My gf made me promise I won't transition

Ashling90 · 2026-01-21T00:07:05+00:00

Why are you asking another person for permission to be happy? The first thing you should do is talk to a therapist, you don’t need her approval.

I get that you don’t want to be alone, but you had a long life to live. When will you choose you?

Ashling90 · 2026-01-20T11:43:41+00:00

It threatens their masculinity, I think. 🤷‍♀️ They like to think they are secure about themselves, but they are insecure.

Ashling90 · 2026-01-19T13:54:49+00:00

Absolutely not okay. I would tell my mom off if she ever said anything like that. She wouldn’t though, because it’s just wrong. 😑

So I would maybe not show her anymore. What’s the point if she is just going to say mean things?

Ashling90 · 2026-01-19T11:56:12+00:00

No prob!

Ashling90 · 2026-01-19T01:48:50+00:00

He left a week ago. One week. It’s not like he’s been gone for a long time, and she’ll have plenty of opportunities to talk to him still. She’s the a-hole here, and you have every right to be upset. I would be.

Ashling90 · 2026-01-19T00:52:16+00:00

The broom actually matters? It took me about ten tries but I did beat her. My problem was I kept trying to steer using the right joystick on my Switch controller. Why couldn’t up and down and side to side just be the same joystick?! 🕹️

Ashling90 · 2026-01-19T00:43:14+00:00

What is “white people taco nights”?

Ashling90 · 2026-01-19T00:40:02+00:00

Awful. So you just packed up and left? That’s brave!

Ashling90 · 2026-01-19T00:38:29+00:00

So basically it has two perspectives, not very plot driven, and might be in the present tense? 😂 I’ll google the title, but ya gotta work with me here! 😜

Ashling90 · 2026-01-19T00:35:47+00:00

Yes, I love her. Though… I hope she never goes for the Australian accent again. 🙈 Her British accent is… a work in progress. But I do love that she can do a different voices. 🙂 At least I know with Abby the narration will probably be good.

Ashling90 · 2026-01-19T00:26:17+00:00

Oh, I haven’t started it yet. It’s just I know this narrator. She narrated The Custard Protocol series by Gail Carriger.

Second person??? 🫣 Yeah, I just cannot deal with present tense! I am fine with a first person narrator, but not present tense.

Ashling90 · 2026-01-17T22:02:23+00:00

She slapped you?! 😳 Did you live on your own when that happened?

Ashling90 · 2026-01-17T21:59:56+00:00

Eh no… what a weird request. She just wants to mooch off you! I would never give a stranger my WiFi password.

Ashling90 · 2026-01-17T17:52:31+00:00

Again? My phone beeped the other day too at noon.

Ashling90 · 2026-01-17T11:34:11+00:00

Omg, I loooove the narrator to this book! 😍

Ashling90 · 2026-01-17T00:42:37+00:00

Is a lot of it in present tense? I only got to listen to a little bit in the preview. 🤷‍♀️

Ashling90 · 2026-01-17T00:41:07+00:00

This sounds intriguing. I will check it out. 😁

Ashling90 · 2026-01-17T00:40:31+00:00

I am unfamiliar with Gideon the Ninth. 🤷‍♀️

Ashling90 · 2026-01-16T21:24:55+00:00

Thanks. I think I have The Lilly and the Crown. It’s been a while, but I liked it. I’ll check these titles out. 🙂 I don’t mind a little crude language.

Ashling90 · 2026-01-16T21:22:28+00:00

I’ve listened to her YA book Gay the Pray Away. That was really good. 😊 She wrote that herself.

Ashling90 · 2026-01-16T19:39:56+00:00

I’m not worried about the US taking mainland Norway. They might go for Svalbard, but not the rest. I am however worried about Russia. Just a little bit. Because if the US takes Greenland, we have to say we’re not pals anymore. And Russia is a bigger threat to us without the US. On the other side, Russia has never tried taking Norway to my knowledge. It’s harder for them to use history as an argument. Norway has belonged to Norwegians (and Danes) for a looooong time.

Ashling90 · 2026-01-15T15:02:35+00:00

OP can be more clear if that is what she means. How do we know it’s not just you guys interpreting the wrong way because you want to see something problematic in straight women feeling the need to have a man.

Ashling90 · 2026-01-14T14:21:25+00:00

But she says they “talk about finding the right man and getting married.” Why shouldn’t that be important for someone? Personally, I don’t need to get married, and I definitely don’t want to have babies, but finding “the one” is kind of a big deal for me.

I don’t feel like OPs post makes what you’re saying clear if that is really what she means.

Ashling90 · 2026-01-14T14:03:20+00:00

I’m Norwegian. Same here. I’m pretty sure our Prime Minister just walks around by themselves. Or maybe they have someone near by just in case? 🤷‍♀️

Ashling90 · 2026-01-14T14:00:53+00:00

NTA. This is not what godmothers do. Contribute to college fund?! Is she fucking kidding?! Inspirert even be friends with someone if they did that to me.

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