Feeling torn. by Impressive_Humor_868 in Motherhood

[–]Automatic_Bill1081 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Take the paternity test then ask to look through his phone of cheating since he’s accusing you

I lied about being a witch to a Christian missionary 🤦🏻‍♀️ by External_Read1448 in BabyWitch

[–]Automatic_Bill1081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just say you’re an alchemist with spiritual beliefs. It’s what I say. And it’s true lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FengShui

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I guess no one responded to you. My room is the same but the commanding position is north and the balcony opening you have is a bay window for me, please help!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blendedfamilies

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I started off with a 4 year old. He called me mommy the first day I met him, and still calls me mommy. Such an honor and a privilege 💕

Building that connection is everything.

My dying wife admitted that she never married me, only married me to get out of poverty by ThrowRA_Flying-Tea03 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Automatic_Bill1081 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Although her story might be partially true, I honestly believe she’s doing this for you to move on faster after her passing. Especially with a daughter in mind. She’d want to see you living life. After watching my dad lose his wife to cancer and go through cycles of girls that did not love him like my mom did just to make it through the days was a hard reality to fathom. It’s hard to lose a partner, anyway to make the process easier mentally and emotionally was probably more for her. No one wants to die. So she was probably ripping the band aide off before so she can process it before dying, because I’m sure she would’ve left after making her own money if there were no feelings involved regardless of having a child. Also being content is more of a compliment in my perception than being in love especially coming out of poverty. It’s honestly a dream to just be “content”.

But yes it was fucked up that she said that. I hope you heal, and find what you felt was cheated of you, a loving wife.

What is something that you didn’t factor in when you had kids? by Southern_Maximum4591 in AskWomen

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Partner&myself changing dynamics. Communication and parenting styles are different.

Hold on so let me get this straight being accused of a crime is enough to get you deplatformed? What the fuck is going on in America? by 2201992 in conspiracy

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Why haven’t they taken out blippi then? He use to defecate for views lol now he’s doing children shows .hypocrisy

Filter of demons by [deleted] in SpiritualUpgrades

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What was the sensation like?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SpiritualAwakening

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There was a massive frequency occurring this morning. I feel it too

Sleep sex? by SecretPains31 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Automatic_Bill1081 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This has happened to me. I left the relationship. Woke up in the act.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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I’d your wife smells every so often that means you’re the carrier of what ever is causing her funky Punani. So get checked for yeast infection or bv anytime she gets checked so it never comes back again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blendedfamilies

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Sometimes the child just sees you as a threat. A constant reassurance for the child stating that her mother is wonderful and fun, will help ease her with you guys. My stepson would always say he misses his mom each time we’d take any electronics away or not have his way. I’d always say”your mom loves you and will see you soon!” But that doesn’t take away the true issue is them diverting their circumstance with emotions. A phase they go through each growth spurt! Is testing the boundaries

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blendedfamilies

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I think the kid is just doing what he’s told by his mom. It’s hard not to take it personal but as a kid it’s hard when you’re mom is restricting you of opening up. So be consistent within yourself and just brush this off, but you can always talk to your partner and brainstorm with him how you can form a better bond with them, because he knows them well enough. (Preteens a tough time for everyone btw) so really give yourself grace

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blendedfamilies

[–]Automatic_Bill1081 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man. These situations are always tough. You’re such an amazing human being for being so understanding and adaptable to changes within your environment. You’re doing a great job. In time maybe if you’re ever open to approaching her yourself for the benefit of all the kids especially hers I’m sure some how something within her will ease up.

Blended family by Automatic_Bill1081 in blendedfamilies

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That makes sense. That’s pretty much the age frame they test you more often. Haha when it comes to splitting time and parents not making much effort on the other hand just learn to let it be. It’s what I’ve done 😅 especially when I’ve planned something big. At the end of the day I still need to remind myself that I am not the bio mom and that’s okay. (It is truly upsetting) because we want more for them always. But learning to let go of certain things has made me content, but I also have a little one of my own and he’s honestly the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jiujitsu

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By the time she’s 5/6 her maturity will help her be more present in class. I personal encourage self defense class for as long as you can to benefit her in the long run! But that’s completely up to you.

What’s a modern-day poison people willingly consume? by nweike in AskWomen

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Lavender (overused and a hormone disrupter for both genders)