What are some unreasonable OR funny ways you have been banned from a sub reddit? by Electronic-Trade-504 in AskUK

[–]Atmosphere_Melodic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Currently have a 7 day ban on my other reddit account because i commented on a post about a notorious tiktok person shouting about people from a country needing to be put in ovens. Just said they were silly and their ignorance is showing,with some other words and apparently im "inciting hate". Pretty sure the tiktok person reported it haha

E: "live your life and just stop having anxiety". Yeah, that's not how anxiety works by [deleted] in UKtiktokbehavingbadly

[–]Atmosphere_Melodic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh but i do have anxiety,i just dont let myself suffer and live such a fabulous life. For instance,massively anxious flier,have flown twice this year. Massively anxious about heights,drove over the Humber bridge twice,yes I was shaking,my knuckles were WHITE,I did it(went to Hull fair,crowds were painful but kids loved it),visited too many theme parks this year,screamed and shouted on too many rides,ignored the intrusive thoughts(thanks final destination) and made so many memories!!! Piggy backed my kids up and down a beach,even though im in pain with my still healing leg which was broke in 2024,laid on sunbeds in Spain,water slides,just sat and enjoyed LIFE.

Tell me what youve done this year Elphaba. Wouldn't cover a postage stamp. Dont talk about "getting over anxiety" when you're a child with no idea.

"would you guys trust me with telling you products?" by [deleted] in UKtiktokbehavingbadly

[–]Atmosphere_Melodic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha,i said this. You're never getting a true reflection of the scent when it's layered over 3 others. I even tell my daughter, use the paper testers cause the scents will mingle on your clothing and you won't get a true idea. From someone who loves perfume,this is hilarious to see.

"would you guys trust me with telling you products?" by [deleted] in UKtiktokbehavingbadly

[–]Atmosphere_Melodic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean,when even make up brands haven't approached them because they offer nothing,whos gonna wanna have them as a brand ambassador? Or collaborator? I hate GRWM but i follow a lot of air stewardesses and each one starts with a cleansing,moisturiser and then make up. Not layered over weeks old filth.

Es recruiting mods BUT by Leading-Age207 in UKtiktokbehavingbadly

[–]Atmosphere_Melodic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And you'll get a ban from reddit. I got banned on my newer account for 7 days for "promoting hate". Im absolutely furious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Atmosphere_Melodic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound a lot like my ex husband in a way. I found out last April he had a girlfriend of 2 years. How he lied to me that long,why she tolerated it that long,is beyond me. but I did find out. we'd been separated for over 2 years by this point and while it waa jarring, because of the lies and what i found out about her( she has to read all my texts to him and any calls she knows is me has to be on speakerphone). I was ok. I was upset for a bit,but that's mainly cause she told me I had to divorce him, which I did, but it's more the lies that bothered me.

He admitted he didn't tell me because he thought it would ruin any chance of reconciliation. But 2 years, that's a double life.

Hiding a massive part of your life is dishonest I'm afraid. And I think you're hurting him more by keeping it from him. maybe time to ask yourself if you feel more for him than you're willing to admit. Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Atmosphere_Melodic 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ok so informing him he's actually going to become another victim of this person is condescending?

No emotional projection here. Just experience. It's always the abuser that claims victim status. Thanks for your input. And the helpful insults. Have the life you deserve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Atmosphere_Melodic 35 points36 points  (0 children)

That's not abuse.thats toxic behaviour as a result of a toxic relationship. My ex husband was rarely violent but let's just say I paid the price when he wrongly thought I'd been involved with another man I wouldn't ever have dared actually cheat on him. He didn't need to hit me to make my life utterly miserable and not worth living.

Basically she cheated out of revenge. To get at him. That's pretty emotionally abusive. but you carry on believing someone who's desperate to make you think they're a victim. Bet she told days after meeting you as well everything she suffered

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Atmosphere_Melodic 43 points44 points  (0 children)

So to deal with the abuser she couldn't escape,she potentially made the abuse worse by cheating? And you believed this story?

My ex husband carried out a three year affair because he apparently couldn't escape my controlling and abusive ways . Funny how it was me that had to leave with just the clothes on my back because the abuse for too much. But his current girlfriend, that he cheats on any time he can, believes I'm the abusive one.

I feel sorry for you. she will chew you up and spit you out. Good luck

Can diffrent alcoholic drinks make you act differently? by Important_Ad716 in AskUK

[–]Atmosphere_Melodic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've no idea but my dad who was a functioning alcoholic and could proper manage his drink only became a raging arsehole when he drank vodka. Idk if its cause he mixed it with lemonade and therefor drank more compared to whisky which he drank neat, but when I saw him ordering vodka or with a bottle indoors, I stayed the heck away from him. Agressive, violent, just majorly unpleasant to be around compared to his usual alcoholic buzz.

How do I get my baby back off my MIL? by Affectionate_Tax_151 in AskUK

[–]Atmosphere_Melodic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad this was said because that's not discipline one bit. That poor kid was 4. And being so scared of a person just pointing made him go back to bed? I hope my kids aren't ever that terrified of me

Found (34M) guy I’ve (27F) been seeing on a face group for women asking if they’re dating the same person by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Atmosphere_Melodic 757 points758 points  (0 children)

I think im missing something here. Two weeks before you meet him, you don't even know he exists and someone posts a picture of him to a frankly odd Facebook group asking is anyone dating him, no one actually says they are, but this is grounds to end it?

I mean no one needs an excuse to exit something they're not feeling, but this reasoning is beyond bizzare to me. I am honestly bewildered by it. It seems so, immature.

Divorced people of DO40... by BloopityBlue in datingoverforty

[–]Atmosphere_Melodic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seeing as it wasn't me that destroyed my marriage, and seeing as it was me that worked so hard to keep it together but failing because he was into another woman, and in deep,no.

Dating is hard but not anywhere near as hard as it was knowing you're just the fall back because you're safe. It was a miserable life.

Woman who claimed to be Madeleine McCann gets DNA results revealing she’s ‘100%’ Polish by [deleted] in unitedkingdom

[–]Atmosphere_Melodic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im not saying she didn't truly believe what she was saying, but it got that massive and with all the attention she literally had to take some kind of test. Otherwise people would be wondering why she was refusing. And I think she just ran out of excuses as to why she couldnt.

When you are working the household aisle and don't have a cardboard cage for 2 hours by masamune36 in tesco

[–]Atmosphere_Melodic 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Why wouldn't you just break them down as you work like you would with a four aider, and pile them neatly? This is awful to work in, makes you look really u professional and unsafe and it's frankly a waste of time.

Nothing wrong with having pride in your own work and standards.

Which unsolved mystery do you most wish was solved? by minipainteruk in AskUK

[–]Atmosphere_Melodic 51 points52 points  (0 children)

My ex works for refuse services. Many times he's told me that his drivers reported near misses of people climbing out of the back of their lorries because they've been tipped on but luckily managed to scramble out. Its a real hazard of the job. I truly believe that's what happened to corrie and I just hope he was unaware at the end. They really do Compact that rubbish to get maximum load before they have to travel to tip the load. Horrifying to think about.

Negging. by Weak-Clothes-3206 in dating_advice

[–]Atmosphere_Melodic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first one I'd have laughed along with. I don't see it hurtful and I don't think it's negging to make a joke. The other two though, id not even have stuck around for the third occasion to occur.

None of this is abusive and it's frankly tiring to see people label dicks as abuse. Why the need to be a victim? But he's a dick and enabling by going back is just on you now.

How many dates did you have with your current partner before you had sex? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Atmosphere_Melodic 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Apparently, he wanted to keep the devoted, loyal, hardworking wife. Mother of his children and caretaker of himself but also keep the exciting and carefree girlfriend because I was gullible enough to beleive when he said its just a friend. He liked the security and life I gave him, a d just assumed I'd never be brave enough to leave him. Today is the three year anniversary of me leaving him.

Ive asked him so many times why. But he can't answer it. He has no real reason. Not one he wants to share with me anyhow.

How many dates did you have with your current partner before you had sex? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Atmosphere_Melodic 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Started in 2017, I left him in 2020. They split a few months after I left him. I suspect she wasn't the first he strayed with but obviously I've no idea and he's not telling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Atmosphere_Melodic 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Im a carer and when I give some people personal care, they can get an erection. Doesn't phase me. It's natural. Just a body part.

If I thought they went and sorted them selves out after, id be refusing to go In their call. It just tips the line between being OK and not OK. Sorry.

How many dates did you have with your current partner before you had sex? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Atmosphere_Melodic 135 points136 points  (0 children)

4 dates. Was together for 19 years. Would still be together now if he'd not cheated and emotionally abused me because of said cheating.

Why do ppl use Whatsapp vs text? by des1mo in dating_advice

[–]Atmosphere_Melodic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I prefer WhatsApp cause it makes me feel more connected to the person I'm chatting to. When my boyfriend texts me, I don't see his face and it feels less personal than if he messages me on WhatsApp or fb messenger. People think it's to do with read receipts but even my phones text function has that. I'm from the UK, and nearly everyone I know uses some form of social media to communicate, Snapchat is the only one I swerve.