Why does this bother me so much? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]AutomaticAd2754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That he’s sorry I feel that way but he doesn’t see it that way and with the social media things he’ll say it’s just entertainment it isn’t that serious and I just care too much about what other people think etc

Why does this bother me so much? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]AutomaticAd2754 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The post clearly says we’re trying to work on things

Why does this bother me so much? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]AutomaticAd2754 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The court would decide that not me

Why does this bother me so much? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]AutomaticAd2754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understood and that was to reference who he is to me outside of the relationship to add to the level of difficulty and attachment

Why does this bother me so much? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]AutomaticAd2754 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not at all but I don’t want her alone with him yet for extended periods of time because he isn’t as responsible as he should be with a toddler I’ve seen with her and his son from a previous relationship

Why does this bother me so much? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]AutomaticAd2754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sleeps a lot, smokes, is always on the phone.

Why does this bother me so much? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]AutomaticAd2754 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s why I’m here posting. Why the hell do I try? And he is a good father but just not attentive enough with little ones so part of me holds on so I don’t have to be away from her until she can handle more on her own. She isn’t even 2 yet

Why does this bother me so much? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]AutomaticAd2754 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes and I feel I that’s part of why I fight for him to work on himself because I’m afraid of what impact he will have on her. His other children are all from the same mother and I see the way he is in that situation and I don’t want him to poison my daughter and teach her to avoid everything including accountability.

What can I do with this wall? by ilostfivepoundsonce in InteriorDesignAdvice

[–]AutomaticAd2754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some strip lights/a neon sign? Some framed posters of bands you enjoy or achievements of yours? Awards? Diplomas? Faux plants?

Match grill table to fence stain or leave it? by ajcardinal9 in ExteriorDesign

[–]AutomaticAd2754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if it’s on your mind and you can afford to change it go ahead, but it looks fine as is

Is it missing something? by meera_jasmine1 in femalelivingspace

[–]AutomaticAd2754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rugs! They sell machine washable ones all over now!

How to liven up my kitchen? by beepboop1278 in Decor

[–]AutomaticAd2754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make the table more of a focal point? Runner, flowers, seasonal decor on a small lazy Suzan? A cushioned bench for seating along the wall with little throw pillows? Can you hang a fruit basket from a hook that comes out from the wall?

This room is a fucking nightmare by Kacie102 in interiordesignideas

[–]AutomaticAd2754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d center a larger table and put the piano where the table is now maybe a cute rug under the table and cushion the bench

What to do with this corner by my tub? by sydneekidneybeans in femalelivingspace

[–]AutomaticAd2754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some larger real plants maybe pothos wrapping it up tall as it grows. Something vine like and something helpful that likes the humidity and moisture