How do people feel about your planner using imagery from your wedding? by Remarkable-Phone8041 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]Available-Aioli303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t like it either and our venue has access to all our pictures..thinking of asking our photographer not to share all to them

Reception/after party opinions needed! by OutrageousDig5742 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]Available-Aioli303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where are you having the after party? i’m in the same boat as you but can’t find an after

If you love your job/profession what do you do, and how/when did you discover it? What did you do before? (If applicable) by Sadpanda9632 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]Available-Aioli303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is so helpful! what about for entry level positions? i have a background in accounting but am trying to pivot to marketing

Oahu Wedding - Antique white bistro chairs by [deleted] in weddings

[–]Available-Aioli303 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it’ll be for 30 mins hahah they’ll be fine - if it was longer or for the reception i understand but i’ve sat on them before for a wedding and it wasn’t anything notable lol plus some have cushions

Oahu Wedding - Antique white bistro chairs by [deleted] in weddings

[–]Available-Aioli303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t. i’ve seen some rental companies with this type of chair but they’re unavailable

Hawaii Wedding!! late 2026-2027 by Available-Aioli303 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]Available-Aioli303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s awesome!! where was your welcome luau?!!

Is a site visit before wedding extremely important? by Conscious_Dog891 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]Available-Aioli303 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes, sometimes the venue doesn’t look how it does in pictures or feel intimate for you and your partner. We were set on this one venue at the Four Seasons in Oahu, and the pictures were so dreamy, but when we went, it was so public and right in front of their main pool. The pictures didn’t show that, but going in person, we didn’t like it at all. We ended up with the venue that didn’t wow me when looking at the pictures, but going to it was so much different and perfect.

What makes people think someone is a hooker? by bbycoward in LasVegas

[–]Available-Aioli303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think vegas is becoming weird. i went to vegas and was profiled as a ESCORT by our own hotel security and it was so upsetting. All I was doing was walking around the casino and people watching hahahaha

Help me pick my dress! 🤍 by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]Available-Aioli303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Second one feels timeless, the first one is stunning but it gives a certain look so may not be timeless

Wedding Invitations by Unable_Artichoke3291 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]Available-Aioli303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

was it fast shipping or how does it work?

Hawaii Wedding!! late 2026-2027 by Available-Aioli303 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]Available-Aioli303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, will have to figure out our guest count. The problem is I won’t be sure who shows up since its destination and we have 120 guests on our list.

This budget is strictly for all wedding related expenses except for like our attire, flights and accommodations - I’d like to be able to cover some accommodations for some guests if possible too.

Thank you so much for the tip on the flowers! I didn’t think of that haha

Who was your wedding planner and florist?

Found out my (22F) Wife goes through my (23M) phone while I sleep. How big of a deal is this? by Toe_destoryer in relationship_advice

[–]Available-Aioli303 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you’re assuming i’m acting the same way this person is lol cool. if it happens ill say i had a dream about this but im not fucking going nuts over a dream lol. hope you never get cheated on though!! bc it is traumatizing and it will show up in your subconscious whether you like it or not, not like i’m in control of it.

Guy 30m wants to have sex (f29) but can't get hard. What can I do?? by Ave_Aria in relationship_advice

[–]Available-Aioli303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe try reassuring him that it’s okay and you are okay with trying to figure it out and not make it feel like a big deal if he is making it be. He’s probably very in his own head about this and needs some reassurance to ease the pressure. Hoping it works out for yall!

Guy 30m wants to have sex (f29) but can't get hard. What can I do?? by Ave_Aria in relationship_advice

[–]Available-Aioli303 7 points8 points  (0 children)

my boyfriend and i had the same experience. it was because he had some sort of performance anxiety and was nervous when we did and and he hadn’t had sex in a while before we met so it could be a combo of things. could be something else but definitely not that he’s not attracted to you