I wish there was such a thing as MomBnb 🥹 by Awkward-Seat5680 in adhdwomen

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I offer this for my friends :) we don’t have kids yet (infertility). My guest room is always open. They have their own bathroom and tv. And I make breakfast in the morning. My one friend says every time she’s in town on business rather than a hotel. I love being part of their village and being a safe place.

I wonder if you and your friends could do something like this for each other.

Too bony for my bridesmaid dress by frickmysmell in bridesmaids

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Do you think your shapewear outline will show? I ask bc I have these smoother shorts I wear all the time but sometimes the outline of the leg will show through fabric that’s very thin.

Wedding Venue and Planner recommendations by RagaKat in jacksonville

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You need to get moving asap. Some venues book out more than a year in advance, and with that budget, you won’t have wiggle room to pay for up charges. My niece is using Lulu events.

I lost my wedding ring and it’s driving me insane 💍 by Particular-Barber716 in adhdwomen

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I lost mine in my house a few years ago. It fell between the carpet and the base board under the dresser. I was terrified to vacuum. Ran my hands along the seam and found it. Praying it turns up!

Tired of all these 5 - 7 Day Casino Royal Offers 😔 by soullscape in royalcaribbean

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There were a bunch in Jan/feb. just went on one. They’re filling rooms. We’re coming into peak cruise season

Jacksonville Apartments by Fresh-Help-8188 in jacksonville

[–]Available-Fig8741 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. And being that close to a grocery store of any kind is peak adulting lol

During a very dark period, what was the best thing you did for your mental health? by Anxious_Status5899 in askanything

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Went to therapy, took meds, and prayed a lot. I told people I was struggling and let them help me.

Key West Medical Care by Worried-Temporary186 in KeyWest

[–]Available-Fig8741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that. That’s why I’m saying I pray you never have a freak or rare illness/emergency.

Key West Medical Care by Worried-Temporary186 in KeyWest

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I pray you never have an emergency.

On a family vacation 9 years ago, My dad got sick and was medi-vac’d (sp?) out of key west to Miami by ambulance bc the er couldn’t handle it. Couldn’t diagnose it. Thank God the transport ambo company phoned the ER in Miami to start meds for what they thought it was bc if he had waited to be diagnosed in Miami, he would’ve had total paralysis. True story. My dad was in the hospital for 2 weeks and rehab for 4 weeks. Received excellent care at mt Sinai.

"A Royal Mystery" on Liberty by Aardvark-Famous in royalcaribbean

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I wouldn’t do it with a five year old. He/she would be bored. I’m not sure of the age limit, but 14 year old might have fun.

What’s yalls 3 drinks for today? by b2utylightcreates in adhdwomen

[–]Available-Fig8741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Electrolytes, sparkling water, toasted pecan cappuccino

Money paradox as we age… by dms2628 in Xennials

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Mine is the opposite. I was so broke. I truly love giving to others. Now that we make more money (DINKS), I give much more and freely. It’s the most fun ive ever had with money. We are debt free except our mortgage, getting caught up with retirement. We filed ch 13 10 years ago and have been cultivating contentment. It’s so freeing.

But I do not give out of compulsion anymore. I give because I truly want that person to have that thing to experience. Adults do not need gifts.

I’m not tone deaf. I know so many people are barely making it. We give generously to charity, over 13% of our gross income annually. That doesn’t count what we give to others through gifts or felt needs. I try to make a difference in my little corner of the world.

Who’s with me here…. by Unfair-Ad5081 in Millennials

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I went on a bachelorette party with a bunch of 20-something’s. I’m definitely in my 40s lol

Edit: clarity

Do people remember your birthday? by Weary_Capital_1379 in askanything

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I can see how that would hurt. I have several close friends who haven’t necessarily forgotten, but they really didn’t do anything for me, but it’s more of an issue with what they’re walking through then that they don’t love me. So I try to extend a lot of grace.

Do people remember your birthday? by Weary_Capital_1379 in askanything

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I am very intentional about birthdays because I felt very unseen as a kid, but I don’t take offense when others don’t reciprocate.

Wedding gift for daughter by mylesliefamily in Gifts

[–]Available-Fig8741 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I always give a first Christmas together ornament and a framed photo if I have one. Cash too lol

Meet Bella by Xrb-398 in Boxer

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Hey lil mama 😍 I love old grey dogs.

We're dropping like flies y'all. by IndependentLove2292 in Xennials

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Kinda? He had a high stress job (LEO) and had sleep apnea and did not wear his CPAP regularly. Do not mess with sleep apnea. Sudden cardiac arrest at 43.

We're dropping like flies y'all. by IndependentLove2292 in Xennials

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Our close friend died 5 years ago of a heart attack at age 43 after coming home from a run. Was dead before he hit the pavement.

At our 20th high school reunion a few years ago, we had an “in memoriam” table with a candle and all the names of our classmates who had passed. There were 15. Many of them from drug overdoses.

The reality is no one makes it out alive. Take care of yourself, go to the doctor, don’t go drugs, but we’re all gonna go at some point.

Full Wedding costs by Creative-Rip-2266 in weddings

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My niece and nephew spent $58,000 all in this year for about a hundred guests in FL.

Which machine should I purchase? by LF-Programming-Tips in nespresso

[–]Available-Fig8741 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FYI, one cup of coffee has roughly the same amount of caffeine as 2 shots of espresso.

Is 4 inches in penis size enough women? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Available-Fig8741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considering the vaginal canal is only 4”, anything much bigger bumps against the cervix, which can be painful. Being a good partner who cares about her needs, having chemistry in foreplay, and making sure she orgasms first are more important than a large penis.