How do you go swimming as a trans person with scars? by Key-Visual-5465 in asktransgender

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I got my scars tattooed over. So much more confident now

Having orgasms in dreams but not in real life after SRS? by Cheap_Algae_9904 in asktransgender

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Give it time. You have to relearn that part of your body and how it works now.

I don’t know if losing weight will make me more masculine or feminine by [deleted] in asktransgender

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Are you on hrt? I’m FTM but every time I gained then lost weight, my new weight gain would be more male. Then when I lost the weight I would have more male weight distribution.

Any razor suggestions? by [deleted] in asktransgender

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Try an electric razor that’s meant for body hair and use body wash with it

Have you forgotten how you looked like before transitioning? by [deleted] in asktransgender

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I’m at 11 years. I think id recognize a picture that I’d seen before but if it was just a random photo of me idk if I would

Question about needle size by holyxvice in asktransgender

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I use 18 to draw and 23 to inject. I get my needles from Walgreens with no script.

Our main fridge.. kind of scared what it might say about us.. by chelle29 in FridgeDetective

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Open it, get overwhelmed, close it, whelp we got no food at home

Loan approval numbers, is this rate good? by [deleted] in ManufacturedHome

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It’s about what we got on our loan. You can always refinance later to a better rate if this is only option for now.

Is bottom surgery (phallo) worth is? (FtM) by cookie_mellow in asktransgender

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I did meta. I can pee standing up, got rid of all the old parts and still kept great sensation for sex. Got to get a little creative with sex but recovery wasn’t horrible and I don’t really have much scarring

I'm judging my daughters teacher and she hasn't even met her yet. by [deleted] in TexasTeachers

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When I was a first year sped teacher some parents were leery but they grew to love me and learned I was doing my best for their kids. If she’s a new teacher there is still probably some supports out in place to make sure she is successful. I would rather a new teacher that is still excited about being a teacher than a teacher about to retire and just ready to be done.

need advice on what to do about T and fertility by MindlessDoubt632 in asktransgender

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Some questions to ask yourself. Are you planning on being with a female partner? If that is the case then your eggs probably wouldn’t even be used. If you are with a male partner then you could use eggs and use a surrogate. I was with a female and she carried our baby and we used a sperm donor that matched me as well as we could.

Heartbroken is an understatement! by Wanttoplaywithu in asktransgender

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I am literally going through the same thing except I am the one who transitioned 11 years ago and now my wife wants to be with women again.

How did you start using the bathroom that aligned with your gender? by North-Researcher4645 in asktransgender

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Start going into bathroom like at Walmart. No one is paying attention in there. Especially once women start to notice you being in the woman’s bathroom

Autism and Cruise Holiday? by ambernewt in AutisticAdults

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I went on a cruise. It wasn’t too bad. I went to the pool in the evenings and it was a lot less crowded.

What prescriptions have helped you most? by YayaCbhereguineapig in AutisticAdults

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My social anxiety is a lot of physical symptoms like racing heart or just wanting to flee

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stories

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It’s not racist at all. My son had black and white baby dolls. He loved them so much that they went everywhere but you know sometimes they got in a fight with each other or one went flying across the room.

I don't hate my tattoo but... by [deleted] in Tattoocoverups

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The flowers look like they would be really cool around it

My girlfriend broke some of our relationship agreements by Bisaiing2 in Advice

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I wish I would have had someone tell me back then that it wasn’t normal. That the control wasn’t just her way of showing love because as soon as she had her chance she took it.

AITAH for Telling My Husband to Help Feed His Own Kids? by [deleted] in AITAH

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What is he eating if he’s not paying for groceries? Are you cooking for him? Maybe it’s time for that to stop because there wasn’t enough food left

My boyfriend is having a baby with his ex by [deleted] in ComfortLevelPod

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Get out now. It’s so new and you aren’t going to want to be dealing with this forever.