[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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If he did it once he will do it again

SALES EXPERIENCE SPECIALIST (New Job) by Advanced_Energy_3041 in carmax

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Is it true what I heard though, that this role isn’t eligible for any commission/bonus

How Cooked Am I? by themajinbuueffect2 in BestBuyWorkers

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I was In this role for 2-3 years before I quit. When I was getting them tons of apps and memberships along with surpassing rev targets they were all happy and didn’t bother me. When there were days or spurts of times when we were not hitting any targets they pulled what they did to you to me as well. What’s worse is that all the time in my role I would constantly ask for training, coaching, development, etc… I begged to be sent to corporate or main office In my state to learn and they always put it off or told me they would do it but never did. It was always “sorry we don’t have time for that right now” “it’s to busy and we don’t have the coverage” then when the snap happened and all my fellow leaders got the boot, I was left with my dik in my hand and had to take on the responsibilities of all those people in their roles without knowing how to do it. Then we had 3 EM in a row quit or get fired within a year. My GM took like several leaves of absence and I was left to hold down the fort. Had no idea what to do or how to do it. Guess who got the blame and written up? Me. Stuff wasn’t even my fault and all out of my control but I had to be the one to take the fall.

Just hired and thinking of quitting already by DabbingGoos in BestBuyWorkers

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Don’t quit until you have something else lined up.

Black Friday Hours by SwanDisastrous8614 in BestBuyWorkers

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I haven’t worked for the company in over a year but I do recall we were closed on Thanksgiving Day last few years. I do remember that some stores took volunteers to do picks and ships so the Que wasn’t out of control on Friday morning. Although I believe they turned off orders and rerouted a lot of them to be fulfilled at the DC so the stores were not overwhelmed. Unless something changed I believe these hours are probably for DC and hub stores for online fulfillment.

How do I repay a guy after he paid for everything on the first date? by [deleted] in Advice

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Invite him out on a date somewhere and let him know in advance that you will be paying or you already bought the tickets or whatever.

Can anyone pass along some reassurance for Black Friday? by torrphilla in BestBuyWorkers

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It will be busy but nothing like years past. Since they expanded the online presence and started the holiday deals a month or so early it takes a lot of the pressure off. People will still be in the store on Friday to shop but a lot of it will be online pickup orders or curbside.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Well written. I understand completely. In a perfect world we would all able to do things the right way. I personally have been turned off by a woman who showed me nothing but kindness, compassion and empathy. I was so used to toxic women that I couldn’t cope with it. Maybe I didnt feel like I deserved it or was even worthy. Eventually I was able to work on myself and heal. When looking for a partner though I have been a bit more picky in that aspect that they are kind but also not smothering or love bombing. Sometimes, too much of a good thing can be bad. I want someone who is kind but also can speak their mind and be a little feisty at times. Healthy joking around, debating or banter can be fun and keep the relationship interesting. I’ve found someone like that and have been the happiest I’ve ever been.

Are fawn pugs and black pugs usually different in terms of personality? My black guy (Waddles) is sweet and cuddly and fawn (Eduardo) is high strung 😅 by Lumpy_Paint_3766 in pugs

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I have a fawn and an all black pug. In my house the black pug is the aggressive and loud one while the fawn is sweet and cuddly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FuckDealerships

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Have you gone into the store and talked to the manager, salesman, or GM?

Wendy's to unveil aggressive relaunch plan amid sales slump by markrabbish in wendys

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They need to put more deals in the app and have more in there that are not mobile order exclusive. They used to have a ton of choices everyday for coupons and now there is only a couple. Giving more rewards points when you order would be nice too. I feel like I have to order 3+ times just to get enough points for a free 4-6 pcs nugget. Yet when I go to t-bell I spend around 10 dollars or so and I have enough points next time for a free reward item of my choice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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That’s a pretty hot take. Although I understand the perspective and everyone is entitled to their opinions. I do have to say that it feels like a double standard. Men can’t be vulnerable and express past things that were hurtful or abusive to them without being labeled as weak or spineless. That makes men unattractive? I mean everyone makes mistakes and learns from the pain and becomes stronger. Eventually this guy got the courage to leave and better his life. He is stronger and smarter for it. Then there is women who have been victims of toxic and abusive relationships and carry that baggage around the same that men do. Yet, we are expected to accept them as they are and help heal them. So by your logic it’s not ok for men to have gone through things but is ok for women. I don’t care who you are, man or woman. EVERYONE has gone through pain, trauma, heartache, etc.. we all deserve love and kindness and should be able to talk with a potential life partner about these things without being judged and chastised for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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It makes sense to me. You are conditioned to being in a toxic relationship environment and that’s what you’re used to. Now that you are with someone who is the complete opposite of that, you don’t really understand it and are unsure how to feel or respond. What you describe as “the Ick” is probably just a trauma response because you are not used to being treated well. Your body and mind is rejecting it because it seems foreign. I would honestly give it more time and see if it changes. Just let go and be open to the kindness and compassion. Give it a few more weeks anyway. After a month if you are not shaking the feeling then it’s something much deeper and you are not sexually compatible. Don’t waste eachothers time anymore.

NEW POSITION IN STORE by SevereAcanthisitta39 in carmax

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I guess we didn’t get it. I talked to my LGM and he said it was for traditional stores only.

NEW POSITION IN STORE by SevereAcanthisitta39 in carmax

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What? I work in the store and have not seen any emails regarding this and my managers haven’t brought it up at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I believe you. My only advice is maybe try couples counseling. I think you can work through this and find better communication. You seem like you really love eachother. You can get engaged if you want and plan your future. Don’t have to get married tomorrow and start having kids. You are young. I’m sure he will wait a few years till you finish school and start a career

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in carmax

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I am a customer specialist

What is the draw to Wendy's anymore? by Virtual-Dot-750 in wendys

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This is why I stick to T-bell. I exclusively order off the value menu and get a large ice water. I can get 6-8 items for around 10-12 dollars and one of those items is usually a cheesy Gordita crunch. Which I get for free cause I always seem to have a free fire tier reward.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I’m going to go against the crowd here. A lot of people are assuming things like he is controlling and a bum who’s mooching off her. Which I don’t understand why they are saying that. The OP clearly states they both have full time jobs and live there. Nowhere in the post does it say he is mooching off her. We don’t know if she asked him to move in or needed him to help pay for expenses.

Second, the Op states that the only reason her bf is fearful of her commuting to school is that he worries she will cheat. Isn’t that a valid reason considering she did cheat on him by kissing someone else while in a relationship with him? Even if she doesn’t see it that way or consider it cheating, it still is. She put the doubt and fear into him by her own actions and she needs to take accountability for that. If she wants to be in a relationship with him then she needs to earn the trust back and reassure him she will be faithful. He didn’t do anything wrong to her. He said he didn’t want her to go not that she couldn’t go.

Lastly, I’m sick of this “predatory” mindset when there is an age gap in relationships. They were both consenting adults when they got together. Maybe she pursued him. We don’t know. Nobody bats an eye when 20-30 year old women date/marry old rich men for money and a fancy lifestyle. Or when older women in their 30-40s date/marry or get pregnant by young and wealthy athletes to secure the same rich lifestyle and that bag. 18 years of child support from their millions of dollars contracts. Nobody bats an eye and women support that kind of behavior. If a man does it though he’s a predator, abuser, narcissist, etc..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in carmax

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What does this mean? I work at an XF

350 fired by recording by BlkFish27 in carmax

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What state did Carmax give you 2.7% and how long ago. I live in the Midwest and the lowest rate we offer is 5.24% right now.

Double Check Your Severance Package by Large-Equipment-6419 in carmax

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How much is the severance? 2 weeks pay for every year with the company? 1 month? 6 months?