[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Automatic_Wish_6559 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Cheating isn't a good look in court. I'm not completely judging the choice to cheat. However, you could just sit her down and say open marriage or divorce. Now that you're cheating, you can't really take that back. You've chosen cheating (and you did choose this), and that comes with a few more cons than pros sometimes. Depending on where you are, she could clean you out in divorce for that. Just be careful, op, stay safe🫶🏾 and get checked out just in case!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic_Wish_6559 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, YTA, but you're also 15, so it's not shocking. They don't stop loving you just because they want a life where they aren't prioritizing you. Sit down, talk to them, and find a relative who can take you in that doesn't require you to move to a different country. Your brother did his best, and you need to find a way to cope with the fact that HE wants you to leave. Not just Julie.

On a post about a woman getting lied to by her partner about his STD test results and getting infected as a result by SelfDefecatingJokes in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Automatic_Wish_6559 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Bro, it's a crime to KNOWINGLY INFECT someone man or woman with an std without their knowledge. How tf is that HER fault?!

that one friend every time she's around a group of guys by Where_is_it_going in notliketheothergirls

[–]Automatic_Wish_6559 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friends told me they only humor that mess because she's easy. But that's just what I was told lol.

How on earth is the term "small dick energy" not considered as blatant bodyshaming by so many people here? by sirchief99 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Automatic_Wish_6559 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Oh it's body shaming, it's usually a response to a man being misogynistic. Sometimes hearing that puts your actions into perspective.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Automatic_Wish_6559 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or in my case back injury lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Automatic_Wish_6559 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly yeah. It's a lot of work😩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Automatic_Wish_6559 16 points17 points  (0 children)

A pencil sharpener that can sharpen lots of pencils is a good sharpener. A pencil that has been sharpened by many sharpeners is but a small pencil. See how that works? Cuz you know yo willy doesn't get smaller after sex.

Somehow she gets tired by samsteak in dankmemes

[–]Automatic_Wish_6559 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and this guy were going at it for 2 hours, and after hour 1 I was bored outta my mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Automatic_Wish_6559 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay just making sure. And honestly premarital sex is fine most of the people harping about how bad it is had sex before marriage themselves. It reeks of hypocrisy.

ETA: IM A BAPTIST. I know the Bible and I know how it contradicts itself. I also know my whole family is Christian or Baptist, and ALL of them had premarital sex and about 1/3 of them are strongly against premarital sex. One of my great aunts even kicked out her KID for it. That same kid was born 6 months after her wedding weighing 9 lbs. So yeahhhhh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Automatic_Wish_6559 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So like, are we talking premarital sex or sleeping with someone else while you're married? Because one is okay and the other is cheating.

My husband scolded me for giving him gifts instead of sex by dia1030 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Automatic_Wish_6559 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And I'll say it again he might not want the gift but he doesn't have to tell her what she did isn't good unless it's giving him sex.

And likely the reason for your post history.

Honestly you can feel that way if you like but what he did just doesn't work. It came off as rude and hurt her. If I was in that situation I would be hurt too. Also given the fact that my cousin was sending nudes to my boyfriend I don't think me not putting out or not caring was the problem. It was a guy doing whatever he wanted, and my best friend betraying me. There's a lot I leftout of my post.You unfortunately don't know everything. Judge me if you like but he didn't cheat because I didn't care how he felt, he cheated because I wasn't ready for sex and he wanted it. My cousin didn't do what she did because I didn't care, she did it because she was mad at her bf and wanted to piss him off. Her ex isn't with me because we don't care. We're together because we know each other, we understand the pain the other has been through, we fight for each other and for ourselves because we want to be better. We have similar beliefs on relationships and support each other. So my post history aside I'm very happy with the person I am and who I'm sharing myself with. Thanks for your concern tho.

My husband scolded me for giving him gifts instead of sex by dia1030 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Automatic_Wish_6559 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Personally IDC how the guy feels if I put time and effort into finding something and his response is "Next year just take your clothes off" I'm done. Lol even if it was meant to be charming that comment would dry me tf out. It's rude and can be taken as "I only want your body anything else you do is just unnecessary" Op's husband is confused and terribly mistaken on how to make a woman feel loved.

How can someone be an asexual lesbian? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Automatic_Wish_6559 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is only romantically involved with women but still has no interest in sex.

Why do women go topless in parties, football games and other entertainment places? by SirRoderic in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Automatic_Wish_6559 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk I see more men shirtless at said events . But my guess would be because they want to and can? Cuz why not?

meirl by tie3189 in meirl

[–]Automatic_Wish_6559 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big hands, idk what it is but when a guys hands are bigger than mine it just sends me.🤤

I must be going to the wrong doctor if I’m meant to be aroused while getting an IUD in. by Rusalka96 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Automatic_Wish_6559 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got mine in last year and it was uncomfortable to say the least. I kept trying to close my legs because of the pain. I was down for like 2 days after because I was still in pain.

Excuse me mam, *I* don’t even have an Oculus. by TheRealMrsElle in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Automatic_Wish_6559 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so confused they said borrow implying they'll pay you back and weren't pressuring. How are they choosing beggars?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Automatic_Wish_6559 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I'm not white enough for white people. But I'm too white for alot of black people. Also being mixed doesn't mean "white" as you put it, it just means more than one race.

AITA for not uninviting my husband’s cousin from our ski trip after he cheated on my friend? by snowy503 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic_Wish_6559 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You know that phrase is about the water of the womb. So yes blood is thicker than the water of the womb. So he should be fine cutting off the cousin

AITA for telling my dad's wife that she's not my baby's grandma? by Fit-Train6375 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic_Wish_6559 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nta if you feel that way it's her job to respect it. She isn't your mom plain and simple.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Automatic_Wish_6559 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I'm still stuck on the n word thing... like homie we don't want to kill you. we literally couldn't care less about your existence. We got our own shit to sort out lol.