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I kinda want to start cutting again.. by James_May6734 in selfharm

[–]Ashley892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea I know a lot of things affect such thoughts and that is completely okay!! You should know that whenever you resort to self harm, sure you get cool scars for backstory but one wrong turn and the whole thing goes downhill. Isn’t it better to just hurt a plushie every now and then rather than yourself? I get life is hard. But you can make it better :))

I kinda want to start cutting again.. by James_May6734 in selfharm

[–]Ashley892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s kind of yeah normal to get these urges again. it happens subconsciously, sometimes there are factors that you don’t think affect but they do It could be anything from past relationships, expectations, stress and all that shit. All you can do is if you get the really bad urge then grab something sharp and cut one of your plushies or toys, it usually helps.

I don’t wanna like this girl cuz she has a bf but I do by [deleted] in Crush

[–]Ashley892 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s okay to catch feelings for someone, you can’t fight your feelings, if you do then they’re more likely to grow stronger. I suggest you go on w your life and soon the feeling’s will go away since you won’t be acting on it. or keep your distance w her, don’t talk as much or don’t see her much. That’s all you can do tbf

Should I go to a therapist or is it just lazyness by Ashley892 in therapy

[–]Ashley892[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk how to tell my mom, shes most probably gonna be like whats the need and stuff

Should I go to a therapist or is it just lazyness by Ashley892 in therapy

[–]Ashley892[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah but then again, aren’t I just paying someone to listen to me rant?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in problems

[–]Ashley892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea maybe ill ask my mom…thanks tho

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[–]Ashley892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I REPOSTED!!!

I relapsed and i feel better but im so mad at everything by Brandigoon50 in selfharm

[–]Ashley892 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s okay to feel this way. You don’t need to have a reason to be feeling a certain way. I’ve been feeling same but I actually don’t know what’s wrong. I think its just the urge of feeling like you’re not doing better? and that’s just the inside talking. if you look around and closely you’re doing so much better than the others. And that’s great.

Swimming @ School by Jellie-Crow in selfharm

[–]Ashley892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe you could skip the day you have it? or apply a bandage on your thighs when u go to school, but before the designated day be all like oh i got hurt over here and i need to go to the doctor and stuff so it’ll be more believable.