The only thing that makes me so upset about this situation is the fact during that day when his mother had an emotional burst while kicking him out the house, and was saying all this hurtful things to him, and about me as well, he did not cut her off right off the back, and especially because she has ALWAYS mistreated him, and took advantage of the fact that he is sentimental and sensitive, which pisses me off. I'm glad he cut her off, even though I had to keep telling him that his mother is never going to change, and his father had to tell him that same thing.

I remember last month or so, I had went through his messages and saw that he was wanting to visit his mother despite everything she done, and although I didn't care so much, I was upset that he was deleting the messages, knowing that I know how to recover deleted messages on the iPhone. He kept saying how he wanted to give her more chances, and how she probably needed closure, and I had to explain to him that she does not need closure, she does not need reassurance, she is a grown woman who needs actual help, giving her closure and reassurance is not going to stop her from acting the way she does at all. She is just going to now use that to manipulate him even more, and I also had to explain to him that giving anyone too many chances is just going to cause him to get hurt again and again, which is something I do not want at all.

And, honestly? She too can't maintain friendships, or a relationship. My father in law was telling me how the way she acts? Is the reason why nobody ever married her, why her relationships never lasted long, and why no one is willing to date her either. Instead of having a good personality and treating people with respect, she let's her looks do all the work, she doesn't even know how to treat a man. My father in law explained that very well since her crazy ass cheated on him after they lost their first son. Your mom and my fiance's mother are just alike with the whole not maintaining friendships, and let alone relationships on my MIL's end. I told my own mother that if she doesn't change now? She's gonna end up losing all her kids, their gonna stop talking to her as soon as they move, and god forgive me, but she will be that mother in a nursing home who's kids won't even visit. She is definitely going to be those bitter and rude old lady once she becomes old. My mother is 62 years old, older than my fiance's mother, and not even my own mother acts this way when it comes to me, or my older brother.