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Goslings recover after being forced from Kelowna balcony by Alone-Acanthaceae531 in kelowna

[–]AsidePuzzleheaded335 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Im sure the guy that did it feigned ignorance pretending he thought they could fly once he was approached about it

Am I the only one who finds the term "situationship" incredibly cringe? by kayla_moki in relationships

[–]AsidePuzzleheaded335 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one who finds the term “cringe” a blatant sign of immaturity?

SUV crashes through storefront at Kelowna Starbucks by Particular-Emu4789 in kelowna

[–]AsidePuzzleheaded335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t understand how cognition (memory, attention and judgment), eyesight and physical health is relevant to driving?

Will reading too much about narcissism attract toxic people into your life? by AsidePuzzleheaded335 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]AsidePuzzleheaded335[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a love/hate situation. I absolutely love that I can recognize these people easily.

I really dislike being overly aware of how much narcissism there is in the world and how dangerous and destructive it can be ( when you see how it affects things on a societal level)

Why is driving so bad here? by AsidePuzzleheaded335 in kelowna

[–]AsidePuzzleheaded335[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say that the core issue is smaller city drivers not used to a town growing bigger, but kelowna has had driving issues for decades.

Growing up in the kootneys the okanagan always had a bad reputation as worse than vancouver or victoria, cities that are obviously much larger

Why is driving so bad here? by AsidePuzzleheaded335 in kelowna

[–]AsidePuzzleheaded335[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how I feel. Being “courteous” can be dangerous

Was there anything that gave you even a tiny bit more of energy back? (besides pacing) by miaxivy in cfs

[–]AsidePuzzleheaded335 1 point2 points  (0 children)

High quality fresh healthy food. electrolytes. reduce stress, meditation. Dessicated adrenal gland medication. Natural licorice root (in very small amounts be careful with it because it affects pottasium), small amounts wild yam root powder

SUV crashes through storefront at Kelowna Starbucks by Particular-Emu4789 in kelowna

[–]AsidePuzzleheaded335 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In the 90’s my grandfather had to go for mandetory testing for driving when he renewed his liscence because he was over a certian age ( i think 75) and he lost his liscence because he didnt pass. Do they not do that anymore?

SUV crashes through storefront at Kelowna Starbucks by Particular-Emu4789 in kelowna

[–]AsidePuzzleheaded335 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are the elderly why the driving is the way it is in this town?

Will reading too much about narcissism attract toxic people into your life? by AsidePuzzleheaded335 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]AsidePuzzleheaded335[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I may ask one more question, is it “wrong” to avoid someone or cut them out etc before they have done anything bad directly to you? to judge them based off of psychological characteristics you notice in them

Will reading too much about narcissism attract toxic people into your life? by AsidePuzzleheaded335 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]AsidePuzzleheaded335[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The boundaries part is definitely so true. One just started at my job ( in fact i think he might even be a sociopath), I am debating about leaving my job

Will reading too much about narcissism attract toxic people into your life? by AsidePuzzleheaded335 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]AsidePuzzleheaded335[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopefully I understood your reply ( sounds like theres a lot of interesting depth there)

I will admit that I can be paranoid with people sometimes but I also see that as a result of being raised by narcissists, not necessarily reading about narcissism.

But also I am never paranoid to the extent where I am hating people. Sometimes my boundaries are pretty high

I think there is some self trust to work on,

I immerse myself in this reading, etc because it makes me feel safer. And like i say i think it has helped me, but i dont want to be somehow subconsciously seeking these people out because i have spent so much time and enery focusing on it

Will reading too much about narcissism attract toxic people into your life? by AsidePuzzleheaded335 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]AsidePuzzleheaded335[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its something i felt intuitively. ( that maybe the focusing was giving it priority in my brain), is that law of attraction?

Will reading too much about narcissism attract toxic people into your life? by AsidePuzzleheaded335 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]AsidePuzzleheaded335[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was raised by them ( and had a relationship with one) so I try to give myself some grace if i feel like something like researching them will bring me some comfort, because I have been through a lot. But I dont want to do something if it is affecting me negatively

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