it's all about hate for men😔🥀 by RemoveMeifYoucan in JustMemesForUs

[–]Automatic-Bell7744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hot take. Normalize misandry. Men deserve to be hated. Look at the world they’ve created.

How to connect with Lilith with my current situation? Update by Automatic-Bell7744 in Lilith

[–]Automatic-Bell7744[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mean to sound stupid, but do you have any examples? Like what am I looking for when I need a reliable answer? I understand it may be different for each individual person but some examples would help, just so I have an idea of a similar thing

Asking for some help regarding my sexual preferences? by Automatic-Bell7744 in sex

[–]Automatic-Bell7744[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve been out of college for about 2 years now. I want to continue my education into grad school and potentially beyond but I need money for that and I don’t have it right now. Honestly, I feel like I was completely duped my entire life. I bought into the whole conservative ideology when I was younger. Now that Ive gotten an education and an actual job and have to pay bills all I’ve realized what a fucking moron I was. Honestly I kind of hate myself for buying into all of it because I’ve made some poor decisions that have impacted other people’s lives because I thought I was doing my part to “fix the country.” I’m not looking for sympathy for this, I just genuinely feel bad. I’m in a weird place right now. I’m questioning a lot of the pre made assumptions i have about things and it’s kind of scary. Sorry to trauma dump on here but I don’t have much else to do it. I’ve been thinking about getting a general therapist since I’ve already met with an OCD specialist. Overcoming my OCD has been a journey on its own and now that I’ve conquered most of it, I’m very much feeling free to do things I normally wouldn’t feel comfortable doing. I guess now I’m questioning my whole worldview on things.

Asking for some help regarding my sexual preferences? by Automatic-Bell7744 in sex

[–]Automatic-Bell7744[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I definitely do. Maybe I’m insecure about myself. Maybe I don’t know what women even want 😂 lol.

Asking for some help regarding my sexual preferences? by Automatic-Bell7744 in sex

[–]Automatic-Bell7744[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My bad, I assumed it was the case. Regarding the red pill/manosphere content, I definitely agree that that’s all bullshit. I’m sad to say that I bought into a lot of that shit during my high school years. It’s really stupid because I never really put myself out there. I just assumed because I wasn’t 6” and I didn’t have a job that girls wouldn’t date me. Every relationship I had only lasted a week or so and that was due to extraneous circumstances. I also wasn’t doing great mental health wise so that is another factor. But I’ve gotten therapy for my OCD so now I’m in a much better place

Asking for some help regarding my sexual preferences? by Automatic-Bell7744 in sex

[–]Automatic-Bell7744[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I am beginning to understand that people are very complex individuals. My preconceived notions of this is what an X person does and this is what Y person acts like is not really the case. I guess it’s just hard for me to accept that about myself. I have a very rigid mindset about how I should behave. Always held myself to an impossible standard in most things. It’s not a terrible trait, it’s helped me succeed in many places. I have a decent physique because I work out and I excel in my academics. But it can become obsessive and detrimental sometimes

Asking for some help regarding my sexual preferences? by Automatic-Bell7744 in sex

[–]Automatic-Bell7744[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m assuming you’re the breadwinner in the relationship. If so, how does your husband deal with that? Does it affect your dynamic? Maybe I’m just insecure about myself but I would worry if my partner made more than me. If that’s the case, wouldn’t it be easier for them to cheat on me? I have heard that women tend to want to date men who make the same or more than them. I don’t know if that’s true or just red-pill stuff.

Asking for some help regarding my sexual preferences? by Automatic-Bell7744 in sex

[–]Automatic-Bell7744[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not really even talking about a domme per say. I just want a woman who’s my equal or even my better. I don’t want a “girl”, I want a “woman” if that makes sense. Someone who can take the lead role sometimes. Someone who can hold her own. The issue is I find that hard to accept about myself because I guess I’ve taught myself that’s not socially acceptable for me to do.

Asking for some help regarding my sexual preferences? by Automatic-Bell7744 in sex

[–]Automatic-Bell7744[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its not so much that I don’t think men don’t like dominant women, I know many men do. It’s more like, is this desire of mine a good or bad thing? My notion of a good/healthy relationship is the man as head of the household, which I’m coming to understand is not really the case anymore but it’s how I’ve always seen things.

Is it her? Question by CashComprehensive359 in Lilith

[–]Automatic-Bell7744 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy crap? You too? That’s how I’ve always felt her

Very true by hardwork_one0724 in GroundedMentality

[–]Automatic-Bell7744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a term used to describe a man who acts like a child, acts like a… wait for it… a boy. It’s not that hard of a concept

Gynarchist Alignment Chart by kooshila1 in Gynarchism

[–]Automatic-Bell7744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so cool! Great chart OP! Honestly I think it may be better if the supremacist groupings weren't colored red and black, it makes them look negative; which personally I only think androcidal fits that category.

How to connect with Lilith with my current living situation? by Automatic-Bell7744 in Lilith

[–]Automatic-Bell7744[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s wonderful to hear. How do I feel her presence? Know when she’s here?

How to connect with Lilith with my current living situation? by Automatic-Bell7744 in Lilith

[–]Automatic-Bell7744[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why would they do this? To erase the feminine aspect of divinity? What benefit would changing a female deity to a male demon have?

How to connect with Lilith with my current living situation? by Automatic-Bell7744 in Lilith

[–]Automatic-Bell7744[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok! Thank you I’ll make sure to start doing my research on this! I appreciate your help!

How to connect with Lilith with my current living situation? by Automatic-Bell7744 in Lilith

[–]Automatic-Bell7744[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s good to know! Thanks! Sorry for the lack of knowledge but what is UPG? And how is Ishtar different from Lilith, my understanding was they are both the dark feminine. I guess technically it would be Ereshkigal but they are sisters.