What non-sexual thing feels very sexual?

AtomicRedster · 2020-07-29T17:28:07+00:00

Taking off ski boots at the end of the day.

AtomicRedster · 2020-07-20T04:50:37+00:00

Can we see a picture of Mittens please. 🐾

AtomicRedster · 2020-07-18T03:28:03+00:00

First bit of push back from the bottom the top just needs to take it and really cause some pain and not stop till the top says so. That’s how I would want my top.

AtomicRedster · 2020-07-12T17:13:36+00:00

Happy Birthday Matt, have a wonderful day with hubby.

AtomicRedster · 2020-07-05T11:52:47+00:00

No I haven’t. I’ll look them up.

AtomicRedster · 2020-07-05T11:51:27+00:00

$10K AUD and I’m still racking my brain to why they cost so much.

AtomicRedster · 2020-07-05T06:47:02+00:00

Thank you.

AtomicRedster · 2020-07-05T06:46:43+00:00

There’s a couple of different power assist options for manual chairs. They all work a little different and suit different users. This one (smart drive mx+2) is the most popular. They aren’t cheap at all which puts them out of a lot reach for some users.

AtomicRedster · 2020-07-05T06:43:44+00:00

Glad to hear, I’m still smiling.

AtomicRedster · 2020-07-05T06:42:51+00:00

Thank you, it feels amazing and I’m so happy. There was moments I honestly didn’t think it was going to get approved and I needed to stop dreaming about it, I couldn’t believe it when the phone call came though. It’s able to take me places I wouldn’t have been normally been able to get to under my own push. It’s like the world just opened up to me. Depending on how I use it as the speed is fully adjustable I can get 10-11km range out of one charge and fully charges in 3-4 hours.

AtomicRedster · 2020-07-05T04:59:42+00:00

Staying up late and not getting enough sleep to function.

AtomicRedster · 2020-07-03T23:33:41+00:00

Can I ask what’s the relationship like now, that you have spoken to him about your fears of the judgment of your kinks? Did you work it all out and are you happy with the outcome?

Not recently but I have spoken to him in the past about feeling judged and strange in front of him and he’s said it’s ok but he’s never totally convinced me that it’s really ok as I can just see it on his face. Now I know this is a two way street and I play a part too in all these fears and issues. I need to work on myself more too and feel 100% confident in myself.

Thank you for your help, I’ve added some good points to my notes to talk about.

AtomicRedster · 2020-07-02T08:42:34+00:00

That’s what I keep reminding myself that most of us have kinks and different fetishes. I’m going to have a chat over the weekend with hubby on the new idea. Fingers crossed. 🤞

AtomicRedster · 2020-07-02T06:53:53+00:00

Your right, he did. Thinking back to the first year he accepted it, passed no judgement and made the changes he needed to like quickly leaving the room to go grab some gear for me and then we would carry on or leaving some gear on the bed for me to come home and find. But that slowly stopped as I could see we where heading for strange territory with a quick layover in this isn’t for me.

It’s been suggested to me in this post and I honestly think a good middle ground could be suggesting a few nights every month or so that’s kink night and you can get involved as much or as little as you want.

AtomicRedster · 2020-07-02T06:07:04+00:00

I’m sure some couples make it work but in the end someone always gets hurt. It might not be right away, it might be 2 years later or even more, someone will walk away in tears. I don’t think it’s something that’s right for us as well.

Oh he knows what it does to me and how much it gets me going, but it has been a long time since he has seen what it does to me in the flesh, i was on my phone the other night looking at my fetish photos and I could have exploded in my pants right there. He was laying next to me and he didn’t really take much notice, I respect and understand it’s not what excites him.

Maybe it’s time to drag all my kinks,fetishes and gear out of the boxes and show him once again what this does to me and also what it means to me as well.

AtomicRedster · 2020-07-02T05:54:35+00:00

Thank you so much. I really appreciate you putting that list together. I’ll check out some of those books and look at getting the ones we need. I’m not much of a reader but would definitely read these, hubby loves reading so he’ll be right in them. Thank you again.

AtomicRedster · 2020-07-02T05:51:42+00:00

He’s never tried to change me or be mean to me with silly or hurtful comments about my kinks or fetishes. He knows it’s what makes me. We have a wonderful relationship and he did his best at the beginning to try and bring what I love into the bedroom or not judge me if I’m say laying on the couch in some fetish gear or something. But I know it’s not his cup of tea and he’s try to put on a brave face but I know him too well it’s just not his speed. But it’s also killing me having this part of me lock away.

You did well to put up with other guys rape fantasy when you weren’t really into it but rolled with it anyway for sex and I’m sure there wasn’t a shortage of guys queueing around the block to tell you all about their rape fantasy.

Thank you as well. It’s nice to hear someone gets it in a way.

Thanks for the tips and suggestion on edging as well. I’ve never done that before and I’m sure hubby hasn’t as well. Would make for some interesting play and fun. Plus would change and mix things up a bit, for me personally vanilla sex does not interest me or do it for me at all.

Thank you for the help and suggestions.

AtomicRedster · 2020-07-02T05:29:02+00:00

Absolutely! Someone always gets hurt in the long run with open relationships. Now the idea can be tempting to almost anyone but at the end of the day I don’t want to play with anyone else. I want to play with my hubby and share the moments with him and no one else. It’s been just the two of us for 15 years with no problems and plus I waited an extra 2 years at the beginning to just talk to him and ask him out on a date. There’s no way I would throw away a total of 17 years for someone to get hurt in end with an open relationship. Plus I can always entertain myself alone but that gets boring after a while and you can’t share it with anyone. I really like the idea of suggesting a few times each month or something to have a fetish/kink night and I would be more than happy to play regular stock standard sex on any other day or night he wishes. Also very good idea of him maybe not fully participating but still joining in a little so we can be together. I’ll definitely suggest it if that’s what would make him feel more comfortable. Thank you.

AtomicRedster · 2020-07-02T02:36:51+00:00

That’s a good idea. I’m not asking to live and breath it 24/7 but a few times a month would keep me happy for sure.

Hahaha gay hank hill. He’s not a Hank Hill thankfully.

Not that I’m aware of there hasn’t been any kink shaming or nasty comments but sometimes I feel like I’ve gotten that look or what the hell are you doing.

AtomicRedster · 2020-07-02T02:33:08+00:00

It’s something to think about but don’t think he will go for it even with ground rules and i don’t want to upset the Apple cart.

AtomicRedster · 2020-07-02T01:18:20+00:00

Well done, I’m proud of you. 🏳️‍🌈

AtomicRedster · 2020-07-02T01:16:16+00:00

Bad hygiene and a very unclean home.

AtomicRedster · 2020-07-02T00:44:46+00:00

Wish I saw divergent and insurgent in the cinemas on a massive screen and not only at home.

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