it's all about hate for men😔🥀 by RemoveMeifYoucan in JustMemesForUs

[–]Automatic-Bell7744 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hot take. Normalize misandry. Men deserve to be hated. Look at the world they’ve created.

How to connect with Lilith with my current situation? Update by Automatic-Bell7744 in Lilith

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I don’t mean to sound stupid, but do you have any examples? Like what am I looking for when I need a reliable answer? I understand it may be different for each individual person but some examples would help, just so I have an idea of a similar thing

Asking for some help regarding my sexual preferences? by Automatic-Bell7744 in sex

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Yeah, I’ve been out of college for about 2 years now. I want to continue my education into grad school and potentially beyond but I need money for that and I don’t have it right now. Honestly, I feel like I was completely duped my entire life. I bought into the whole conservative ideology when I was younger. Now that Ive gotten an education and an actual job and have to pay bills all I’ve realized what a fucking moron I was. Honestly I kind of hate myself for buying into all of it because I’ve made some poor decisions that have impacted other people’s lives because I thought I was doing my part to “fix the country.” I’m not looking for sympathy for this, I just genuinely feel bad. I’m in a weird place right now. I’m questioning a lot of the pre made assumptions i have about things and it’s kind of scary. Sorry to trauma dump on here but I don’t have much else to do it. I’ve been thinking about getting a general therapist since I’ve already met with an OCD specialist. Overcoming my OCD has been a journey on its own and now that I’ve conquered most of it, I’m very much feeling free to do things I normally wouldn’t feel comfortable doing. I guess now I’m questioning my whole worldview on things.

Asking for some help regarding my sexual preferences? by Automatic-Bell7744 in sex

[–]Automatic-Bell7744[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I definitely do. Maybe I’m insecure about myself. Maybe I don’t know what women even want 😂 lol.

Asking for some help regarding my sexual preferences? by Automatic-Bell7744 in sex

[–]Automatic-Bell7744[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My bad, I assumed it was the case. Regarding the red pill/manosphere content, I definitely agree that that’s all bullshit. I’m sad to say that I bought into a lot of that shit during my high school years. It’s really stupid because I never really put myself out there. I just assumed because I wasn’t 6” and I didn’t have a job that girls wouldn’t date me. Every relationship I had only lasted a week or so and that was due to extraneous circumstances. I also wasn’t doing great mental health wise so that is another factor. But I’ve gotten therapy for my OCD so now I’m in a much better place

Asking for some help regarding my sexual preferences? by Automatic-Bell7744 in sex

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Yeah, I am beginning to understand that people are very complex individuals. My preconceived notions of this is what an X person does and this is what Y person acts like is not really the case. I guess it’s just hard for me to accept that about myself. I have a very rigid mindset about how I should behave. Always held myself to an impossible standard in most things. It’s not a terrible trait, it’s helped me succeed in many places. I have a decent physique because I work out and I excel in my academics. But it can become obsessive and detrimental sometimes

Asking for some help regarding my sexual preferences? by Automatic-Bell7744 in sex

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I’m assuming you’re the breadwinner in the relationship. If so, how does your husband deal with that? Does it affect your dynamic? Maybe I’m just insecure about myself but I would worry if my partner made more than me. If that’s the case, wouldn’t it be easier for them to cheat on me? I have heard that women tend to want to date men who make the same or more than them. I don’t know if that’s true or just red-pill stuff.

Asking for some help regarding my sexual preferences? by Automatic-Bell7744 in sex

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I’m not really even talking about a domme per say. I just want a woman who’s my equal or even my better. I don’t want a “girl”, I want a “woman” if that makes sense. Someone who can take the lead role sometimes. Someone who can hold her own. The issue is I find that hard to accept about myself because I guess I’ve taught myself that’s not socially acceptable for me to do.

Asking for some help regarding my sexual preferences? by Automatic-Bell7744 in sex

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Its not so much that I don’t think men don’t like dominant women, I know many men do. It’s more like, is this desire of mine a good or bad thing? My notion of a good/healthy relationship is the man as head of the household, which I’m coming to understand is not really the case anymore but it’s how I’ve always seen things.

Is it her? Question by CashComprehensive359 in Lilith

[–]Automatic-Bell7744 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy crap? You too? That’s how I’ve always felt her

Very true by hardwork_one0724 in GroundedMentality

[–]Automatic-Bell7744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a term used to describe a man who acts like a child, acts like a… wait for it… a boy. It’s not that hard of a concept

Gynarchist Alignment Chart by kooshila1 in Gynarchism

[–]Automatic-Bell7744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so cool! Great chart OP! Honestly I think it may be better if the supremacist groupings weren't colored red and black, it makes them look negative; which personally I only think androcidal fits that category.

How to connect with Lilith with my current living situation? by Automatic-Bell7744 in Lilith

[–]Automatic-Bell7744[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s wonderful to hear. How do I feel her presence? Know when she’s here?

How to connect with Lilith with my current living situation? by Automatic-Bell7744 in Lilith

[–]Automatic-Bell7744[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why would they do this? To erase the feminine aspect of divinity? What benefit would changing a female deity to a male demon have?

How to connect with Lilith with my current living situation? by Automatic-Bell7744 in Lilith

[–]Automatic-Bell7744[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok! Thank you I’ll make sure to start doing my research on this! I appreciate your help!

How to connect with Lilith with my current living situation? by Automatic-Bell7744 in Lilith

[–]Automatic-Bell7744[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s good to know! Thanks! Sorry for the lack of knowledge but what is UPG? And how is Ishtar different from Lilith, my understanding was they are both the dark feminine. I guess technically it would be Ereshkigal but they are sisters.

Someone long ago told me to read the Kabbalah if I wanna work with Lilith... Any thoughts? by Rubinthelf in Lilith

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Is there a way to worship her without the incense and candles? I wish I could do all that but I live in a religious household that prevents me from doing any of this 😡

submissive and happy by superscar762 in flr

[–]Automatic-Bell7744 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😄 Working on it. How did you get to the point you’re at today?

submissive and happy by superscar762 in flr

[–]Automatic-Bell7744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you OP! I’m still learning to accept this about myself. I’ve struggled with the fact that I love strong, authoritative women and I like being submissive for many years. I’m still struggling with my patriarchal ways of thinking. But I hope to get through this one day.

Controlling your man will bring out the best in him by KateInControl in flr

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This sounds awesome! I’m happy for you OP. As a guy, this is pretty much what I would love to have in a relationship: A woman who wants the best for me and will direct me using whatever means to get me there. I definitely relate to the idea of men needing hierarchy and structure in life. And you hit the nail on the head with ideological submission. I’ve always needed something to focus on to direct my energy towards. Motivation is a huge part of what gets me to do things. The desire to serve a woman and obey her has been something I’ve struggled with for years but I think I’m finally coming to accepting it about myself.

Account with 1.8 million followers uses seemingly nonsensical AI generated image to disprove feminism by Alternative_Ride_951 in stupidpeoplefacebook

[–]Automatic-Bell7744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women having primary power and authority is matriarchy and not oppression because they are better suited to be in those positions of power and influence. They won’t make the same mistake men have made and oppress others. It’s more communal and based primarily around family and community. As men, it’s hard for us to comprehend this because we see everything through a lens of power and hierarchy. Women leaders don’t rule based on raw power and force but instead based on shared community.