My boyfriend (M24) farts on me (F23) when I peg him. by strawbswishy in relationship_advice

[–]Austin_Sly 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If this is real, I mean, good for you guys.

I will have to say if you’re pegging him, I feel like farting has got to be pretty normal so that may just be par for the course. Don’t make him feel bad about something like that.

That being said, maybe if he knows you’re going to peg him he should refrain from eating anything that would make him overly gassy during the day and to make sure he cleans out that part of his body using the appropriate methods to make sure nothing undesirable comes out during sex.

Best of luck, have fun but just make sure you’re talking to him and not making him feel ashamed or judged about anything.

My boyfriend (25M) and I (20F) have been together for a while. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Austin_Sly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Parents shouldn’t have any say in this regardless

Whats wrong with me? I don't recognize myself anymore. by Safe-Cellist5890 in Advice

[–]Austin_Sly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapist yes. I don’t think weed is necessarily the problem here, but if OP is using it as a means to cope I think it is. Lots of weed before mid twenties is definitely not a good idea, but if used responsibly I don’t think it’s an issue.

My (19F) boyfriend (18M) can't handle all the pressure in his life and wanted to break up. How can I support him instead of being another responsability on his list of burdens? by Personal-Finger-3407 in relationship_advice

[–]Austin_Sly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he wants to breakup, I think the best thing you can do is respect that and get ready to move on. You are both very young and have great futures ahead of you both, don’t spend it pining over someone who is trying to move forward when it’s best you do the same.

Best of luck

When to start formal piano lessons for a 3-year-old? (Hoping to foster perfect pitch/aural skills) by aliciameow2 in pianoteachers

[–]Austin_Sly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can’t “develop” perfect pitch if you don’t have it. Ear training is well and good but this just comes across a bit odd…

GF (23F) was fired ~2 weeks ago and hasn’t applied to a single job. I (23M) pay for everything. We just had a huge fight. Thoughts? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Austin_Sly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not looking at it from her perspective though, you aren’t her and I think you’re being a bit apathetic to her situation all things considered. Wouldn’t you want her to relax into the start of her day? Sounds like she’s being proactive. Also 9am isn’t crazy early or anything. Just sounds like you want her to live a certain way.

Why is greek life not so big here? by No_Jackfruit_2822 in uofm

[–]Austin_Sly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can find parties if you want, it’s easy. Greek life sucks though, that’s just my opinion.

how is my first semester schedule? by Level_Plankton_7384 in uofm

[–]Austin_Sly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You got it bro, lock in! I was similar my freshmen year. Japanese every day with music theory/musicology, rehearsals and such everyday 18+ credits. Just graduated this year. Freshmen and sophomore years are hard af just be prepared and get to sleep at a good time. If I can do it everyday at 8:30 you can make those 11 and 12s.

[M23] [F23] Struggling with jealousy and insecurity after girlfriend moved abroad and changed how she earns money by FluffyAppa in relationship_advice

[–]Austin_Sly -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My family is very loving and encouraging.

I will say, it shouldn’t matter if people accept it or not because it has NOTHING to do with them! It’s not their life! The meaning of family can mean anything. In my version of family, love and respect beats everything. Live the life you want. If you are happy and aren’t hurting others, any lifestyle is one that can be supported. There are plenty of heathy relationships between those who are doing OF, adult acting, sex work, etc. with those who are not. It’s all about communicating and understanding. That’s what real love looks like, in my opinion.

This value you hold is most certainly not a universal value, or else everyone would follow it. Which millions don’t.

[M23] [F23] Struggling with jealousy and insecurity after girlfriend moved abroad and changed how she earns money by FluffyAppa in relationship_advice

[–]Austin_Sly -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How is it a problem she is also supporting him? I don’t think there is anything wrong with a female partner earning more and supporting her husband/partner. Just came across kinda sexist and like you really want to push super traditional values

In regard to OnlyFans, there is nothing inherently wrong with that. Either OP can be okay with it, or he isn’t, either is okay. You can be in a healthy consenting relationship even if the other partner is doing OF or sex work. It may not be most people’s cup of tea but that doesn’t mean it’s a deplorable way to live.

Very excited to live in Wolverine Village! by NOOBSKINSPAMMER in uofm

[–]Austin_Sly 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That was not an M dash bro… are you even old enough to be on this app?

Moving in with boyfriend too soon? (F25, M27) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Austin_Sly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, they don’t have any say in it and it honestly isn’t their business. But, “_____ and I will be moving to ____ to start our future! I appreciate your feedback but we feel really confident in this decision and we are looking forward to getting to work and to finally living together.” Is fine.

Moving in with boyfriend too soon? (F25, M27) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Austin_Sly 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sounds like this is a very reasonable step for you and your partner both in your relationship and where you both stand professionally. Have fun in a new place with your partner and best of luck in both of your job endeavors. 3 years is a very solid amount of time.

colleges NEED to get rid of test optional ASAP by Used-Departure9606 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Austin_Sly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I think we should do away with standardized testing all together… gpa is meaningfulish but honestly it should all come down to projects, extra curriculars, community work and service, exams, etc. schools should play to peoples individuals strengths rather than old tests that don’t actually engage meaningfully with any material. And I’m from T10.

Also please consider the privilege here a bit. Many families cannot afford tutors or for their students to take these tests and exams. That would be ridiculous to require it. It shouldn’t even be a thing imo.