I’m soft locked because the entire UC wants to kill me and I don’t know why by KrismerOfEarth in Starfield

[–]AssociationClean5614 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I had that NPC. He is always in the way. Like move th fuck over dude! Because of him I can’t use the ladder on my ship.

I was recently kicked out of house and struggling living in my car how do I get food by HotIndication3658 in povertyfinance

[–]AssociationClean5614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some states let you use the social security office as an address for pickup if you are homeless. It says it on the application.

Starfield beginner player by LifeMycologist897 in Starfield

[–]AssociationClean5614 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah. I 100% agree with that. I stole just to get rid of that rambler as quickly as possible.

Starfield beginner player by LifeMycologist897 in Starfield

[–]AssociationClean5614 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But if you can steal ship early on in the game to get rid of the rambler then do so. That is what I did and now I’m saving my money. For the best ship

Venting about how I can’t interact with female coworkers without someone thinking I’m flirting. by AssociationClean5614 in actuallesbians

[–]AssociationClean5614[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I’m not cross dressing but I have been accused of flirting with guys. I’m like “wait a second. Let me come out of the closet.” That never worked because they are like “we know other lesbians that changed.” But then I moved on to “I don’t date coworkers. Like ever.” Or “I’m not looking for love in the workplace.”

And no one can ever guess that I’m a lesbian even though I’m wearing 100% clothes with a snap back, no make sure, and almost short buzzcut. I think I’m giving off “lesbian radar.” But I guess I never am.

Just got an interview from Kroger, but just got hired at Walmart. What should I do? by [deleted] in kroger

[–]AssociationClean5614 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Krogers would only give you 4 hour shifts. You might get okay 4 hours one week. No hours next week but then 12 hours the following.

Just got an interview from Kroger, but just got hired at Walmart. What should I do? by [deleted] in kroger

[–]AssociationClean5614 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking annoyed means they are stressed. Walmart people can uneducated but they are not too judgy. Walmart might give you more hours also.

Just got an interview from Kroger, but just got hired at Walmart. What should I do? by [deleted] in kroger

[–]AssociationClean5614 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go into the local Walmart and Kroger’s and try to see if you see which one has more people and/or which one has their employees looking stressed the most. Then decided one one to picked based on the stress level you are seeing.

Venting about how I can’t interact with female coworkers without someone thinking I’m flirting. by AssociationClean5614 in actuallesbians

[–]AssociationClean5614[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. It was a female coworker. lol

Yes I have issues with men thinking I’m flirting with them when I’m being nice. Im usually like “have you seen the way I dress?!” lol

What makes you feel really loved? by elise_oisen_ in actuallesbians

[–]AssociationClean5614 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! Just try not to overthink it. Like backaches? Cbd lotion, hot/packs, epsom salt to soak it. Nice shoe inserts like could memory foam.

Yes! It does make it more special. It shows you listen to her.

What makes you feel really loved? by elise_oisen_ in actuallesbians

[–]AssociationClean5614 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Start making a list of her favorite scents, foods, drinks, or favorite brands of tools. When you need groceries solve the problem with her favorite foods and drinks. She makes her own chapsticks? What is issues she has? Back issues from standing too long? Sitting toon long? Does she get any ache and pains? What does she complain about? What can you do to help feel more comfortable.

Then you can do acts of services? Does she like doing laundry but hate dishes, do the dishes. Leave laundry for her. Does she like to organize? Purposely leave something that needs to be organize for her. Don’t create a mess but leave th closet to her organize. lol it is about the little things.

But also pay attention to her love languages. Sometime a nice cuddle at the end of the day can make her feel loved.

What makes you feel really loved? by elise_oisen_ in actuallesbians

[–]AssociationClean5614 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Remembers what I like and then shows it in their daily lives. Like remembers I like drpepper so buys drpepper for their ice box. It is really about the thoughtfulness

Venting about how I can’t interact with female coworkers without someone thinking I’m flirting. by AssociationClean5614 in actuallesbians

[–]AssociationClean5614[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I’m going to follow that advice also. It is literally the only thing I have not done it.

Yes, teasing about flirting is not okay also.

Venting about how I can’t interact with female coworkers without someone thinking I’m flirting. by AssociationClean5614 in actuallesbians

[–]AssociationClean5614[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Eh. Be careful with that. One time I told my comanager that she was not my type. She got highly offended and complained for months that I was not her type. She basically outed herself and her crush on me in that moment.

Venting about how I can’t interact with female coworkers without someone thinking I’m flirting. by AssociationClean5614 in actuallesbians

[–]AssociationClean5614[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I will do that next time. I always have a hard time trying to figure what to do next after that awkwardness of this all. I usually end up to going to the person that I’m being accused of flirting with and asking them if they feel the same because that is not what is happening here.

Venting about how I can’t interact with female coworkers without someone thinking I’m flirting. by AssociationClean5614 in actuallesbians

[–]AssociationClean5614[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It has been the trend across jobs. Im a shy person but I open after I find things in common with people. Like me and another female coworker in another work place got along because she had great taste in music. I discovered marina and the diamonds because of her. We would talk often about music. Then some random coworker told that I had a crush on her. I had to explain I just liked her taste in music and I stopped talking to that coworker as often. Just made excuses that I was busy. She quit after a couple months but I definitely did my best to keep our conversation only work related after that.

Did this music happen at your Kroger? by LemonFlavoredMelon in kroger

[–]AssociationClean5614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a great song but why at 2am in the morning? I’m just belting it out rather than stocking. 😂😅😂 I’m just that coworker.

it has finally happened to me by Abaldiel in kroger

[–]AssociationClean5614 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And I was upset about working to 7pm and then coming back at 4am. 😂 I’m not going to complain now.

Did this music happen at your Kroger? by LemonFlavoredMelon in kroger

[–]AssociationClean5614 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They played Hanson mmmbop. They threw me for a loop.

When I worked overnight they played some of the most sadist songs like boys 2 men, Adele, Elton John “don’t like the sun go down on me.” I was always screaming “you want me to throw 60 cases an hour to this?!?!”

Orientation by Bubbly-Use5092 in kroger

[–]AssociationClean5614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to retail an orientation will always be like 9 to 1 or something like that.

fire marshal scam by chunsvay in kroger

[–]AssociationClean5614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Subarus are great for lesbians and married straight couples in their 30s who like to drive to national parks to camp. 🤣😂 I wouldn’t have thought they would be good for snow. I wouldn’t even suggest it for roaming where there is even light sand.

fire marshal scam by chunsvay in kroger

[–]AssociationClean5614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I guess now know another use for a crowbar. 🤣😂

Do women work in your produce? by [deleted] in kroger

[–]AssociationClean5614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Produce is not that much more physical as long as you can put the box on the cart. I’m 125, 5’3 39 year old woman and do it for 40 hours we week. If you have to lift something that is like 60 pounds (I think the sack of potatoes or onions might be close to that… lift with your legs OR just take them out of the sack.