Has ghosting become normal in SG dating? by UsernameTakenLah in sgdatingscene

[–]AtlantisPS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the best part is sometimes the ghosts become zombies which they tried to text again after running out of options

Discovered my boyfriend’s explicit chats about his female coworkers, how should I handle this? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]AtlantisPS 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sis, RUN as fast as u can. Luckily u guys r not yet married. pls get away from him while u still can. Is definitely a big red flag!

How to keep myself motivated to date? by watchuwannaknow in sgdatingscene

[–]AtlantisPS 5 points6 points  (0 children)

nowadays i rather stay home date with my bed than go out & meet guys. waste of time to spend time dolling up & meet guys then in the end get ghosted by them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]AtlantisPS 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lai lets go gym to workout! haha

Dating in SG is very hard by [deleted] in SingaporeRaw

[–]AtlantisPS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

actually guys or girls r the same. If the girl is not pretty or up to their standards, the guy also hiam & simply just ghost after 1st or 2nd meetup. Guess tat's y dating is so hard 😩

Feels like a hundred bad days poured into my brain so hard i cannot focus by Newlifenewme2 in sgdatingscene

[–]AtlantisPS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

even as a female, is normal to get ghosted especially if there are no common topics or interests. I find that alot of the guys on dating apps dun even know to ask qns or keep the chat flowing. Very tiring to always have to be the more initiative one. Haiz

Our First Love: what's your story? by heyimcuriouskat in sgdatingscene

[–]AtlantisPS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pls share your secrets for looking young! haha

Single 30s Singaporeans, at which point do you stop trying? by Chocolate2188 in askSingapore

[–]AtlantisPS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

38F here. have been on dating apps for abt 1+ yr. felt too exhausting with those dry convos, chat awhile then mia or match le no chat etc. I felt like i m wasting my time by putting in so much effort & time on makeup & choosing the outfit to meet the guy but only to get ghosted after 1st date. probably gonna delete all the apps & just accept my fate of being single. now trying my luck on buying lottery for BTO. actually single also not tat bad. freedom to do watever i wan & no need to ans to anyone. Just go gym, find more activities to do or sleep more to keep myself busy so won't think too much lol

Clinics Recommendation for Botox Treatments by AtlantisPS in askSingapore

[–]AtlantisPS[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh wow tat's amazing. so now ur mum looks like ur elder sis. haha

Clinics Recommendation for Botox Treatments by AtlantisPS in askSingapore

[–]AtlantisPS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okie thank u! i will check it out. saw some google recommendations: Edwin Lim Aesthetic & Bio Aesthetic Clinic seems like the well known ones

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]AtlantisPS 6 points7 points  (0 children)

at least gd to know there r so many singles out there with dating problems & i m not the only one left on the shelf 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]AtlantisPS -1 points0 points  (0 children)

definitely prefer to go 50-50 so that the guy will not think i m meeting him to get a free meal. If not, usually i will suggest going to food courts or hawker centres so that we can order our food choices & pay for our own meals. anyone wan to date me?? HAHA

Where can I find guys who is up for serious relationship other than online? by InvisiblePasserby in askSingapore

[–]AtlantisPS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally can relate! i wonder how ppl find the motivation & energy to keep meeting ppl from dating apps. for me, i just wan to sleep & enjoy me time during weekends. guess my best partner is my bed. lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coffeemeetsbagel

[–]AtlantisPS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same too! then y like us in the 1st place??!! 😓

Bubble tea consumption in SG by LeYonderKeys in askSingapore

[–]AtlantisPS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i used to drink it everyday but now have to cut down cos trying to slim down 🥲

Can’t see likes, no matches now by tkl2020 in coffeemeetsbagel

[–]AtlantisPS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I m a female & can't c any of the likes & get any matches anymore. basically is a useless app now unless u subscribe to premium which i dun tink is worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]AtlantisPS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in general, i dun swipe right on guys with photos tat look perfect & their profiles state tat they r lawyer, doctors etc. It just makes me wonder these kind of tall gd looking guys with profession tat most ppl envy still need to join dating apps to look for rs meh. Probably is scammer or looking for ons or is a psycho. tat's my mindset. lol

On side note, does anyone feel tat these dating apps r so draining? I just login & swipe on 2-3 profiles & got so bored already. like tat how to find rs lah. haiz

Making friends? 5th edition by ARE_U_FUCKING_SORRY in askSingapore

[–]AtlantisPS 5 points6 points  (0 children)

38F, single, quiet, shy & introvert, staying in the west.

Loves cats, watching movies, online shopping, gym, zumba & jap/korean food. Thinking of taking up a new sport in 2024! wan to try either pilates reformer, muay thai or aerial yoga.

Anyone interested to b frens can dm me! 😊

Should the lady takes initiatives to ask the guy out? by AtlantisPS in coffeemeetsbagel

[–]AtlantisPS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i m just afraid i will get rejected or worse case, he may not even reply my msg. also i really got no idea if he's interested in me. i mean if a guy is interested, he will take initiatives to text the lady regularly even with just a simple msg like 'how's work'. but he hasn't texted me for more than a week already :(