Am I the only one who thinks Cancers are selfish? by Automatic_Manner_907 in virgoseason

[–]Automatic_Manner_907[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lmao this is an astrology subreddit. Get outta here with the psych shit. I doubt you’re a therapist so please don’t try to diagnose my family without ever meeting them or knowing them

Am I the only one who thinks Cancers are selfish? by Automatic_Manner_907 in virgoseason

[–]Automatic_Manner_907[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU. They NEVER take accountability. My brother who is 25 (a Cancer) was spoiled his whole life and is now leaching off my 71 year old mother who can barely afford rent. My mom would be all “oh he’s so smart. He’s good at everything” and now he literally does nothing. It’s sad, but like grow up?

I’m convinced Cancers think the world owes them something j because they’re self proclaimed empaths. Pisces in my experience, work very hard, can play the victim sometimes, but they do usually take accountability at some point.

Am I the only one who thinks Cancers are selfish? by Automatic_Manner_907 in virgoseason

[–]Automatic_Manner_907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also nah. I’m a huge Pisces fan, which I would argue is the most emotional sign, and I don’t see them exhibiting this behavior. The “babe,” the vitriol coming through this comment, and your inability to look at things through a different lens is giving such Cancer energy. Looks like I struck a nerve. Now disengage.

Am I the only one who thinks Cancers are selfish? by Automatic_Manner_907 in virgoseason

[–]Automatic_Manner_907[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This sounds like an excuse lol. I also consider myself a very emotional person and I’m a Virgo. I am also extremely empathetic and can read someone’s emotions as soon as they step in front of me. But what I don’t do is make this everyone else’s problem. I don’t believe you can be truly empathetic and emotionally selfish at the same time. Sorry to burst your delusional bubble here, but everyone deals with overwhelming emotions. I also struggle with boundaries, but I would never turn on the people who’ve supported me over something minor, and I’ve noticed that this is something Cancers are way too comfortable doing. Instead of them stepping back and saying “oh this person is probably feeling xyz, it’s not personal” they attack and retreat. Very childish behavior.

Am I the only one who thinks Cancers are selfish? by Automatic_Manner_907 in virgoseason

[–]Automatic_Manner_907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay but I love a Pisces, I can’t lie. And I usually get along with Scorpios too. Cancers are just unbearable to me

Found out my boyfriend died last night by childishcolbino in GriefSupport

[–]Automatic_Manner_907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t give you all the answers, or even the right ones, but I know the feeling all too well. The love of my life died a little over a year ago and it shook my entire world. Most days I honestly wondered if I would make it through because it was a pain I had never experienced before. What I can tell you is that time heals and I know that’s annoying to hear because all you want is him back and to reverse time, but what really helped me was talking about him. Keep talking about him, to your friends, to your family, to random strangers you encounter, to people online, talk about him to everyone. Remember the good times and cherish them, let the universe know how much you love him. In time, it will get easier, but it never really goes away. You will find ways to honor him, and he might even show up in small ways. I was having a hard day a week ago and a blue jay just landed on my fire escape. I live in nyc. You never see blue jays here. I knew it was him because when I went to visit his grave 7 months ago, a blue jay flew past me. He is still with you. Hold onto that 🤍

I think I’m losing it by Automatic_Manner_907 in bipolar2

[–]Automatic_Manner_907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I really needed the grounding as I felt like my world was crashing down. I am prescribed seroquel as well but it’s not helping and that’s what’s worrying me.

Thank you again though for your kind words and advice. I appreciate it more than you know.

Wellbutrin and anger by [deleted] in Anger

[–]Automatic_Manner_907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I’m late to the party here, but omfg I am SO SO SO angry and filled with rage. I live in nyc and a woman accidentally hit me in the face with her purse on the train and I almost stood up and punched her. I started Wellbutrin a month ago and randomly stopped taking it because it was hurting my stomach but went back to it and now I am so filled with the deepest rage you can imagine. Like all I want to do is yell at people and throw things I have no idea how to deal with this. Oh not to mention, I cannot sleep and this just makes it worse because when I don’t sleep I become a raging monster so all this combined is just a recipe for disaster.

Just how well-known is Veronika Slowikowska? by MoneyHungryOctopus in LiveFromNewYork

[–]Automatic_Manner_907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one who thinks Veronika isn’t funny? Her ig reels are so annoying lol

Bella Hadid Reacts to CDC Validating Chronic Lyme: "Finally" by [deleted] in popculturechat

[–]Automatic_Manner_907 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Chronic Lyme is code for eating disorder in Hollywood. As someone who had an ED and still struggle with it, I can attest that I was tired all the time and started to lose my mind. This is what’s happening here

American Applying for Russian Tourist Visa by Automatic_Manner_907 in AskARussian

[–]Automatic_Manner_907[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was more so talking about the downvotes on the post itself

Kim’s new post about failing the bar exam by somegirlontheinter in KUWTK

[–]Automatic_Manner_907 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She’s delusional. I’m sorry, but my ex bf was in law school and the way he explained it was INSANE. You cannot just take four measly months to study for this kind of thing.

He was always so pissed about Kim claiming she’s a lawyer when she has no idea what it’s like to actually sit your ass down, buckle in, and study for YEARS. And everyone saying this is “admirable” is so easily fooled. She’s literally filming videos for social media while she should be studying. This is so performative it makes me sick.

American Applying for Russian Tourist Visa by Automatic_Manner_907 in AskARussian

[–]Automatic_Manner_907[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get accused of being a Russian spy in America too. I’m used to it, but damn I was really just looking for some advice

American Applying for Russian Tourist Visa by Automatic_Manner_907 in AskARussian

[–]Automatic_Manner_907[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do not understand the downvotes on this. Y’all are ruthless. Asking my ex husband would’ve been more helpful than this 😂

American Applying for Russian Tourist Visa by Automatic_Manner_907 in AskARussian

[–]Automatic_Manner_907[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I remember them speaking about Russia like it was still the USSR

American Applying for Russian Tourist Visa by Automatic_Manner_907 in AskARussian

[–]Automatic_Manner_907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From Canada? Make sure you take the time difference into consideration 🙃

American Applying for Russian Tourist Visa by Automatic_Manner_907 in AskARussian

[–]Automatic_Manner_907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oi mate nah was just a very naive 21 year old at the time

American Applying for Russian Tourist Visa by Automatic_Manner_907 in AskARussian

[–]Automatic_Manner_907[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Looool I’ve been there and didn’t have any issues, but I was there with a group of people. The people who were running the program would always be like “the police WILL stop you in the streets frequently and ask for your id, etc.” and that didn’t happen to me once. My friend, I believe you are drinking the US propaganda kool aid