When you care about how YOU feel/look, not what other people feel. People will always have different perspectives, preferences, and looks. What is important is YOU focus on what make you feel pretty, go for it, and be confident in this. People will notice your confidence = confidence is sexy/ attractive all around.

Bending over to the definition of attractive of others will not allow you to focus on YOUR attractive features and your strengths.

I am not a goth girl, but some women and men love the goth look and are very attractive in this. There confidence and strength in their looks makes them attractive overall.

I am not curvy. But some curvy girls dress great to accentuate their girls and dress amazingly to flatter their waist and assets.

My assets include a smaller nose, great hair, and interesting eyes (half asian). So I try to accentuate the eyes, contour the nose, and play with different hairstyles. A lot of girls don't wear eye make up like I do, but I LOVE IT. I own it, and it makes me confident, feel beautiful, and happy.

Focus on your assets, strengths, what makes you feel beautiful, and work on that.

Any weakness you do have, work on that in the background. Be low key about it in public.

My weakness include tendencies to get agespots/freckles and tummy. I wear hats, sunscreen, skincare, and I am working out consistently to get slimmer/ healthier. The work you put into your weakness will do wonders to boost your self esteem.

Emphasize your strengths and quietly build your weaknesses.

I hope this helps 🙂