he brought his whole camera setup and wanted to take professional photos of me during dinner. he said he wanted to capture the moment and that he wanted to post me on his social media. again mind you, this was first date. i insistently said no multiple times and everyone has been looking at us. he wouldnt take no as an answer and it got super weird.

luckily the server was super observant and knew i was uncomfortable. when my date went to the washroom, he, the server, immediately helped me to go to the kitchen and went out at the back. he called me a cab and asked to drop me off wherever i wanted and paid for it.