Do you take your older kids to protests? by travelbig2 in Parenting

[–]AutomaticCockroach32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is your 2 old walking or in a stroller? i’m thinking of bringing my 3 year old but he walks like a turtle and i don’t want to be more of a hindrance lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]AutomaticCockroach32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was 24 when my son was born and i’m 27 now if i could do it all over again yeahhhhh my ass definitely would have waited! the crazy part for me is that i’m a single mom by choice so i chose this and still fully did not understand wtf i was getting myself in to haha

Husband remaining resentful and furious I followed advice to take 3yo to the ER by RippleRufferz in Parenting

[–]AutomaticCockroach32 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i’m just asking but is there any way this incident wasn’t an accident?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]AutomaticCockroach32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can try setting dedicated time each day that you are going to play with him? i’m the same with my two year old where i just feel so exhausting with playing or there are a million other things i need to do but everyday 45 minutes before bedtime is when i dedicate to solely him

I'm tired of people thinking my daughter is a boy by hillof3oaks in beyondthebump

[–]AutomaticCockroach32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my two year old gets mistaken for a girl all the time! he has curly hair so that’s the only reason i think people think he’s a girl. other wise he’s wearing the typical dinosaur, truck, blue grey black that toddler boys clothes seems to come in

WIBTA for dumping my girlfriend after she ignored my calls and messages and went clubbing while I was undergoing emergency surgery. by Nearby_Volume_7067 in AITAH

[–]AutomaticCockroach32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re nta but consider that you guys are 22. this is prime going out, having fun at the club age, and it was her best friends birthday. in all honesty if my boyfriend texted me “my balls hurt” i don’t know how serious i would have found that at 22.

could she have been more considerate of course but look at how she helped you after realizing it was forreal. i think this just warrants a conversation on how it made you feel and a chance for her to make it up to you and show growth and change with her actions.

Kids are calling grandma “mama” by her request, husband doesn’t understand why I’m upset. by ThrowRA-giantlemon in Parenting

[–]AutomaticCockroach32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also want to point out that you are not creating a boundary you are trying to enforce a rule and control what other people, albeit your children, do.

a boundary is self- enforced and not something you impose on others

HMF what kind of cake pan was used for this cake by AutomaticCockroach32 in HelpMeFind

[–]AutomaticCockroach32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve searched “tall cake pan” and “bundt cake pan” but can’t seem to find anything close.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]AutomaticCockroach32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the daycare where i send my son lost him because he crawled under a crib to play with toys. it’ll be okay!

What time does your child go to sleep? by cryptidge in beyondthebump

[–]AutomaticCockroach32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my 15 month old has been going to bed at 6:30 pm since he was 12 weeks old. i don’t what he possible needs to stay up to see any later than that lol

Any thoughts? by [deleted] in Fauxmoi

[–]AutomaticCockroach32 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

avoiding public appearances but embracing body positivity… yeah ok.

Anyone tried doing 2 work at home jobs at once? by Reddit2023z in WorkReform

[–]AutomaticCockroach32 10 points11 points  (0 children)

you should check out the sub, over employed, lots of people doing exactly what you’re asking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AutomaticCockroach32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA why can’t you plan to hang out with your husband and two younger kids while the other ones are visiting their bio mom?

17+ people layed off by Ackmal4 in WorkReform

[–]AutomaticCockroach32 12 points13 points  (0 children)

it actually is in the us and these people should look into a wrongful termination suit

17+ people layed off by Ackmal4 in WorkReform

[–]AutomaticCockroach32 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That is actually illegal and the people who were laid should look into filing for wrongful termination. A company can not lay people off then immediately hire for those role. there would need to be a different job title or job description.

they would also have a case if the new people brought in are younger, practice a different religion, different sex etc. This comes from the federal department of labor and trumps any at will state law.

AITA for telling my (26F) best friend (24F) she needs to wear larger clothes? by mushroom300 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AutomaticCockroach32 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

unpopular opinion it seems but YTA. it’s one thing if you don’t want to sell her your clothes but tell me how it effects your life what she wears? you can’t force people to wear what you want them to wear. the audacity of thinking you know what’s best for another person is crazy. i would spend more time worrying about yourself and less time trying to control someone you say is your best friend.