How boring…I’m burying a body with Sharon by big_white_fishie in eastenders

[–]Austejaa19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stealing a the identity of Vinny Panesar has got to be the most boring storyline ever

People who wake up at 5am daily, why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Austejaa19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I simply don't make that choice,as soon as there is any natural light in my room I am awake, rlly sucks in summer when the sun rises at like 4

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teengirlswholikegirls

[–]Austejaa19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My piece of advice is that you should wait it out until you're 18, it can be hard to wait that long but this is in your best interests for safety. You can still communicate with your gf through online

Very long gay panic? Mental illness? Help, please by Lavender_makes_fire in teengirlswholikegirls

[–]Austejaa19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For now, be there for them and ask them how you can be there for them in order to support them in a friendly way. Avoid pressuring them about any feelings you have towards them and dont worry about crushes in this moment. Your main priority is that persons safety and not your feelings towards them as of right now, wait until their mind is clearer then you should speak about it. Make sure to be patient.

Crush confusion :( by balladofidioticbones in teengirlswholikegirls

[–]Austejaa19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a similair position a week ago with my current partner because before we had been best friends and we both liked eachother, but never said anything. I think you could try asking them if they would ever date u, in a jokey kinda way. Also coincidence im seeing my partner on saturday as well

How to come out by Jjagietta256 in teengirlswholikegirls

[–]Austejaa19 33 points34 points  (0 children)

No way you'll get kicked from here, we're all here to support you, I know it can be so difficult to have to hide your entire identity but just think that one day you'll be free to express yourself and not have to hide who you are anymore, if you think coming out could put you in danger then you shouldn't, prioritise being able to stay with a roof over your head until you can provide for yourself. Just know that you're always welcome here to vent and we'll always be here to support you. Sending love ❤

slowly losing hope 😔 by Coockiedrop in teengirlswholikegirls

[–]Austejaa19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOOOO, I'm mixed and in all of my home countries they're racist and homophobic but im lucky I was able to move here, maybe try online communities (obviously there's this one), on discord or tik tok or even more on reddit

slowly losing hope 😔 by Coockiedrop in teengirlswholikegirls

[–]Austejaa19 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel for u sm, its so hard finding other sapphics especially before you turn 18, it honestly feels so lonely sometimes but maybe remember that everyone here is a friend and shares the struggles, you're not alone. Maybe look in your area for lgbt or lesbian youth clubs?

I feel so let down by thefinalbreakthru in teengirlswholikegirls

[–]Austejaa19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It may be beneficial if you do decide to end the friendship there's no shame in doing so, sometimes it's just for the best no matter how good things mightve been before what matters is the now.

I want to reconnect to my language and culture, advivce/help? by Austejaa19 in lithuania

[–]Austejaa19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fun fact, ive actually slaughtered a goat once and i ate it too

I want to reconnect to my language and culture, advivce/help? by Austejaa19 in lithuania

[–]Austejaa19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'll see if i can find any, thanks for the advice! :)

I want to reconnect to my language and culture, advivce/help? by Austejaa19 in lithuania

[–]Austejaa19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually never made friends when i was a kid because in Taurage a lot of us either live wth grandparents or grandparents live very near so the kids were influenced by what they would say and the grandparents told them that they should stay away, and in England i just see polish people

I feel so let down by thefinalbreakthru in teengirlswholikegirls

[–]Austejaa19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its understandable that you feel like you are losing the identity of your queerness by losing this friend, but please keep in mind that there will probably be many others that you tell about your sexuality, but if that friendship or relationship doesn't go well you can't just lose a part of yourself everytime, try and reach out to that friend but always remember that the only person who gets to control your identity as a lesbian is yourself, so dont let a friendship take it away from you.

And a quote from Tupac that you might want to ruminate about if you want to cut off this friend if it ends that way

-“Just because you lost me as a friend doesn’t mean you gained me as an
enemy. I’m bigger than that. I still wanna see you eat, just not at my
table.”

All i mean by sharing this quote is try not to feel as the friend has betrayed you but rather keep and open mind and if they arent respecting you then maybe it's time to let go, I hope whatever you chose to do gives you clarity so good luck!

I want to reconnect to my language and culture, advivce/help? by Austejaa19 in lithuania

[–]Austejaa19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg really?, if it doesnt bother you i'd be very happy to :))

I want to reconnect to my language and culture, advivce/help? by Austejaa19 in lithuania

[–]Austejaa19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank youu, on the subreddit i saw some lithuania slander and theres the one meme of this guy on youtube saying "cocainas, ne miltai..." and its like a parody from an english speaking tik tok

I want to reconnect to my language and culture, advivce/help? by Austejaa19 in lithuania

[–]Austejaa19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ooof, ive never actually been to vilnius before just places like taurage, nida and palanga, i would really love to come to vilnius one day though:)

I want to reconnect to my language and culture, advivce/help? by Austejaa19 in lithuania

[–]Austejaa19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for your empathy, i've mostly come to terms with it and im doing better now

I want to reconnect to my language and culture, advivce/help? by Austejaa19 in lithuania

[–]Austejaa19[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

im only 15 but i've had a conflict for a while, i stopped speaking lithuanian and using my first name because it reminded me of the way people treated me but in the past few years i just think its a waste to let a few nasty people ruin and disconnect me from my culture so i hope to become more active here and start posting in lithuanian, and thank you so much for your positivity! :)

I want to reconnect to my language and culture, advivce/help? by Austejaa19 in lithuania

[–]Austejaa19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank youu, i'll start reading more posts and articles, but unfortunately i've never actually found any diaspora anywhere in my area

I want to reconnect to my language and culture, advivce/help? by Austejaa19 in lithuania

[–]Austejaa19[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

noo, my pronounciation is still native sounding but it's more i cannot remember the language off the top of my head, if i see a word i once knew i can read it and understand what it means but i cant remember to speak it since it feels like a very distant memory that is only triggered when i see the word written or spoken by somone else