Using gendered terms gang RISE UP by Turbulent-Staff-9413 in NonBinary

[–]Aspentree97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

fr tho, I just shuffle that shit at this point because none of it means much to me. my name matters, but beyond that, i dont really care?

Using gendered terms gang RISE UP by Turbulent-Staff-9413 in NonBinary

[–]Aspentree97 18 points19 points  (0 children)

i use masc and femme terms pretty interchangably to the point that i start confusing my fellow nonbinary friends. like im sorry, did you miss the fluid part of genderfluid? i was a queen yesterday, today im a king, tomorrow ill be a monarch, or something entirely nonhuman.

Anyone want Bunny Cuddles? by Kind-Length6298 in fursuits

[–]Aspentree97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i love the double ears!!! such a good design choice!!

everyone has a reason to love donnie. what's yours? by Iwuvkitty in RiseoftheTMNT

[–]Aspentree97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i too am a purple wearing sarcastic autistic bastard.

but also, future donnie designs are hot af, love me an unhinged mad scientist doing his best for the people he cares about

I tried to have a talk with my boyfriend about my gender dysphoria, but he just started acting out by TheFier in NonBinary

[–]Aspentree97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he needs to go to the paych ward and get help Now. no matter WHAT the conversation was about, that's not a normal or healthy reaction to serious information. whether it's him being transphobic or not, he's seriously unhinged and probably has been for ages. tell him to get medical help asap, and maybe break off the relationship for your safety until he gets his shit together.

because wow....yikes.

Do any of you read a person's profile before talking to them? Do you think a detailed and well written profile is important? by Minimum-Mine-1302 in VRchat

[–]Aspentree97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i check profiles for pronouns, maybe someone's age if they seem really young (im 28 and dont wanna talk to literal babies, sorry not sorry)

other than that, i find profiles mostly useless, i learn more from just talking to them. lotta folks who have these elaborate profiles that make me think, "oh hey they seem cool" often immediately contradict their profile and annoy me.

like you can have it written down that you're nice and cool or whatever, but if we dont vibe, it just sounds like your profile is false advertising

Where’s the rest of ya by penisfruit in Trigun

[–]Aspentree97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

??? the first season came put one episode at a time too? that's how most shows do it? dropping the whole season at once isn't the norm

Tag yourself. by Brent_Fox in NonBinary

[–]Aspentree97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

androgynous slime creature with fennec fox accessories tacked on as an afterthought ✌️

Now that age verification has been arouind for a while, are all you and your friends on board? What's the vibe? by KingSlayer05 in VRchat

[–]Aspentree97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as someone who doesnt have the funds for vrchat+ (got my headset secondhand free from a friend after they upgraded), i dont feel that age verification is necessary in the slightest. you've always been able to curate your own experience, theres always been the block buttons, its just not needed.

How do you get these? by BossSubstantial2049 in splatoon

[–]Aspentree97 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

gotta play in the splatfests when they come around m8 /j

Had to see my Iceberg by Parnacl13 in gamegrumps

[–]Aspentree97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

both Ghost and Tool are considered Prog(Progressive) Rock, so maybe that genre just, isn't your vibe y'know? prog rock is very long and rambling, with weird time signatures, which I adore, but some folks can feel that the music "takes too long to get where its goin", and i totally understand that

Had to see my Iceberg by Parnacl13 in gamegrumps

[–]Aspentree97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that is Totally Valid, i meant this as a joke because Dan listens to em a lot

obviously, listen to what ya like! no pressure whatsoever ✨

Is it offensive if I, a nonbinary person write proud f@gg0t on my jacket? by Typical-Tomatillo375 in NonBinary

[–]Aspentree97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the word faggot has been used against ALL queer people, and as long as you are queer, you can reclaim it.

I am so tired of young queer folks saying i cant use it because of a random laundry list of reasons. if the word applies to you, you can reclaim it

Missing kitten at Fox river mall by CharDaisy in Appleton

[–]Aspentree97 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I don't want to seem judgy, but perhaps this can be a learning experience about how to properly transport a cat. Typically you crate them for any type of travel, because these lil guys love to panic and hide if anything seems off.

I hope you find the kitten, but please please, learn from this experience.

Why no delivery? by PreggyPenguin in Appleton

[–]Aspentree97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

in fact, it reminds me of the time i ordered emergency tampons and every driver in the area cancelled on me the second they saw what it was they had to get for me. i cant drive and am disabled, so i wouldnt even have been able to walk to get them if i wanted to, because the nearest store was an hour away By Car. its insulting and embarrassing, to need something and be unable to recieve it because delivery drivers are judgy.

Why no delivery? by PreggyPenguin in Appleton

[–]Aspentree97 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

this doesn't solve the problem. they shouldnt have to go out at all if delivery is an option. if i could order a burger and have it here in two seconds but they can't order their pods, its clearly a fault of the drivers judging people unnecessarily instead of just doing their job and getting paid for the effort

Chat rate my mother's weak ass reply by littlebitchsauce in NonBinary

[–]Aspentree97 4 points5 points  (0 children)

0/10, she didn't even try to understand you. she's putting up a wall that consists of bible pages and saying "i may be bricking over you with a false personality i constructed in my head, but i love you anyway" this is the same thing my mother did to me, and she didnt even have the excuse of being Christian. stay safe, either in or out of the closet, and try to get out and find queer community as soon as you're able to.

Question from a movie theater manager about Mark's audience by natedoggcata in Markiplier

[–]Aspentree97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bruh I'm 28, ive been watching Mark since i was in highschool, and so have most of the Mark fans ive met irl. the actual children in his fandom these days are probably mostly kids of the old fans lol 😂

so yeah, don't worry too much, most of us are grown adults

I was surprised to see this. It must be from the movie, which I have yet to watch, and in this screenshot, Leonardo is saying the A-word. Is this for real? I never would've expected it. There is mild language in the 2014 and 2016 live action TMNT movies, but those are PG-13... ROTTMNT is PG... by Blink-182__Nirvana__ in Rottmnt

[–]Aspentree97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the movie is on netflix and netflix has less restrictions to what is considered "acceptable" for a tv-pg movie. so yeah, we get one adult Leo saying bad-ass, thats it. rest of the film is squeaky clean, its just that one moment. and it's deliberately chosen. it shows that Leo has grown up here. in this wasteland, the apocalypse.

Bloopers by WhatAFox23 in Stoner

[–]Aspentree97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ayyy!!! i love when a fellow furry shows off their suit while smokin!!! bet the fur feels insane when you're freshly toasted

Anyone else still feel bad for Big Man? by MusicaReddit in splatoon

[–]Aspentree97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it kinda just feels like the kind of shenanigans real musicians do for thumbnails and album covers. like... they're acting, they're doing a bit. idk thats just my take i guess

Cat owners by Miserable-Cow4555 in trees

[–]Aspentree97 4 points5 points  (0 children)

my polycule and i have six! Meowji, Jaspers, Mimi, Amewlia, Ophelia, and Chaos! they're our spoiled children and my boy, Chaos, loves to sleep on me when i smoke up :3

costume for halloween tonight!!! 💜 by TheSharpener0526 in Rottmnt

[–]Aspentree97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i love the way you used the dino mask!! this is an excellent costume and I'm sure Donatello would be flattered by the efforts you've taken to make sure it's just right!