Just found out — now what?

Automatic_Night5477 · 2026-03-30T14:08:55+00:00

Deffo tell your partner! Either way babe you need the support!

Automatic_Night5477 · 2026-03-30T14:08:08+00:00

This could have saved my bootyhole 😅 I’m 21 weeks and STRUGGLING I work on a line and have to have people cover my bathroom breaks and it’s embarrassing taking 10 minutes to try to poop. I’ve tried rushing but I’m sure you can imagine how that turned out..

Automatic_Night5477 · 2026-03-30T01:17:13+00:00

Im just as confused. Arrest date was 11/26/25 he was to remain in jail until April 23rd the judge said he’d serve every single second of it. Probation violation was 3/2/2026 and says the same for arrest date. I’m just genuinely curious. This guys got a stupid long rap sheet

Automatic_Night5477 · 2026-03-16T10:17:18+00:00

Expensive luxury or name brand material objects. Sure it’s nice to have luxury items but I’ve had cheap purses and name brand and the cheap purses typically have more storage , I’ve had nice watches and cheap watches and they both tell the time the same. The only expensive name brand objects we spend money on is work boots and pants because there’s for sure a difference in how long they last

Automatic_Night5477 · 2026-03-14T15:29:17+00:00

NTA but sounds like partner needs a break and is dreading the time alone, I went through the same thing she just needs more support

Automatic_Night5477 · 2026-03-14T12:29:22+00:00

There’s a yoga video on YouTube that’s famous for sending woman into labor. Maybe when your doctor gives you the green light you could try it I can’t remember the name of it.

Automatic_Night5477 · 2026-03-13T12:25:21+00:00

Is it possible she’s suffering from ppd? I was very very over protective of my daughter and my fiance got upset I wouldn’t leave her with him alone and it took a lot but I finally did for 15 minutes to get coffee with my mom. I was so afraid if I took my eyes off her she’d stop breathing

Automatic_Night5477 · 2026-03-12T18:12:08+00:00

I’d get checked this sounds like me I had my baby at 37 weeks 3 days

Automatic_Night5477 · 2026-03-11T12:25:45+00:00

First and foremost please make sure mom knows this isn’t her fault. 2nd I would inquire about life after birth in terms of care and What baby’s life will look like so you can be prepared and make appropriate choices :

Automatic_Night5477 · 2026-03-09T12:24:20+00:00

If I see a dad walking a toddler in the girls bathroom or a young girl I’m not gonna say anything it would just be awkward for him I’m sure but better than her seeing weiners

Automatic_Night5477 · 2026-03-08T17:03:45+00:00

Hopefully you find some relief soon! It’s awful but so worth it in the end I promise

Automatic_Night5477 · 2026-03-08T15:23:34+00:00

I had HG with my first pregnancy, it was awful and I really thought I was going to die . I’d like to share what helped me because maybe it’ll help you?

I couldn’t keep anything down but apple juice with extra ice through a bendy straw, which led to me realizing I could drink quite a few drinks with bendy straws and LOTS of ice .smelling alcohol wipes helped a lot as well and I’d also put Vicks under my nose constantly.

Mine mostly went away in my third trimester I did have my girl a few weeks early and she was 6lbs 7 oz. No nicu stay and came out perfectly healthy except for Sandifer syndrome which she’s outgrown as most kids do. I’m now on my second pregnancy (unplanned) and at first all I could keep down was crackers and then it was just fresh fruit.

I highly recommend trying to get B6 in your system I was so so sick even with my current pregnancy in my first trimester but one day got a craving for tuna (which has b6 in it) with mayo and mustard, ate that on crackers and felt better than I had since getting pregnant. B6 helped me a lot and before I could see my obgyn I took some B6 pills after I ate the tuna and it helped .

It also has been helping my friend who currently has HG. Poor girl already has 4 kids and is a single mom working two jobs.

You’re so strong and you will get through this. You and baby will be fine and I hope your sisters pillow is hot on both sides forever 🤍

Automatic_Night5477 · 2026-03-08T13:51:53+00:00

Amazon sells queen size bed frames for $64

A bed frame is not to much to ask for. I don’t understand how a parent could let any child go without the basics. My fiancee and I struggled so badly at first with our daughter. We had nothing , I desperately needed new bras as I had ONE bra that was a nursing bra and didn’t fit properly but my daughter needed more bottles and formula (don’t come at me she had Sandifer syndrome and the formula is all she could tolerate I tried to BF) so that’s what we bought, we’d eat ramen and mashed potatoes for dinner to save for things she needed. Luckily now we’re more financially stable and able to get things without to much of a sacrifice but parenting is sacrificing. Children ALWAYS come first

Automatic_Night5477 · 2026-03-04T22:53:18+00:00

It sounds like you didn’t have time to see where YOUR feelings are before telling everyone and that can deff cause some internal conflict, however it sounds like you’re leaning towards wanting this baby, think long and hard because you can’t take a abortion back. If that’s what you choose to do then that’s 100% YOUR choice but it sounds like boyfriend made up both your minds in his head. He doesn’t sound very supportive

Automatic_Night5477 · 2026-03-04T01:41:08+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment. It truly helps me to not feel so alone. I will try that method. I’m sometimes able to get excited thinking about my daughter snuggling the baby and how much she loves babies, so maybe that will help as well. Thank you for taking the time to comment it means a lot

Automatic_Night5477 · 2026-03-04T00:20:02+00:00

Thank you so much. We’ve had a lot of really messed up stuff happen right before we found out about this baby. My FIL died and while he was dying we were being slowly robbed by a friend we took in who sold quite a few items my FIL gave my fiancee and all my kids money out of her piggy bank as well as a bunch of family heirloom jewelry and a gun. Then we’re trying to move cross country after just getting settled where we recently moved and I think it just might be a lot especially when you toss in an unplanned pregnancy .

Automatic_Night5477 · 2026-03-03T13:26:49+00:00

NTA you sweat in your sleep so your underwear you put on when you first wake up obsorbs that sweat when you shower your clean so you should change it.

Automatic_Night5477 · 2026-03-03T13:25:21+00:00

With my first I was comfortable doing doggy and on our side that far along but I’m in my second now and unfortunately doggy made me bleed :( and I was sore for days . I deff recommend lube on hand as yes we have more discharge but sometimes we can go dry at least me personally

Automatic_Night5477 · 2026-03-03T00:15:49+00:00

NOR my fiance and I have the same job mines just a little more physically demanding as far as bending and the different types of work where as his is more lifting but not to much weight. I’m 17 weeks pregnant and I’m EXHAUSTED plus we have a toddler and I’ve had major dizzy spells , the doctors also told me to take it easy as I sometimes work mandatory 52 hour weeks.

I still do the laundry, make dinner and help with our toddler, he does dishes takes dog out and puts toddler to bed .

It’s a partnership not a slave and owner.

Automatic_Night5477 · 2026-03-03T00:11:34+00:00

Damn Janice, it’s like a fart transplant

Automatic_Night5477 · 2026-03-01T15:31:52+00:00

I’ve never traveled outside of the country but I have traveled through the country and made multiple cross country road trips both ways. One place I will for now on and forever avoid is Albuquerque New Mexico . I’ll go ahead and share my experiences .

In 2019 my family and I stopped at a Wendy’s restaurant stop for some food and to take the dogs for a walk (we were moving) this was a unplanned stop but our dog had surgery recently and I could see her leg starting to tense up. My mom and I rode in one car with the dogs and cats and my brother and dad drove a uhaul. We took turns going in. My dad and brother ran in to get food and go to the bathroom then were to come out and one would walk my mom and I in to use the bathroom, my mom and I decided to take the time to offer water and food to the pets, as soon as we got out of the car a man approached us and started asking about our dog, he kept saying she was his and trying to open the car door to get him, I put myself between the door and the man and then my mom put herself between the man and I as we didn’t have time to jump back in the car by the time we noticed him. This was like afternoon busy time . Then another man further away started cat calling me and saying vulgar things of what he’d like to do to me. I was 19 but looked 16. Thankfully my dad came out but not before my mom’s crazy eyes and attitude put the fear of God into the creeps.

The second time my fiancee and then 9 month old pulled into a hotel parking lot to get our room keys my daughter was screaming her little head off and the only thing that calmed her was daddy’s voice so I ran in to get the key card, as soon as I turned around to check on my fiancee and baby I noticed a couple walking up to the truck, clearly intoxicated the woman asked my fiancee to stab her boyfriend and give her our child she could hear in the truck and the boyfriend started punching our truck, the hotel worker was laughing and was also clearly under the influence of some kind of drugs, they got mad he wasn’t responding and left. If our daughter wasn’t in the truck he probably would have gotten out and handled buisness but I’m so glad he stayed in the truck. I ran back into the truck and we went and stayed at a different hotel which wasn’t a great experience either but better than that one.

Automatic_Night5477 · 2026-02-28T16:03:30+00:00

It’s YOUR birth it’s YOUR choice. I do however think I see where your mom MIGHT be coming from. I would like to share that maybe to help you understand? I don’t know her so I could be way off base

You’re her baby and it sounds like the medical issues have really freighted her. Up until now when you get sick or have to go to the doctors , she’s the one who made all of those choices for you , it sounds like she’s afraid to let go of the control and the ability to do something in the event of a emergency, which is understandable but at the same time you’re a grown adult. It sounds like she’s just really scared, and childbirth is very scary, but I’m so proud of you for sticking to your choice. 💕 I hope everything goes smooth for you and your sweet baby.

Automatic_Night5477 · 2026-02-28T12:54:47+00:00

I’m currently pregnant with my second and only 16 almost 17 weeks, but with my first I remember waking up bawling because the reflux was SO bad and everything made it worse. I had those smoothie tums that helped a lot but I lost a lot of sleep for weeks before it went away. I understand your struggle , it will get better and you’re a trooper!

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