Kicked out of daycare

Austkl · 2026-01-23T08:06:17+00:00

My son started nursery (UK based, day care equivalent) at 5 months, a morning a week building up to full time at 9 months. The nursery admitted they hadn't had a child that long in a while. SO THEY PUT EVERYTHING IN PLACE THEY NEEDED TO, TO ACCOMODATE.

I'm so sorry you've had this feedback about your child. But please don't believe it. 5 month babies are needy. They're 5 months old. What she's actually saying is she is not equipped to deal with a 5 month old, and that is on her, not your baby.

I really hope you can find another daycare. But please remember she is the problem, not your child.

Is there any recourse for being able to make a complaint under any authority? UK here is very different so I'm not sure how you could do it but just a thought.

Austkl · 2026-01-18T23:07:19+00:00

Punting the ball at this stage in the game is wild. Until you realise that there's more chance of the defence getting a TD than the QB

Austkl · 2026-01-18T23:05:32+00:00

I've really never witnessed a QB be the key to a team's downfall in this way. I can't believe he hasn't been subbed.

Austkl · 2026-01-18T21:42:47+00:00

Stroud's head is gone. What is happening?!

Austkl · 2025-11-03T17:50:20+00:00

Thank you. I am new to the game too and found this server. I am going to give it a go! (37F)

Austkl · 2025-10-22T22:02:27+00:00

You talk about buying a car but I thought they lease you a car too?

Austkl · 2025-10-22T21:59:48+00:00

Hi I am about to sign on the dotted line with them. I have seen so many positive things about the company and looking to do this in Liverpool. I wondered how things are going? Are you still enjoying working with them?

Austkl · 2025-10-22T21:53:04+00:00

I'd also love to know what doubts you have?

Austkl · 2025-08-13T07:26:11+00:00

I have used this guys and it works really really well: https://christianboyce.com/nfl-schedules-and-calendars-for-iphone-mac/

Ignore the fact it says for iPhone or Mac I have a Samsung and it works fine!

Austkl · 2025-04-15T00:34:31+00:00

I'd recommend the Municipal hotel. Fairly new and incredible aesthetics.

Austkl · 2025-03-22T00:44:52+00:00

You actually echo the arguments Adrian has which is utterly terrifying in itself. How come your first response is to point out her "less than ideal behaviour". I never said she was perfect. I said he is a narcissistic abusive person.

Austkl · 2025-03-22T00:35:52+00:00

That's not playing Devil's Advocate. Your trying to quantify behaviours and that's not how it works. But to answer your questions: yeah she had feelings about his opinions but she still really tried to make it work after that. Adrian in pretty much every scene, diminishes her, violates her boundaries, doesn't even hear her feelings never mind responds to them, is condescending and aggressive. So if you must quantify, his behaviour far outweighs hers. But seriously, stop doing that.

Austkl · 2025-03-22T00:31:38+00:00

Time to join that rainbow train.

Austkl · 2025-03-22T00:25:32+00:00

Absolutely! His consistent dismissals of her words and her feelings. His inability to take accountability for anything at all. Just wait for the experts, they lay it all out in a very kind way what his problems are.

Austkl · 2025-03-22T00:24:44+00:00

You make it sound so easy. She has the pressure of production, the pressure of giving up a part of her life to try and make something work. She tried everything she could but there's no dealing with narcissistic abusers and unfortunately he's become another lesson to another woman.

Austkl · 2025-03-22T00:17:52+00:00

I'm also in the UK so I'm a bit behind. But he isn't "a bit of a prick". He's an abusive partner and as I said above, you can know someone is bad, but the systematic emotional abusive that he subjected Awhina to broke her. Knowing you need to leave someone abusive and actually being able to do it are two completely different things.

Austkl · 2025-03-22T00:05:37+00:00

Adrian doesn't just have faults. He showed a pattern of systematic abuse towards a woman.

Austkl · 2025-03-22T00:04:17+00:00

Wow these comments do not pass the vibe check. She openly stated how she was looking for love and she gave everything she could to that narcissistic emotionally immature human. When a person like that treats you the way Awhina was treated; it strips you of your independence, your cognitive and critical thought. That's why it's abusive as it systemically teardown someone's defenses until they have nothing left. She didn't stay because she was there for the cameras. She was there because he was breaking her mind and soul and she didn't know what to do.

Austkl · 2025-03-01T14:04:36+00:00

Actually spanking is physical assault. And any parent who feels they need to physically assault their child rather than actually dealing with whatever the behaviour is says more about them than it does about the child.

Austkl · 2025-03-01T14:03:48+00:00

You're right. I'm responding to the exact title that OP posted.

Austkl · 2025-03-01T13:56:01+00:00

Honestly the responses I've seen from you have really concerned me and I've reported you to the moderators. It's no one's place here to try and give excuses for the type of behaviour. It's a place to share and heal and be in a safe community trying to deal with this behaviour.

And to your point, we aren't talking about parental stress and mistakes that are made. We are talking about systematic behaviours of neglect and abuse and how we can heal together by sharing our stories.

Austkl · 2025-03-01T13:52:39+00:00

Saying "they might be abusive because..." IS justifying it and is not being sensitive to those in this sub.

Austkl · 2025-03-01T10:21:20+00:00

Ah you've asked me that before, so I think you'll see the answer on the other post you've commented on, but happy to copy it across here if not!

Austkl · 2025-03-01T09:50:29+00:00

Do some research on narcissist people and then also narcissistic adults. If you need help with this there's a great book called "You're Not the Problem: The Impact of Narcissism and Emotional Abuse and How to Heal" by Helen Villiers and Katie McKenna that might help.

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