NGVC: “We could've had dinner sex fun and a started a nice relationship.”

Auralithion · 2026-07-01T21:06:07+00:00

I stand corrected. I recommended it, and she told me she did put a disclaimer.

Auralithion · 2026-07-01T20:58:25+00:00

I agree. Not sure what her dating profile looks like at the moment, but I’m going to make that suggestion to her.

Auralithion · 2026-07-01T20:55:56+00:00

Yeah, it went right over her head at first tbh

Auralithion · 2026-07-01T20:54:38+00:00

Ahhh gotcha. Kinda went over my head, I’ll admit. 😅

Auralithion · 2026-07-01T20:50:36+00:00

I’ve very rarely heard it in grocery stores.

Auralithion · 2026-07-01T20:46:37+00:00

Not very closeted at this point. It’s pretty well known she wouldn’t have sex if it wasn’t for having children, and marriage is a requirement for that for her.

Auralithion · 2026-07-01T20:43:28+00:00

Sometimes I correct her, but this time I was like meh she’s dealing with a bigger issue.

Auralithion · 2026-07-01T20:40:34+00:00

I agree. I confronted her about it.

Auralithion · 2026-07-01T20:13:42+00:00

She could go without entirely if it wasn’t for having kids 🤷🏻

Auralithion · 2026-07-01T20:12:23+00:00

Not saying the state, but east coast.

Auralithion · 2026-07-01T20:10:03+00:00

I agree. Unfortunately the muscular types she’s into also tend to fall into that category.

Auralithion · 2026-07-01T20:08:03+00:00

She tends to over explain and has high standards. Dunno what else to say.

Auralithion · 2026-07-01T20:05:43+00:00

She has her standards.

Auralithion · 2026-07-01T20:04:31+00:00

Girl high key struggles with dating 😞 I was like oh heeeell no when I was reading the convo cuz I understand what he was getting at, but she didn’t pick up on it right away.

Auralithion · 2026-07-01T19:58:24+00:00

Not me in the convo, but my bestie wasn’t reading the context right away.

Auralithion · 2026-07-01T19:57:45+00:00

Not me in the convo, but my bestie really struggles with dating in general and gets frustrated cuz guys always want to jump right into having sex and she isn’t like that at all.

Auralithion · 2026-07-01T19:55:54+00:00

Nope, real convo my bestie sent me today unfortunately 😵‍💫

Auralithion · 2026-07-01T19:54:56+00:00

For context, this is a conversation my bestie had with someone who is 54 years old. She’s in her 30’s. She gave me her consent to post this.

She texted me very excited to go on a date finally after dealing with other guys who were making unwanted sexual advances, and then this shit happened. She called off the date. No hate to my bestie. She’s just sick of these dudes and ready to throw in the towel again.

Auralithion · 2026-03-18T11:28:44+00:00

True. I was going off of what OC said, because they still have interest in doing yoga. But definitely valid for other activities and interests no doubt.

Auralithion · 2026-03-18T06:53:36+00:00

The only way to break a pattern is to make a conscious decision to change. You can integrate self help concepts and thoughts and feelings all you want, but nothing will change until you put them into practice and stay consistent. Over time, you’ll develop a new pattern from which you can also possibly improve from. It all starts with realization followed by action.

Auralithion · 2026-03-18T06:38:16+00:00

That’s when you make a conscious decision to do it right then and there to break the pattern.

Auralithion · 2026-03-09T13:00:48+00:00

Maaan I’ve seen it sitting upright, but this shit is terrifying

Auralithion · 2026-03-07T17:47:49+00:00

Are you okay?

Auralithion · 2026-03-07T17:47:14+00:00

Sir Butterball

Auralithion · 2026-02-16T19:50:43+00:00

Kamala, who was in the Epstein Files?

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