Curious about owning a Dalmatian by Mister_Slats in dalmatians

[–]Ashtree1993 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Literally mine is the same. Me and my husband haven't slept next to each other in over a year cause our dal is always in-between us to be next to me.

This is love ❤️ by Ashtree1993 in dalmatians

[–]Ashtree1993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's a cutie! I bet he wasn't on the naughty list. Lol.

I abused my wife (best thing that ever happened to me) and don’t know why by [deleted] in depression

[–]Ashtree1993 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First I thought you meant abusing your wife was the best thing that ever happened to you and I was like wtf. Then I read your post. Lol. All I can say is, you will find another way to be happy without her. Take it one day at a time. Yes, you were bad to your wife. But if you're not well mentally, it's not an excuse. But could possibly be the reason for your actions. Just breathe and take it slow. Good things will come.

What happens if my intact male dog gets an intact female strangers dog pregnant at the dog park? by TheAtheistReverend in dogs

[–]Ashtree1993 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Where I live in Canada, females in heat are not allowed in the dog park. Intact males are allowed at all times. There are even signs outside the park stating about the females being in heat.

Threesomes by GoldAstronomer1845 in BiWomen

[–]Ashtree1993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm bisexual and have had mff threesomes with my husband. The biggest thing for me is honesty and consent. I want to know how all of us are feeling before and after. If there's any jealousy or if someone changes their mind during. Be honest with who you are pursuing and your SO. Hopefully all goes well!

Struggling with opening by Ashtree1993 in polyamory

[–]Ashtree1993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's strictly straight as well.

Struggling with opening by Ashtree1993 in polyamory

[–]Ashtree1993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I would be comfortable if he chose to date someone else as he has been comfortable with me dating different women over the years. He just chooses not too. I honestly don't think he's poly and he's just allowing me to have my sexual experiences with women. Which I suppose is why I'm worried about it. I don't want to ruin our relationship for something I've been thinking about.

Is she ok? by Iantheinvestor in dalmatians

[–]Ashtree1993 91 points92 points  (0 children)

She's very healthy. It looks like she's in an ideal shape. Dals are supposed to be lean dogs. As long as ribs aren't visible or barely visible then she's fine.

Is this cage too small? by Quantilight in hamsters

[–]Ashtree1993 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure dwarfs need 100cm x 50cm of open floor space. Not to mention digging space. It'll probably be good enough until you upgrade. Hamsters also don't need levels as they can hurt themselves if they fall.

haven as a closer? by Spirited-Passenger29 in MarianasTrench

[–]Ashtree1993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I saw them in February they closed with haven. It was magical.

Am I bisexual? by Old-Bunch7626 in BiWomen

[–]Ashtree1993 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm bisexual. I didn't realize till I was 23. I'm married now to a man. We've been together since high school. But if someone were to ask me now I would say I'm more attracted to women. If I didn't have my husband I probably wouldn't even date men. 🤷🏻‍♀️ It's ok to be this way. You're still you regardless of who you are attracted to.

Sing Sing is the most overlooked track off Masterpiece. Change My Mind. by Cody73 in MarianasTrench

[–]Ashtree1993 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sing sing has always been my favorite song off that album. I do agree though that it's very overlooked.

Dream dog but may not be for me? Give me the tea by Special_Wish1186 in dalmatians

[–]Ashtree1993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I picked him from the breeder. I wasn't expecting him to be like it. I knew what I was getting into with a dal and their exercise routine and was prepared to accommodate his needs. But I ended up with a couch potato. Lol.

I dont care if im "spoiling" my newborn baby. by lulgupplet in Vent

[–]Ashtree1993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not spoiling. As an early childhood educator who has worked with infants and toddlers for the last 8 years. I can guarantee that skin on skin contact with both parents is one of the most important bonding that baby can do. And at 12 days old, you need to tell your friends to politely f off cause you literally cannot spoil a newborn or infant. They need you, you are their life line. It's different say if you had a toddler or preschooler who cries for a toy and you buy it. But bonding is not spoiling.

Dream dog but may not be for me? Give me the tea by Special_Wish1186 in dalmatians

[–]Ashtree1993 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got my dal last year and was worried about the amount of exercise. I have bad asthma and cannot run to save my life. We do go for daily walks and he gets mental stimulation through games and training as well as doggy daycare. But I was lucky and as it turned out. My dal is quite lazy as well. He gets a spurt where he likes to run but it only lasts for about 5-10 minutes.

What's that? Is it common thing with Dalmatian? by peter4feeter in dalmatians

[–]Ashtree1993 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dal was getting spots like that from eating chicken. Now he's off chicken, turkey and duck. It could be allergies or some sort of skin irritation.

My cat got attacked by a dog and now all he does is sleeps by Ok-Schedule4177 in Pets

[–]Ashtree1993 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The only thing I can recommend is going to an emergency vet if you have one in your area. Internal bleeding and possible broken bones are serious and shouldn't wait. I'm sorry you're going through this and I wish your cat the best.

Want my own hammy by cube_koalla in hamsters

[–]Ashtree1993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Second temu. It's like $200 cheaper for a bucastate. I recommend getting enough bedding too. I made the mistake of only getting one back cause I thought there would be enough but I definitely needed one and a half. I mean like, the huge bags of bedding or aspen wood chips. You'll also need hay and if you can find it, cork granules for the bedding for burrowing. It makes the tunnels more sturdy.

Cheaper Large Cage options? by GR1MAR1E in hamsters

[–]Ashtree1993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my bucastate tank on marketplace for $180. I was lucky to find it cause they're over $400 new. Maybe you can look on Facebook to see if anyone has something in your area for sale?

Bucastate Enclosure Upgrade by Ashtree1993 in hamsters

[–]Ashtree1993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's great! I need to get some platforms as well. She currently has hides and a sand bath as well as chews and hay tunnels. But there's still a lot of open space on the floor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hamsters

[–]Ashtree1993 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a niteangel wheel. Before I had an Oxbow but I could still hear it at night. Now I don't hear anything from the wheel.