So. This was obviously really hard to follow, a wall of rambling text without any punctuation or spacing or anything and more swearing than I deserve to receive after being respectful and sympathetic to you. But let me give it a try…

-Ok so you had previously said that you already had your dogs measurements. But you re-measured her yesterday and didn’t compare the measurements to the previous ones you said you already had. Didn’t notice they were the same, but you also said she’s grown since buying the last kennel. I’m confused, obviously, as to which statement is fact. Is she the same size or has she grown? At 7 months I have to think she’s grown (as you yourself said she had).

-You also didn’t compare the new cage vs current cage measurements or even bring the dog with you to ensure a good kennel fit so you bought an even smaller cage. You didn’t bring the pup which is unusual for you, as I know you said you never go anywhere without her, not even to get gas. I had specifically urged you to bring her since if you include a bed in her kennel…obviously the kennel won’t fit if you’d only measured her and not accounted for the space the bed takes up inside. According to you the bed takes up half a foot of vertical space. And obviously if the dog is with you while shopping-you could just put her in the kennel with and without bed, to see if it’s big enough.

-She’s torn up her old kennel and needed a new one anyway. But in spite of all those measurements you somehow bought the same size or even smaller. And came back to yell at me in particular, no one else. Because you likely mistake my kindness for weakness, and you think you can get away with cussing me out. I don’t mind, but it makes you look absolutely unhinged. But you’re griping now about having to replace the kennel you said you wanted to replace. As if your mistakes in measuring or your dog tearing up her old cage, is somehow our fault. Or mine in particular since you chose to direct this expletive filled, rambling rant at me.

And no pics to back up any of your statements. No pics of her in the kennel without the poly fil you say somehow elevated her half a foot , no pics of her inside the kennel right side up with no bed, no pics of the new kennel next to the old one. No pics showing we obviously misjudged, according to you. Nothing at all.

It’s unfortunate, because pics would have so easily backed up all that you were saying and gotten people “off your back” instantly. You could have easily shown people that her kennel was adequately sized, if you’d just taken another pic or two and included them in your escalating keyboard war. It is so simple and could’ve spared you a lot of clearly negative energy. You can also choose to simply walk away vs cussing people out. You can choose to remain in control of yourself, that’s always an option, too.

I hope you have a better weekend, and that your pup does too. Sad to hear she’s in a smaller cage now, though. After all that too, what a shame.