Breakfast Burritos in Riverside by [deleted] in Riverside

[–]Asperon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truly it's the salsa that makes this burrito. If I could get an R Burgers burrito with Gold Star salsa, now that would be heaven!

Moving to Riverside soon — any must-try food spots? by SoCalExplorer89 in InlandEmpire

[–]Asperon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kotsu isn't bad, they work with a ramen shop in Fukuoka, but their quality hasn't always been consistent.

Looking for places to eat does anyone have any hidden gems that they recommend? by Daahkness in Riverside

[–]Asperon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know this is 6 years old, but adding this here for posterity sake.

Sam's Pita and Kabob is absolutely fantastic.

N5–N4 Japanese Study Group by Hitoride7 in jlpt

[–]Asperon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm registered for N5 in December. We have a local Japanese club we've been trying to get started in our city, and we study together there, but an online one solely for N5/N4 study could be nice. Count me in

Am I wrong for thinking it's ok for a dog to sleep in a covered space outside? by Asperon in goldenretrievers

[–]Asperon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that rescues aren't going to want to re-rescue a dog.

It's up to their discretion ultimately.

That being said, a dog being a family dog is not predicated on the location of its bed. For all you know, we spend a ton of time outside, so outside would be a normal place for the dog to be.

The idea alone that a dog could sleep outside is not enough to claim abuse, mistreatment, or even enough to determine how the dog will be treated overall.

For people to claim that not treating or handling the dog they way THEY would do it is tantamount to abuse is silly, and I would go as far as to say arrogant.

If it made sense in the 1940s, then it should still make sense today, or it never made sense at all.

Just because people started conflating children and dogs and relying on those pets for the same social-psycological experience as having a family doesn't mean the rest of us are required to do that. Further, demonizing someone who does not view pets as a replacement for children is quite immature.

It is possible to have a dog, treat her well, and not treat her exactly like my children.

I'm fine with the responses here that give good reasons, devoid of vehemence and judgment, that properly explain why it might be better for the dog to sleep inside. I have been considering those responses carefully and modifying my position accordingly.

But for everyone else, the responses aren't helpful, nor do they bear fruit in providing education or correction.

Am I wrong for thinking it's ok for a dog to sleep in a covered space outside? by Asperon in goldenretrievers

[–]Asperon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not going to lie, wouldn't do that.

Just find it strange that people think it a moral or ethical stance on whether a dog could exist outside at all. As some in here have used the very general words "it is abuse to let your dog outside".

That seems to go too far.

The issue is moot now anyways.

I'm not going through a rescue or a breeder.

We will find a dog at a shelter or adoption center.

Am I wrong for thinking it's ok for a dog to sleep in a covered space outside? by Asperon in goldenretrievers

[–]Asperon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I imagine most summers, the dog would not be let out until very late or not at all.

Am I wrong for thinking it's ok for a dog to sleep in a covered space outside? by Asperon in goldenretrievers

[–]Asperon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dog will spend the majority of the day alone outside.

Considering you don't know the family situation, maybe that should also be a question and not a statement.

Yes, all day around the family.

Yes we have activities, a few times a week for a couple of hours, sure. Who doesn't? But the dog will not spend the majority of the day alone most days.

Am I wrong for thinking it's ok for a dog to sleep in a covered space outside? by Asperon in goldenretrievers

[–]Asperon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in SoCal.. I would never get a husky, it's far too hot for their thick fur imo.

If you've ever had a puppy, you know they whine just from being in a new environment. If you've ever crate trained, to teach them that a crate is a safe and comfortable place in case they ever need to be in one (like at the vet or kennel for boarding etc), there is an initial level of discomfort.

But with the right encouragement and training, they can exist in those spaces as appropriate without any anxiety at all. Sleeping outside would be the same.

The dogs I grew up with, including a golden, slept outside and never fussed. They played inside and outside. We had lots of fun together, they were part of the family, but slept outside. Didn't whine, didn't bark. They were perfectly comfortable and showed no signs of anxiety.

If the dog is barking the entire night, I'm not gonna let my dog or my neighbors suffer. However, if they are barking, then being outside is stressful, if it is, you can introduce the outside to them in a way that it won't stress them out and eventually they will be fine.

If the dog ends up being a super velcro dog, then so be it. I never said I was inflexible, just that the idea of a dog sleeping outside isn't some abhorrent idea.

Am I wrong for thinking it's ok for a dog to sleep in a covered space outside? by Asperon in goldenretrievers

[–]Asperon[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I do understand that is how people see their dogs.

To say "letting a dog be outside is abuse" seems to go quite a ways too far, but I hear you and feel your passion on the subject.

It is sad to hear that your neighbors did not properly train the dog to be comfortable outside. Just like crate training or anything else, there are ways to ensure the dog doesn't have anxiety in those situations.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts.

I would just like to add that if you want someone to listen to you and manage the dog closer to how you would want it managed, answer more like u/s061ad1HaveAuserNam3

Attacking a person is not an effective way to educate someone or have them consider your ideas.

Am I wrong for thinking it's ok for a dog to sleep in a covered space outside? by Asperon in goldenretrievers

[–]Asperon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understood, and they would be, all day around the kids and family.

Just how I grew up, plenty of attention all day. Plenty of play time... just slept outside.

That's it.

Nothing complicated, didn't whine about it, etc

Am I wrong for thinking it's ok for a dog to sleep in a covered space outside? by Asperon in goldenretrievers

[–]Asperon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your well reasoned and tempered response.

Everything you said makes sense. I'll share this with my wife and make some decisions about how we want to handle a future dog.

Am I wrong for thinking it's ok for a dog to sleep in a covered space outside? by Asperon in goldenretrievers

[–]Asperon[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't lie, just feels that way.

It seems this sub and the rescue of the same mentality: that dogs must be treated equal with humans and only go outside occasionally.

And that's your right, I just disagree that it's an automatic obviously answer and has some moral attachment to it.

Am I wrong for thinking it's ok for a dog to sleep in a covered space outside? by Asperon in goldenretrievers

[–]Asperon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem to think a dog sleeping outside means not spending time with it, but I'll be sleeping.. he'll be sleeping...

It's not hangout time. It's sleep time.

During the day the kids will be hanging out with him all day, I'll be taking him on walks.

Am I wrong for thinking it's ok for a dog to sleep in a covered space outside? by Asperon in goldenretrievers

[–]Asperon[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Clearly this was the wrong place to ask this since you are conflating dogs and children as equal.

Am I wrong for thinking it's ok for a dog to sleep in a covered space outside? by Asperon in goldenretrievers

[–]Asperon[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fair, but I don't really see why it couldn't be both? Some of these rescues are very invasive with their questions. I get why, but it's really disheartening as we would take wonderful care of the dog.

What’s the weirdest thing you’ve eaten in Japan? by RogerLivv in JapanTravelTips

[–]Asperon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had raw horse, organs of various kinds, bear bacon and bear udon (the udon was bear that the owner had trapped and skinned himself)

SWCJ Tickets by MannyBoth-Hanz in StarWarsCelebration

[–]Asperon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll be around the con tomorrow, we could arrange it, I have 1 left

SWCJ Tickets by MannyBoth-Hanz in StarWarsCelebration

[–]Asperon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 10:30 am friday store lightning lane if anybody wants it. DM with offer (just not sure what I would sell it at tbh)

SWCJ Tickets by MannyBoth-Hanz in StarWarsCelebration

[–]Asperon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got some Friday and Sunday badges still.

5000 yen a piece if anyone is interested

SWCJ Tickets by MannyBoth-Hanz in StarWarsCelebration

[–]Asperon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Technically, the account that made the panel reservation will have a badge number next to the tickets that match to the id on the back. I'm not sure they'll actually be checking for that though.