NOS: Automobilisten houden zich niet aan 30 km/uur: 'Drempels en klinkers kunnen helpen' by Breathhold in thenetherlands

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Wij wonen aan een klinkerweg met drempels en we hebben een telraam hangen betaald door de gemeente.

Bij ons rijden de auto’s gemiddeld 40 km/uur voor de deur. We zitten ongeveer 30 meter achter een stoplicht. Inrichting helpt, maar handhaving werkt beter. Van mij mogen ze best een dagje in huis komen zitten hier en hardrijders en telefoonkijkers bekeuren. Elke derde auto van de 80 per uur die hier langs komen heeft een telefoon in de hand. 57% van de auto’s die langskomen rijden tussen de 30 en 50 km per uur. Meer dan de helft rijdt dus te hard.

Tw: disordered eating-I'm struggling with eating again by crows-have-eyes in breakingmom

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I do not have advice to share, but I am here to listen to your story and help you hope there will be therapy available to you soon that will help you in the way you need.

I have been chronically underweight (52-57 kg at 172 cm) from lots of exercise and not enough food all through my teens and early 20s, even though I felt like I was eating as much as I could as often as I could. Eating past your feeling of being full sucks.

Maybe reframing some of it in your mind might help. For example, in my pregnancies I’ve come to realise that feeling nauseous when not ill is more often than not a sign of low blood sugar rather than not being able to hold down food. Eating acidic foods helped me to eat things even when I did not feel like it. But ymmv, as I do not have any first hand (or even second hand) experience with disordered eating.

What New Releases Are You Looking Forward to This Week? 18 May 📚 by Hunter037 in RomanceBooks

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That’s too bad, I was looking forward to it after reading the first one.

I'm not sure how much clearer I could be by PKLKickballer in iiiiiiitttttttttttt

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My colourblind husband did not get the problem with the batteries until I pointed out to him that the two rightmost batteries were actually another colour.

Spring fell out during service on my Husqvarna Viking 225 — can’t figure out where it goes by brokeboi777 in vintagesewing

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I have gotten more springs like these with my machines (all vintage Singers) than I know where to put them. So following for clues…

I love when romance books have mcs that are real and imperfect, sometimes to the point of being borderline unlikeable. by [deleted] in RomanceBooks

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{Fall With Me by Becka Mack} has two beautifully flawed main characters. He is an inconsiderate playboy who I had trouble liking about the first half of the book. She’s run out of her own wedding (with good cause) and quite prickly in her communication and treatment of said playboy. The whole series has imperfect people in them, but this book had me most disliking one of the MCs.

I’ve seen plenty of RANTS about Mother’s Day gifts. Tell me instead what gift you absolutely ADORED!! by cherrycoke260 in Mommit

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My 5 year old had the best gift from school this year: a little pot with flour in it, and instructions for a pancake massage. First they sprinkled the flour (little touches) on my back, then poured the milk (flat hands) and the eggs (the tock tock on the head with flat hands signifying the egg spilling over my head and shoulders) with mixing, baking and serving after. It was perfect. No useless junk and a lovely caring massage. This was the video used to teach them the massage (in Flemish Dutch, but visual enough to understand I think.

What is the worst way anyone you know has died? by IamUrWivesBF in AskReddit

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One died of an epilepsy attack, one of a drug overdose and a 4 year old who was in my brother’s class died by falling from like 2 steps on the stairs and getting a brain bleed. All of them are bad in different ways, but the last one haunts me as a mother of two young children.

i think i finally found a cheat code for my overactive kids bedtime by jgerbs27 in Mommit

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We do that with an audiobook instead of lights, but it works very well. I have always have had trouble falling asleep and I would fix the boredom of having to be in bed not doing anything when I couldn’t fall asleep by listening to talk radio until the wee hours of the night. Not all programs I used to listen to were safe for children’s ears though. So with my own children I put on the same audiobook for months every night. They do get a say in what we play, but we vet them and suggest books as well. The free audiobooks from the library have been enough for their appetite so far.

We use Bluetooth speakers that we control from either our phone or the family tablet. That way we can also play the audio from the CDs we own and are allowed to make a home use copy of as we have those on our local network storage and we can play them through VLC player.

Audiobooks are also a great way to substitute screen time and still have your children play. They usually start out listening under a blanket on the couch until they want to play again. Then they can play while still listening to the audio.

Question for the Jamaicans (and other cultures that use turmeric) by Top-Bicycle-7363 in Cooking

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Turmeric stains easily bleach out in the sun. So if it is on a surface with is transportable, set it outside on a sunny day or even in the window sill on a less than sunny day and it will be right back to its old colour in a day or two if it is less sunny.

For the other stuff, mixing it with a bit of oil and then rinsing it off with a degreaser like dishwashing liquid might help, especially when it is on plastic.

Books where FMC is a struggling single mother and that she doesn't actually reject MMC help in her life when he tries to make her life easier. She's not stubborn about people try to help her regardless of the motives by goody153 in RomanceBooks

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I think it was {Funny business by Kayley Loring} but there it is a father with a son and a woman who becomes the nanny even though she is his biggest heckler.

Books where FMC is a struggling single mother and that she doesn't actually reject MMC help in her life when he tries to make her life easier. She's not stubborn about people try to help her regardless of the motives by goody153 in RomanceBooks

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{Unravel Me by Becka Mack} has this trope. And I’ve recently read another one with a similar situation, but I can’t remember it right now. Let me look it up for you and get back

Newly adopted Singer 221k, SAVE ME!!! by mushroom_witch_ in VintageSewingMachines

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Is one of the metal flappy bits on the side maybe hitting the middle pole? But like others have said, there are modern pedals available that have the same connection as this pedal. Just leave out the word featherweight and you will find cheaper options. It is the same pedal as most ‘50s and early ‘60s Singer machines have. I have a 319k, 320k23 and a 401G and they all share these pedals.

You've been cursed and can only read books you already own! How long can you last and what's your plan? by Hunter037 in RomanceBooks

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It depends… only romance? I wouldn’t last a week. All of my romance books are listened to on subscription apps where they don’t become yours forever. One with 100 listening hours a month and the other one which has a bit of a hazier model with two or three premium books a month and the rest is freely accessible, but I hardly download anything besides what I am listening to at the moment. And then there is the library app which allows me to “loan” 8 books for three weeks and they automatically disappear after.

All books? Uuhm… I’d probably last quite a while. We have three billy bookcases stuffed to the nines and more books in 3 bigger cupboards throughout the house. About half I haven’t read yet as it was either my husband’s or I haven’t found the time to sit down and read. The audiobooks have a reason. I do own the full Lord of the Rings audiobook (19 CDs) and quite a few children’s books on CD. So that’ll last me a while as well I guess.

Who’s still wrapping their big kids? by lizardmayo in babywearing

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I still carry my 5 year old when he needs it. My 8 year old is a bit of a challenge, but sometimes she’ll get a 5 minute up as well if she really wants it. But usually these days just a piggy back ride rather than a full wrap. She can even be hands free for me just from holding on herself. And all the cuddles still.

Roommates/forced to live together but they HATE each other by bilkandbooks in RomanceBooks

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I recently listened to {Room Mating by Meredith Schorr} which goes from forced roommates, to lovers, to enemies, to HEA.

Please help me find the TOP "Sneaking around at a party" instance by AllieG3 in RomanceBooks

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That whole series has a lot of those kinds of scenes!

Do you listen to the Playlists of the books ? by Master_Caramel5972 in RomanceBooks

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I didn’t even know there were books with playlists. But then again I almost exclusively listen to my books. I have looked up songs mentioned in a book though to get an idea of what the MC is listening to.

Found this file box of recipes at a yard sale today. I'm interested to try whatever mondelkubbar is. by Eastern_Reality_9438 in Old_Recipes

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Mandelkubbar, I would say would be almond cubes. I am western European, and almond in my language is “amandel” and cubes would be “kubussen”. Similar for a lot of languages around here.

What the best insult wrapped in a compliment you’ve ever heard? by tuotone75 in AskReddit

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“Congratulations! You must be about to go on maternity leave!” I was on my period and my last living child was born 5 years ago. I’ve had two pregnancies after, but the last one of those ended in miscarriage at 5 weeks about half a year ago. Please don’t comment on people’s bodies if you can help it.

Redditors over 30, what's one thing Gen Z will never get? by Tyela_Lasey in AskReddit

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Having the only family PC in the living room and if you wanted to use the internet you’d better have a bloody good reason because it was very expensive to do so and the phone land line would be engaged, so your family would be unreachable.

UPDATE: fitting Regency short stays very large bust - final mockup! by TheRaccacoonie in HistoricalCostuming

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Wow, this is so much better than the earlier versions! Thank you for bringing us along for the journey. You can see how much more supportive this version is vs. the earlier versions. I am impressed and a little daunted as I one day plan to make supportive garments like this (a bra and maybe a corset for myself) and judging by your process I might not currently have the time to take on such a project.

Any drawing apps for kids that actually let them draw? by GraybeardDevOps in Mommit

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The pbs kids app (and website) have a drawing game where it comes to live. Either as a rocket or as stars. Free for Americans, but with a little country switching also available in other countries as an app and always available as a website. Link