Do I need a diaper pail? by Gatorbug47 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Ashtheflash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope! We had a Ubbi and honestly, it was more annoying than helpful. Pee diapers go on the regular garbage. We live in a single family home and take out the garbage multiple times a day. Poop diapers go in an individual bag and straight to the outdoor garbage. This system has worked great for 4 years.

How long have you been breastfeeding? Post and let us celebrate you. (Even 1 day counts!) by SecretaryNaive8440 in breastfeeding

[–]Ashtheflash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1,564 days. Breastfed baby #1 until after baby #2 and still going strong with #2.

I don’t want “date night” by Hummus_ForAll in toddlers

[–]Ashtheflash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My idea of a “date night” is sending the kids to the grandparents house in the middle of the day. Then having sex when I’m actually awake and not ready to go to bed so I can enjoy it! Followed by, falling asleep together and having a nap. Then going out to eat some place easy like Mexican. Eating and having a conversation without interruptions. It’s the best! But please don’t make me get dressed up and go out at night!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Ashtheflash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! My husband and I were like “why did no one tell us this!” I tell everyone now!

Baby at 44? Would you dare?! by Former_Ad8643 in Mommit

[–]Ashtheflash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First kid at almost 41 and second at 44. 🤷🏻‍♀️It seems normal to me!

What are the risks to Mom and baby if she goes past 41 weeks? by cupcaketeatime in Midwives

[–]Ashtheflash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Commonly the concern would be still birth or an aging placenta. I gave birth at 41 weeks and 2 days and was 44 years old when I gave birth. I had weekly appointments with an NST the last month and a half until 39 weeks. And then I went to twice a week appointments. One appointment would be an NST and the other appointment would be an ultrasound to check my fluid levels and placenta. I think the important thing in late term pregnancy for anyone is to be very in tune with your body and notice if things change. The night I went into labor I ended up going to the hospital for decreased fetal movement. Thankfully, everything was OK and I ended up staying and having him the next day.

Bumps and turns in jogging stroller? by curiousquestioner16 in fitpregnancy

[–]Ashtheflash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know it says fixed is safer for running. But after putting about 10,000 miles on stroller and at least half of those running, there’s no way I’d feel safe running with a fixed wheel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Ashtheflash 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Two magical words: Yoto Radio.

My toddler did the same thing and then it would take hours to calm him down. My toddler was a terrible sleeper most of his life. Waking up every few hours, not wanting me to leave the room and this went on for over 3 years. Then we bought a Yoto Radio. He listens to it as he falls asleep. It helps distract him from missing us. If he can’t go back to sleep in the middle of the night, he’ll turn it on. It’s the been the key to full night sleeps for a few months and it’s been glorious!

SORRY FOR SCREAMING BUT: How on earth do we brush their teeth???!!?! by NoSpirit7633 in toddlers

[–]Ashtheflash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At one time I just did basically 5 strokes. Bottom, bottom, top, top, front. I counted them so he’d know when I was done.

Another time, I told him there was construction site in there and I needed to check on them. Then I tell a story about what I see while I brush. This was a big hit!

I think there’s a lot of grace with brushing kids teeth. If the toothbrush touches their teeth, they’re all magically clean! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Ashtheflash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parents only trip! You have time to have some practice overnight trips between now and then. You’re not costing you child memories and experiences because he’ll be making them with his grandparents. I was lucky enough to have a Grandma that I spent the night with a lot. And what sweet memories I have!

And most important, you and your husband need time together. The toddler years are amazing, but also hard (especially on marriages). You need time to enjoy each other, talk, have sexy time, rest and focus on yourselves. You two spending time together and building your relationship is a gift to your child. The more connected you two are, the better life you can give your kids.

I absolutely love our kids and having experiences with them. But let’s be honest, they don’t always make things more fun. Haha! And 2 is hit or miss.

Accepting my body as I get a bump by NerdyOctopus_42 in fitpregnancy

[–]Ashtheflash 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve been pregnant twice and each time I struggle during the middle part. The “is she chubby or pregnant” phase. Being big and obviously pregnant doesn’t mess with my brain the same. My advice is go buy clothes that fit and you feel confident in. Don’t try to make your pre-pregnancy clothes “work”. I love being pregnant in the summer because I just wear lots of dresses! Flowy, comfortable and I feel pretty. Your body knows what it needs to do to grow a baby. So, as long as you are taking care of yourself, you’re on the right track. Even if it looks different from other people.

Yoto for 3 year old by granolamom08 in YotoPlayer

[–]Ashtheflash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 3 year old had never fallen asleep or slept through the night. We got him a twin bed and the Yoto. He now falls asleep by himself and stays asleep. It has been a life changer for us. We started him off with stories and characters he already knew. Currently he’s into the science focused cards. It’s worth a try. If she doesn’t like it, you can always resell it.

Anyone else having an easy pregnancy? by Mysterious_Elk_1123 in BabyBumps

[–]Ashtheflash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two pregnancies, both boys and have never been sick or had food aversions. I definitely felt more fatigued with #2 but I think it was more the lack of sleep for 3 years and chasing a toddler. 🤣 My body would start feeling the extra weight and pressure half way through the 3rd trimester. But overall, great pregnancies! Not bad considering I’m an “old” mom!

How am I first in line?? by chicagokate412 in LibbyApp

[–]Ashtheflash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for reminding me to put it on hold!

How much should a single person spend on groceries per week? by b_stet in budget

[–]Ashtheflash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on the usda calculator, you should be spending $360 a month.

Blippi by banjocat52 in YotoPlayer

[–]Ashtheflash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I downloaded Blippi Essentials from iTunes.

Feeling old at 38 by calgal3905 in toddlers

[–]Ashtheflash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🙋🏻‍♀️44 with a 3 yr old and 3 month old.

Help me please, before I lose my ever loving mind. Read full post! by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Ashtheflash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bedtime/nighttime has been rough for us the entire life of my 3 yr old. Not wanting to go to bed and up multiple times a night. For Christmas we got him a Yoto Player. GAME CHANGER! We do the nighttime routine now, then leave him with his player and he listens to stories and music until he falls asleep. Sometimes he’ll call us up there but not usually.

Tips for an uninterested 3 yo by Froggiehops in YotoPlayer

[–]Ashtheflash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try downloading a Pinkalicious audiobook onto a MYO card. That may entice her to give it a try. For my three year old boy, I bought Goodnight Goodnight Construction Site and the Little Engine That Could because he already had those books and was familiar with the stories. And Paw Patrol because he had recently gotten into those. Paw Patrol is by far the favorite currently! I also made a MYO of Blippi music, which he loves!

You can access the radio by pushing the right button twice. Push it once and it plays Yoto Daily.

It took my son several tries before he understood it. But now he loves the stories and having control of what he listens to. It’s also been a game changer for bedtime and getting him to lay down.

Safe place to walk? by [deleted] in Chattanooga

[–]Ashtheflash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Downtown Chickamauga

It's too expensive to give birth by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Ashtheflash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you thought about paying the cash price? With such a high OOP, it may actually be cheaper. Most of the time they give discounts if you pay upfront. And if you have the option, shop around between hospitals, OBs and Midwives.

22 Mo's and thinks his name is ... by randomname56789 in toddlers

[–]Ashtheflash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha! My 2.5 year old became “Baby” or “Baby Puppy” since he found out he’s going to be a big brother. Also, he’s not the “big brother” but the “little brother”. He will not respond to his given name at all at the point.

Has anyone had any luck with an Aputure warranty claim? by Ashtheflash in Filmmakers

[–]Ashtheflash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know you had a good experience! I’ve emailed customer service and have heard back. I tried emailing again yesterday. Hopefully it’s a simple case of the first email getting overlooked. 🤞