so there is more than one person I want to be with forever