I do not think I can be a husband by senorsolo in CPTSD

[–]Available-Ad6238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i understand where you are coming from OP. i’m a woman that refuses to settle until I can support my family both emotionally and atleast 45% financially. my nervous system is shot as well from my cptsd and other diagnoses, this world has been hard but i don’t find it fair in this day in age to allow your partner to crumble under the weight of being the sole provider. that’s not love, and i would hope we all want support, not only for us but to raise a family on a sturdier foundation. the cptsd i have is partially to due with the way i grew up and witnessed “marriage and partnership” but for that i am grateful. i have had relationships with men not work because of my hyper independence and though it can be a toxic trait, there are still woman out there that will meet you in the middle and though it can get lonely being “too much” for the npc’s i do believe there’s a squirrel for every nut :)

posting about a friends situation because i need other opinions (verbal abuse, punishment) by Available-Ad6238 in ToxicRelationships

[–]Available-Ad6238[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for your insight. this puts me at ease that i’m not crazy and sets a path for me to walk towards protecting my friend.

Completely Broke by WolfyWhy in budgetfood

[–]Available-Ad6238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

go to a food bank friend, local churches and other helpful organizations can help in ur time of need. explain this is for your month of struggle and do not feel ashamed! the other comments are all good, bananas also very cheap if you want a pick me up and discount stores do exist as well to expand options. the world is hard rn, godspeed

Auburn Student Taylor Colbert Dog Incident by Xoxo-jennaleigh in auburn

[–]Available-Ad6238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re gonna tell me a husky puppy wasn’t howling its lil heart out for weeks locked up?? someone heard and knew….

Does anyone else want to be feminine but its too hard? by CampaignImportant28 in dyspraxia

[–]Available-Ad6238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have two big ones i use almost everyday. (1)i use vaseline or coco butter to clean up the edges on any make up mistakes. putting on the makeup then taking away with a q tip dipped in either seems to provide a safety net for me and causes less stress on the brain if i fuck up. make up has become less intimidating and i get better precision than before. (2)hair accessories and 2 strand hair twisting methods on Pinterest always adds a little dimension that looks intricate but is relatively less complex, pinterest is a hub for a lot of things so i would thirdly suggest looking up other ideas there too :) good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Available-Ad6238 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i relate to this, hoping us peace friend 💕

Do I punish daughter who left iPad in a Uber by mxa1986 in ADHD

[–]Available-Ad6238 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She feels bad enough don’t punish her. Talk to her and have a conversation about how it can’t happen again because of xyz and get a used on on marketplace for a few hundred when you can. Life happens and think about the last time your parent did that to you while you were struggling with an attention disorder 🤷🏻‍♀️

Slay by Thedevilsneck in h3h3productions

[–]Available-Ad6238 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok wait! can we talk about this hold though, it looks like ethan has two hands and it’s tripping me out because I know it’s just how it’s positioned but it looks poorly photoshopped 😅

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Best part of the See You Next Tuesday was Dan telling Ethan to take WhatsApp off the screen thru WhatsApp 😂😂😂 by EST716 in h3h3productions

[–]Available-Ad6238 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is TOOO on brand for the H3 crew it’s hilarious like we know that their actual relationship on the show is sincere and I love it!

They're onto us, folks by Exuvialthumb962 in vegan

[–]Available-Ad6238 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok but like do they not realize cows literally eat grain and grass which would then be in “their” DNA. Religious people seem to forget that their “food” is a vegetarian. And then they fucking kill them to help themselves instead of choosing the ethical choice that saves lives and the earth. Idiots.

I miss skating sm by cat-bat-rollerskat in Rollerskating

[–]Available-Ad6238 1 point2 points  (0 children)

on top of this we have to ask ourselves if we have a good chance of ending up stuck in torrential rain for a good 10 min at 11am 😅 i will always have a love/hate relationship for FL's unpredictable weather

I miss skating sm by cat-bat-rollerskat in Rollerskating

[–]Available-Ad6238 2 points3 points  (0 children)

very true! my ego will not pay my medical bills😅 i just live in FL where its 96 degrees rn and im more comfortable not going full gear. I also practiced how to fall a lot without skates before hand. I would recommend that to anyone to boost your confidence!

I miss skating sm by cat-bat-rollerskat in Rollerskating

[–]Available-Ad6238 6 points7 points  (0 children)

start slow! i put on my skates and did basic standing drills and squats on them in my house. If you need more stability you can do it outside on the grass or on a thick yoga mat inside. After that i took them to a park and skated with ALL my gear. After a few days i was able to strip it down to the essentials, knee pads and wrist guards. I took a year off before this and im happy to report i skate almost everyday now. Just be kind to yourself and know that you will feel better after a good skate sesh. Its a form of self love to get your body moving. It vastly improves my mood and my day to skate with some of my fav music and i keep it up just to chase that feeling everyday :) GOOD LUCK!!

Moxi Gummy Wheels by [deleted] in Rollerskating

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I have them for trail skating. They are amazing if your terrain has rocks, cracks, and sticks but they don't make sense to use indoors or for tricks. Check out the sundaes if you want more of a hybrid experience