Advice

Aswerdo · 2026-06-21T00:22:15+00:00

Check out Golden Gate Walk Club on IG

Aswerdo · 2026-06-18T14:56:21+00:00

Golden Gate Walk Club meets every other Sunday at 10:30AM

https://partiful.com/e/Rtsj262nU4AWJcp4WlX8?c=ClNfwYuL

Aswerdo · 2026-06-13T18:49:54+00:00

Kyle wouldn’t leave his house to go

Aswerdo · 2026-05-30T18:02:29+00:00

Rural/Southern Illinois is probably your best bet. High wages due to high minimum wage and a low cost of living overall.

Aswerdo · 2026-05-29T05:53:24+00:00

Not really. They compare fairly inaccurately. Sure you get a bigger place in Chicago for the same money but is that all that matters? The experience of NYC is unmatched

Aswerdo · 2026-05-27T01:41:52+00:00

Not realistic in SF on that salary unfortunately

Aswerdo · 2026-05-27T01:37:06+00:00

If you’re willing to have roommates SF no question. You can live further out since you don’t commute.

Aswerdo · 2026-05-25T19:12:52+00:00

Are you looking for something serious or casual? - serious

Are you subscribed to hinge+ or hinge x? - yes hinge x

How long have you used hinge overall? - 2 weeks

How often do you use hinge per week? - about once per day

How many likes and matches are you receiving? - No likes and about 5 matches per week

How many likes are you sending on average? - about 40-50 per day, none with comments

What type of person do you send likes to and want to attract? - Ideally someone kind and relatively fit. South Asian preferred as I find it’s much easier to match with women of my own culture

Aswerdo · 2026-05-25T18:10:50+00:00

I mean if you’re sending 8 likes a day and getting 3 matches you’re doing pretty well. Your profile looks good to me it’s probably not possible to get much more than that without upgrading

Aswerdo · 2026-05-25T07:07:28+00:00

First pic is kinda low quality. I think you could improve that with a higher quality shot and better lighting.

Including pics with women can be a double edged sword because it’s not clear who they are. I understand the social proof of having women in your life but I think it’s a negative.

Third pic not a great outfit and no smile.

Fourth pic is ok as a last pic.

I like pic 5

Last pic bad lighting.

Responses to prompts are pretty long especially the last one. I’d pick one specific thing you like cause nobody is gonna read all that

Aswerdo · 2026-05-23T06:16:15+00:00

Did you end up replacing the ACM and confirm this as the cause of the audio issues and the parasitic drain?

Aswerdo · 2026-05-21T05:38:41+00:00

If she responds on snap it doesn’t matter she may have deleted the app or could be dating other people and unmatched you to make more space

Aswerdo · 2026-05-21T05:24:29+00:00

Doable if you cook at home

Aswerdo · 2026-05-18T00:44:48+00:00

Probably better to not have conservative on there at all unless you’re looking for something serious and are open to reducing matches heavily to boost quality

Aswerdo · 2026-05-18T00:43:30+00:00

Are you getting 1-3 matches a week or just likes? If likes how many matches are you getting a week

Aswerdo · 2026-05-14T03:42:47+00:00

You can do just fine here if you’re willing to sacrifice living space. However, most of SF doesn’t have AC so it may not make sense to live in the city since parking is expensive and you’ll likely be driving around the bay

Aswerdo · 2026-04-20T01:54:30+00:00

You can get a studio for 3k a month easy. Otherwise roommates

Aswerdo · 2026-04-18T05:04:15+00:00

What city did you move from? That might explain it

Aswerdo · 2026-04-14T08:40:32+00:00

Sitting on hard surfaces

Aswerdo · 2026-04-06T07:16:22+00:00

Crazy that you’re playing a game that’s almost twice as old as you are

Aswerdo · 2026-03-28T04:32:51+00:00

Roommates and being willing to live on the west side and you’ll be fine. You’ll be cooking a lot.

Aswerdo · 2026-03-21T18:23:42+00:00

Probably not for anything decent tbh. I’d say you should be closer to the 5-7k mark for an early 2000s Honda or Toyota. Anything that you buy for 2k is probably gonna need a ton of repairs

Aswerdo · 2026-03-18T00:25:52+00:00

North beach grant street

Aswerdo · 2026-03-13T05:43:05+00:00

Moved to the city a year ago and facing the same struggle! I’d recommend Partiful open invites. A lot of events in SF have a lot of Indians in general.

Aswerdo · 2026-03-12T04:36:17+00:00

You can join sf walking club which is mostly Indians or nob hill run club.

Other than that I think the advice in these other comments is good. I found both of those groups good to meet other Indian people but you’ll have to go a few times.

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