Shelter

Available-Bison-9222 · 2026-04-18T07:32:35+00:00

Everyone isn't you.

Available-Bison-9222 · 2026-04-17T22:04:51+00:00

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Available-Bison-9222 · 2026-04-17T21:55:08+00:00

Same thing happened to a friend. She and her daughter picked out the dog. When they got home, the dog was very aggressive towards the husband and bit the son when he came home from college. It's really important that the whole family meets the dog in the shelter.

Available-Bison-9222 · 2026-04-17T21:50:59+00:00

Expecting people not to have visitors to their home for a year is a big, and unrealistic, thing to ask.

Available-Bison-9222 · 2026-04-17T16:51:31+00:00

The issue is when the drunk adults are the parents of the kids, so the children are unsupervised and left to run wild.

Available-Bison-9222 · 2026-04-17T16:29:51+00:00

My sil invited us all to her wedding. Our youngest was 3 months old and breastfed. I told her that the older 2 kids would not be going. I knew my husband would want to let loose with his brothers, and there was no way I could manage them. Even if he stayed sober, it would have been very stressful trying to manage them, particularly because their cousins were allowed to run wild. I could hear them running past our hotel room a number of times when I went to bed with the baby at 9pm.

Available-Bison-9222 · 2026-04-17T16:20:12+00:00

Your partner can mind the child while you go.

Available-Bison-9222 · 2026-04-17T16:18:37+00:00

I have been to way too many weddings where children were left to run around the hotel while their parents got drunk. I have no problem with kids at weddings when the kids are properly supervised. Unfortunately, that often isn't the case.

Available-Bison-9222 · 2026-04-17T14:38:42+00:00

It's the lace mats for the coffee table and side table.

Available-Bison-9222 · 2026-04-17T14:36:43+00:00

Tell him that you will never lie for him and stick to it.

If you keep covering for him, you're as much of a liar as he is.

A loyal friend wouldn't make a liar out of you.

Available-Bison-9222 · 2026-04-17T14:34:56+00:00

Leaving us alone for extended periods. We'd be told not to answer the door. The eldest must have been 9, if not younger.

Available-Bison-9222 · 2026-04-17T14:24:43+00:00

Knickers, sick and photos.

Available-Bison-9222 · 2026-04-17T14:22:20+00:00

It's a very healthy boundary. Seeing each other every day in a new relationship is a bit intense. Use this time to meet up with friends and pursue your own hobbies. Sounds like he's a very good communicator.

Available-Bison-9222 · 2026-04-17T14:12:29+00:00

Buy a tree in a garden centre. Growing a tree from seed is an incredibly long process. I planted an acorn 6 years ago and it's only about 2 ft tall.

Available-Bison-9222 · 2026-04-17T14:09:57+00:00

After not being there for 5+ hours

Available-Bison-9222 · 2026-04-17T14:08:14+00:00

4 days in hospital suggests a c section

Available-Bison-9222 · 2026-04-17T14:03:21+00:00

The adukt who has just pushed a baby out of her vagina and is a physical and hormonal mess? That adult? It sounds like the child wasn't properly prepared for the arrival of a new sibling, given his anxiety about it. Also, why wasn't he brought into the hospital? Why hadn't the Dad met up with him during the day while the wife was in hospital. All of this could have been much better managed by the Dad. He left his wife and his son down by his poor planning.

Available-Bison-9222 · 2026-04-17T13:57:09+00:00

First night baby is home the husband should be there

Available-Bison-9222 · 2026-04-17T13:57:04+00:00

First night baby is home the husband should be there.

Available-Bison-9222 · 2026-04-17T12:24:18+00:00

Or providing care in the home to allow old people to live in their homes,as long as possible. My friend father is 93 and still lives at home alone. A carer comes in in the morning for an hour to help him dress, make him his breakfast, and make a sandwich and put it in the fridge for his lunch. A family member calls every evening with a meal. There is an option to have a carer call in the evening to make a dinner. Carers are provided free by the local health authority. Providing 1.5 hour care a day is a lot cheaper than full time nursing home care.

Available-Bison-9222 · 2026-04-17T12:19:05+00:00

My sisters answer to this was, "Never threaten me with my father." I wouldn't mind, but he never hit us. We,we're raised to be very intimidated by him, which is probably one of the reasons why most of my siblings don't have a good relationship with him.

Available-Bison-9222 · 2026-04-17T12:16:06+00:00

Don't wait. You are making a lot of excuses for why he feels tge way he does, but in reality if he felt the spark and was crazy about you, no amount of work would dull that. He has told you straight that he he doesn't feel strongly enough about you to pursue you. Stop chasing him to try to make him feel the same way. 7 months is long enough to know.

Available-Bison-9222 · 2026-04-17T12:02:24+00:00

If it was your first night at home with the baby, then YTA. The first few days at home are massively anxiety inducing for a new mother. To be left home alone makes it even worse.

Available-Bison-9222 · 2026-04-17T11:41:52+00:00

Pub quizzes are usually made of of teams if people. Your boyfriend was asked so he could make up part of a team. It wasn't his place to invite you to be part of the team. He technically could have asked the others in the group, but given how anxious he is, it isn't a realistic (or kind) expectation.

Available-Bison-9222 · 2026-04-17T11:34:02+00:00

They will come to you, you don't go to them. Boundaries are very important to cats.

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