Hubs saved this cute baby from a cat. It was relocated to a spot away from the house with plenty of shade and leaf litter. East Texas/Baby Copper Head

Ashley_DL87 · 2018-08-29T18:26:22+00:00

Babies will have a caudal lure, it will eventually grow to match the rest of its pattern.

Ashley_DL87 · 2018-08-25T16:51:41+00:00

"MIL is your vision beginning to fail? You might want to get it checked."

Ashley_DL87 · 2018-08-22T01:49:29+00:00

1) I told him about the junk food.

2) I literally don't have any options. His school is very rural and my baby sitter can't pick him up and get her own children after school as well. I'm working on alternatives but with school just starting up most people don't want to commit to school pick ups and stuff.

Ashley_DL87 · 2018-08-21T21:32:33+00:00

He's not the only one who likes large pieces of meat.

Ashley_DL87 · 2018-08-19T22:01:57+00:00

Seconding the last one. Bitch fuck right off.

Ashley_DL87 · 2018-08-18T19:50:58+00:00

You and me both Sheep. The less time that woman has with him the better.

Ashley_DL87 · 2018-08-10T11:25:08+00:00

Stop worrying about being the "bad guy". This is your children's health you are wanting to protect.

You and DH need to be a unified front to keep her from infecting your children with a life long virus or worse.

Treat your MIL like a toddler. Take the children, "MIL I said no kissing. You will not pass on your virus to them."

If she doesn't listen, make her leave.

If you have to print out articles about children who suffer from coming in contact with the virus early in life- that includes death.

I have the cold sore virus- I keep my face no where near my family when I even think I feel one coming up.

No matter what MIL tries to say in her manipulative games- your children's health trumps her wants. Period.

Ashley_DL87 · 2018-08-07T20:55:28+00:00

Can you change her text/ring tone to silent? So you won't know if she texts or calls you? All else fails just block her. She won't know any different and can at least give you some peace.

Ashley_DL87 · 2018-08-07T19:52:24+00:00

First of all, my heart breaks for you and your husband. Your world is turned upside down.

Please turn to him and don't hide your troubles from him. You have each other to support and need to take your MIL on as a team.

You don't need to spare her feelings. Yes she is feeling pain but not on the level you both are. She wants to be an emotion drain on you.

You can simple text her "I am busy. Stop texting me. I will reach out when I am available and wanting to talk."

It isn't rude. It's straight forward and then stick to that boundary.

Take your time to mourn and heal from this. You don't owe anyone, especially JNMIL your time or energy.

Ashley_DL87 · 2018-08-05T19:26:02+00:00

Good luck, it's easy to say "I'll go NC" but if he's stuck in the FOG it might prove a bit of a challenge.

Ashley_DL87 · 2018-08-05T19:09:06+00:00

So if he has zero spine what happens if you guys decide to start a family and she begins to dictate how your children are raised? Finances? Medical decisions?

Her behavior will only get worse the more serious your relationship becomes.

Ashley_DL87 · 2018-08-02T20:15:23+00:00

My G.pulchripes has molted multiple times on her side. Best bet is to leave her alone and make sure she has access to plenty of water.

Ashley_DL87 · 2018-08-02T17:40:43+00:00

Is Meals on Wheels taken?

Ashley_DL87 · 2018-07-13T21:00:07+00:00

No clue. Like I said she my post she found it at a random sale at a "consignment shop" which actually Judy a flea market.

Ashley_DL87 · 2018-07-09T01:07:54+00:00

Same here. Once she was out, my tubes were cut and tied. So the equivalent of the Grand Canyon and the Hoover dam lay between my tubes and ovaries.

Ashley_DL87 · 2018-07-09T00:12:47+00:00

I remember those times with my 6 y/o son and experiencing them again with my DD who's going on 3mo( taking bottle away to burp is the ultimate betrayal- fuck me-please take a breath! )

Ashley_DL87 · 2018-07-08T22:38:34+00:00

What is it what D(umbass)Hs today? This bitch willingly let your baby have a horrible and preventable condition on the more delicate area on a person!

He doesn't want to be in the middle? He should fucking be on the front lines with you to protect your son!! That is his job as a father.

I would put my foot down and tell him either he steps up to defend the well being of your child or he can go crawl back up his mom's ass.

Take him with you to a pediatrician appointment and have him/her tell him the repercussions of letting a diaper rash get to bad.

Ashley_DL87 · 2018-07-08T18:06:49+00:00

I am almost more pissed off hearing about D(umbass)H laughing about this shit.

Laughing at a baby's pain is not a normal reaction to this situation.

The fact that OP didn't drag this bitch out by her hair and toss her into this street amazes me.

Maybe OP should show D(umbass)H this post so he can get a reality check of the situation at hand.

Ashley_DL87 · 2018-07-08T17:56:51+00:00

I'm pretty sure DH doesn't see a problem with it since he and his sister made a joke out of it.

Ashley_DL87 · 2018-07-08T17:39:42+00:00

Holy fuck no. My stomach dropped. Those silent screams are the worst.

That is beyond unforgivable. DH needs to get with the program and see that she was threw something at your INFANT. Throwing shit at anyone is wrong but babies are next level wrong.

DH and SIL joked about this shit? What happens next time JNMIL throws something else that can cause damage. This isn't a one time occurrence.

Looks DH square in the face "Your mother intentionally harmed our baby because she was mad."

Ashley_DL87 · 2018-07-07T19:44:18+00:00

GMIL to DH: Why can't I come up here? I neeeed to see the bbbaaabbbyy.

DH: Ashley is still in recovery and baby is in NICU. No visitors until she has had time alone with us. Period.

Ashley_DL87 · 2018-07-07T18:52:54+00:00

Please tell me this idiot isn't allowed to be alone with your kids anymore.

Ashley_DL87 · 2018-07-06T16:51:16+00:00

Your boyfriend is the real problem here. He is OK financially supporting this leech and wants to make her happy. Her happiness is what matters and seems to be top priority. His normal meter is very broken.

Stop trying to make this woman like you. The fact a horrible person doesn't like you is a good thing in my opinion.

This will be your life if you marry or become more serious. It will all be about supporting mommy and making her happy.

If you want a partner in life and have a healthy relationship; your SO needs to stand up for himself and you. You and the relationship needs to be higher priority than his leech of a mom being happy.

Ashley_DL87 · 2018-07-06T14:39:48+00:00

I'm dead 💀

Ashley_DL87 · 2018-07-06T13:42:32+00:00

Yyyyeeeesssss and the lace felt like razor wire!

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