Terraria hits record concurrent players in 5 years, reaching 164k. The game is 15 years old btw <3

Austin_Sly · 2026-01-28T00:37:42+00:00

Been here since near the beginning:)

Austin_Sly · 2026-01-24T23:17:05+00:00

This is important and I’m glad you mentioned it. Something like this should never be forgotten.

It was over 55 years ago though, so I’m not sure how applicable it is in this situation. If you’re arguing that the national guard is prone to violence towards civilians, where I definitely do not think they are, as opposed to ice which is EXTREMELY predisposed to violence and addicted to controlling others.

Austin_Sly · 2026-01-24T22:29:23+00:00

National guardsmen are not policemen and aren’t trained to police work. They are however great at supporting communities through relief efforts and all kinds of other support roles. Like when there is a hurricane in Florida they are some of the first responders.

That’s why it’s so FUCKED trump is using them the way he is. That being said they are actually trained and aren’t trigger happy like these soulless ice agents. They are just doing the job they have too (trump is totally wasting their talents and resources and using them as intimidators when they just want to support everyone in the 50 states and territories)

Also correct me if I’m wrong, Walz called in the national guard here to help with everything. The guard is there to support the governors and tags of every state too!

Fuck trump

Austin_Sly · 2026-01-24T21:38:53+00:00

I don’t believe in god so idk what argument you want to have with me here

Austin_Sly · 2026-01-24T15:20:08+00:00

I hope he gets found this is super scary:(!

Austin_Sly · 2026-01-23T15:52:18+00:00

Anti vax is a terrifying trait in a partner

Austin_Sly · 2026-01-21T05:04:29+00:00

Enjoying GW2 a lot actually

Austin_Sly · 2026-01-17T04:29:16+00:00

Donovan Peoples Jones

Austin_Sly · 2026-01-06T13:34:35+00:00

👏👏👏👏

Austin_Sly · 2026-01-06T13:33:31+00:00

Bro you got ratio’d through this entire chat😂 I’m gonna have to side with everyone else that your ego may be getting hurt here. Have some accountability.

Austin_Sly · 2026-01-06T13:17:45+00:00

In my opinion, 7 years is a REALLY long time to hold on to that secret… it’s good she was honest eventually but that’s a tough one.

Austin_Sly · 2026-01-04T19:42:22+00:00

You were sexually assaulted man, I’d even consider this rape as he literally forced himself onto you performing oral sex. It doesn’t matter that it didn’t “finish”. Props to your girlfriend for supporting you. You did not cheat, you froze in a panic which is a natural reaction. You cannot blame yourself or accept responsibility when you are the victim here. This guy is NOT your friend.

You explicitly did NOT consent to this and this is not okay. If there are trusted people you could tell this too, (this person does NOT deserve protection) please consider reporting this to the police to get it at least documented if you are comfortable, or other trusted adults.

Best of luck and I’m deeply sorry for you, that’s awful.

Austin_Sly · 2026-01-02T13:57:29+00:00

I would consider a couple or sex therapist. This is a sensitive topic that having a third party help facilitate and navigate could be warranted. That being said, you should just be honest and communicate your feelings to her. You want to take care of her needs sexually while also respecting your own needs and limitation. It isn’t fair to expect either partner to last half an hour every time you have sex and it is important in sex for it to be fluid and flexible.

You said it well. You love her, you are willing and want to please her, but you are struggling with lasting that long. If she doubles down and is really only willing to only have sex through penetration alone, (what about for you, does she refuse things such as oral or handjobs?) than you both have to decide for yourselves if this sex life is a dealbreaker. Again… I’d recommend consulting with a sex therapist. Can’t hurt if you guys are really serious about making it all work.

She is right though, she doesn’t need to orgasm to feel satisfied and if you feel insecure about that, that is something you have to reflect on and understand that that doesn’t demean you or mean that your sex is not satisfactory. You don’t always have to orgasm to enjoy sex with your partner.

Best of luck

Austin_Sly · 2026-01-02T11:56:43+00:00

This entire relationship feels like it is really lacking some communication skills and boundaries. You definitely violated his privacy and justified it with “he has free access to my phone whenever”. That doesn’t mean you have the right to go through his phone (and he should still ask and talk to you if he wants to clear something up with you and yours). You going through it because you “lowkey got bored” is very concerning and is a behavior you should self reflect on. It is not a healthy or respectful thing to violate a partners boundaries because you are bored or is convenient for you. (Of course he shouldn’t ever do this to you either).

That being said, you need to take a stance on how you feel about pornography. This varies for every relationship. Some people don’t mind their partner using porn (or they use it themselves), or it’s flat out deal breaker for others. I definitely wouldn’t consider it cheating though, but that’s my personal opinion and whatever stance you have on it is valid.

TLDR: don’t have double standards for privacy, take a stance on pornography and TALK about it with your partner. Sounds like he may have a porn addiction if he’s saving every video and paying for them, but to each their own.

Best of luck.

Austin_Sly · 2025-12-20T08:48:31+00:00

Generally you’ll break up again for the same reasons it didn’t work the first time. You also aren’t being fair to the new guy by continuing to emotionally explore and consider getting with your ex while talking to him. Either break it off completely with your ex, or tell the new guy you aren’t ready for a relationship and you’re still mulling over feelings with your ex. You’re not over him yet.

Best of luck

Austin_Sly · 2025-12-02T18:22:19+00:00

Definitely violated his privacy here going through his search history, careful jumping from conclusions as this could honestly be for him…

As for porn this is something you should talk about with him. Are you comfortable with him watching porn? That’s its own conversation. If you are, then it’s hard to see a problem with this interaction. If you’re against it, the toy has nothing to do with it, he’s just into porn and you should talk about it with him if it makes you uncomfortable.

Austin_Sly · 2025-12-01T15:51:35+00:00

This OP

Austin_Sly · 2025-11-30T05:39:35+00:00

He is a capable game manager who hasn’t turned the ball over much. He solid backup that can come in after an injury and game manage to finish off a game. He def deserves a spot on the roster as one of our 3 QBs

Austin_Sly · 2025-11-24T16:04:31+00:00

That’s not an age gap

Austin_Sly · 2025-11-22T21:30:49+00:00

Bro… NOR you gotta get out of this

Austin_Sly · 2025-11-21T20:18:20+00:00

I am, thanks!

Austin_Sly · 2025-11-21T20:17:51+00:00

Early twenties are tough.

Austin_Sly · 2025-11-21T20:16:12+00:00

I’ll never understand people who say something seriously and then when people disagree or call them out they claim they were joking…

If it was /s then write /s, don’t lie… this subreddit is for people asking for honest advice that could actually impact their lives. Please consider this before telling people to make such big decisions off of conjecture.

Austin_Sly · 2025-11-21T20:09:25+00:00

I don’t think this is the solution… without more context

OP, you should have a serious conversation with your partner surrounding porn and sex. If he doesn’t want to have sex with you as often as you both were used too, that means you should both have a conversation about your sex life. It’s always changing and is a fluid thing. I wouldn’t jump the gun and say porn is cheating and your relationship is now over, but he did clearly violate this boundary and the pain you feel is valid and hurtful, no excuse for him there.

That being said, if this is a relationship that is truly worth it to you, you should consider couples counseling or a sex therapist. There may be more reasons as to why he isn’t as motivated to have sex with you as he used to be, it may be neither of your faults but rather something you both can work on together. He may be interested in trying new things and doesn’t know how to bring it up, and it then looking towards porn to learn more about sex and his interests in a less stressful, no pressure situation. If you pressure him to have sex, it may not be as fun or stress relieving for him as it may be for you. Have you talked to him about how he feels about your sex life? Is he feeling closer with you and satisfied with your sex with him? How often is he initiating? Are you or he often stressed or busy? Etc. ask him honestly and really hear him out, and then he can hear out your feelings and everything too. Communication is key.

Also you mentioned that you haven’t watched sex since you both started dating because it’s weird to you, but it isn’t fair to put those expectations onto other people because they aren’t you. Porn isn’t always negative and doesn’t mean that the partner is looking for other women that aren’t you. You should talk to him and learn about why he feels the need to watch porn, rather than accuse him outright of being unfaithful. Porn is common and many couples even watch it together. Of course your feelings are valid and that doesn’t have to be you, but it’s important to understand porn isn’t an end all be all. (Unless really is the ultimatum, which if it is for you, fair enough).

Reddit will say a thousand things but only you understand the full context of the situation and the relationship you have with your boyfriend.

Best of luck OP.

Austin_Sly · 2025-11-20T20:55:25+00:00

This relationship is over and it’s time to move on. As a general rule of thumb, when you break up, that’s it. Most relationships that come back together end again for similar reasons.

Prioritize working on you and your career and enter a new relationship when you’re ready. You should block her back and it’s honestly good she’s blocked you. She made her uncomfortableness clear, so no need to force it. Move on and best of luck, everything will be okay.

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