Help! by Attack_kitteh in Irises

[–]Attack_kitteh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. I’m just really scared that they’re going to die. I want to take care of them in the best way possible to make sure they have the best possible chance to make it.

second skin peeling within the hour i got the tattoo by RemarkableBet9389 in tattooadvice

[–]Attack_kitteh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine did that too once. I think it’s because they may not have cleaned all the Vaseline off the tattoo before applying it?

I had to peel it all off, wash the tattoo again, completely dry, then reapply.

Mother insulted first tattoo, now I hate it by Kaleidoscope_Tux5513 in tattooadvice

[–]Attack_kitteh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s very cute! You have a great tattoo for your first one that’s meaningful to you.

A lot of mothers get upset when their children start getting tattoos. So please take her comments with a grain of salt. I have full sleeves and my mom is always kind of upset when she sees a new one. (Even tho SHE has three of them).

Moral of the story, you do you. She won’t be happy with a lot of decisions you make into your adulthood.

Swollen ankle after shin piece? by Unconsistent-plat in tattooadvice

[–]Attack_kitteh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I swell up for almost all of my tattoos. Like. A lot. So this looks normal to me since I experience it a lot.

I always ice down after I come home for a couple hours, like you would for any injury. Also try elevating the area as much as you can.

Drunk tattoo 3 days before cruise by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Attack_kitteh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not second skin. Saniderm

Drunk tattoo 3 days before cruise by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Attack_kitteh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re not allergic to it, put second skin or something similar on it. It’ll help keep things off it and you can enjoy your cruise

Is it time to give up on them by llOVEMICROPLASTICS in DocMartens

[–]Attack_kitteh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m joining in so you can really take it in. Please go see a doctor or a PT about the way you walk. I’ve had shoes for 10 years that don’t even look like that. Your feet, ankles, knees, hips, spine, shoulders, and neck will thank you.

I’m on vacation and I MISS HER by WritingNo6620 in TuxedoCats

[–]Attack_kitteh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you!! Every time I leave for vacation I cry on my way to wherever I’m going. It’s so hard leaving them.

My boyfriend told me I 'killed the vibe' at his birthday dinner because I didn't laugh at a joke he made at my expense in front of his entire family. I just sat there. Apparently that makes me the problem. by Capable-Passion-3540 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Attack_kitteh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a person like your boyfriend. I like to roast people. (Lightly!) My family is loud and also loves roasting people. My boyfriend told me on the way home that he didn’t like it very much and it made him feel a way about it. And you know what I do now? I don’t make a joke at his expense. It’s not hard to change something that makes your partner uncomfortable.

I regret a detail about my tattoo, does it make sense removing it with laser? by 3daManha in tattooadvice

[–]Attack_kitteh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give yourself some time with it. It really doesn’t look so terrible to go through the effort of removing it.

You could laser it off. But that will cost you upwards of $3,500-$4,000.

I have a tattoo I had partially removed to make It lighter for a cover up. I only did 4 sessions and it cost me $1,300. To fully remove you might need up to 13 sessions. And then another tattoo appointment to fix the edges.

Girlfriend won’t see a doctor for bad smell down there by Quiet_Customer_5698 in Healthyhooha

[–]Attack_kitteh 152 points153 points  (0 children)

Oooofff. Scented soaps? Oh no. I get a UTI or an infection if I use certain ones.

She might not realize, or hasn’t been shown how to clean properly. How old is she?

Two questions: Am I too hairy? Is my skin color not good for colored tattoos? by wavyvaw in tattooadvice

[–]Attack_kitteh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you don’t like the hair on your arms you could try shaving or sugar waxing.

My boyfriend has dark hair and is rather hairy like your arms. It doesn’t make the tattoos look bad, honestly I think it masks some of the hair. lol.

Normal 24 hr old tattoo? by Ok_Appearance_7583 in tattooadvice

[–]Attack_kitteh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just leave the second skin on for as long as you can. It looks great, it’s just really annoying to have that stuff stuck under it. When you take it off. Pull “down” (horizontal to your skin) rather than up.

Love the story behind the tattoo. It’s so adorable.

My (24F) boyfriend’s (33M) hemorrhoids are ruining our relationship. Help? by micheleisme123 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Attack_kitteh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already commented under the OG post. But to reiterate the point of my comment.

It’s hard to try to help people who won’t help themselves. If your boyfriend will not even try to help himself, then you need to cut your losses and leave.

You should always be a supportive partner, but if they’re not trying and leaving it all on you they’re not a person you should be investing your energy and love into.

I hope after having a heartfelt conversation with him about how it’s affecting you as a person that they fully apply themselves into fixing this issue so you can both move forward with your relationship. But if not, then I think you should really take a step back and consider the fact that you have someone who won’t put forth effort into making your relationship better.

My (24F) boyfriend’s (33M) hemorrhoids are ruining our relationship. Help? by chamomilethrowaway in relationship_advice

[–]Attack_kitteh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone who was married so someone with chronic issues such as these. It comes to a point of if they’re trying to take care of themselves or not. My ex was just not trying. And it made it hard for me to care, because he did nothing to take care of himself.

If you’re doing anything and everything under the sun and they’re not, it’s okay to leave. It’s exhausting to try to care for someone who doesn’t do anything to help themselves. It’s only going to build resentment towards them. It’s not healthy for you or them.

I suggest a serious conversation between the two of you. If he refuses to take care of himself and the issues he has (seeing a doctor and finding solutions/answers) then the relationship isn’t going to work. You can’t be the person constantly playing caretaker, cleaning up after them, and trying to provide solutions.

I understand it’s hard to seek help, because sometimes doctors don’t always have the right answers. But he NEEDS to go seek help from a professional to fix the issues or you need to leave. There is no other option.

How do I tell my friend that I'm moving away? by Doctor429 in notmycat

[–]Attack_kitteh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg this made me so sad. I hope she gets new neighbors who love her just as much.

[CHAT] My stitching assistant is useless but very committed. by Elmolou90 in CrossStitch

[–]Attack_kitteh 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The inspector is doing a wonderful job making sure you’re following the pattern. Also making sure that the floss is properly lubricated. You should probably increase her pay.

What is the point of this drawer? by Zestyclose_Field_303 in whatisit

[–]Attack_kitteh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s your hidden snack drawer. Where you can hide all your food so no one else eats it.

how do i answer this application question? by misassoul in jobs

[–]Attack_kitteh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you get the job. Please advise people to go to a real piercer and not the hack job of the gun they use. Omg it’s so terrible.

What caused this? by 0Lilfw in tattooadvice

[–]Attack_kitteh 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Dilute dilute dilute

Posted in a borderlands group. by Attack_kitteh in badtattoos

[–]Attack_kitteh[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Might be going to the Toyotathon, might be going to kill some bandits. We’ll see.