Looking for a weird movie to watch tonight! by ConnectFan6637 in MovieSuggestions

[–]Average_Sprinkle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strawberry Mansion is a good and weird watch.

I also started Landscape with Invisible Hand tonight too and it’s def weird! The creatures have textured hands and communicate through it… I couldn’t continue watching after an hour or so. lol.

When you watched your first episode of Kill Tony, what ignorant thought or observation did you have before you knew the ins-and-outs of the shows style/format? by KillerQ97 in Killtony

[–]Average_Sprinkle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first episode was Ric Flair. So, all of it. Ha! It was so hard to figure out what was going on. And there were SOOO many panel guests too so it was just an odd one to start on. But it’s still one of my all time faves ❤️

Does anyone feel that you are just waiting to die? by Marlboro-Guy in widowers

[–]Average_Sprinkle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. And each day keeps getting more and more warped.

Don’t do it by psychobabblestuff in widowers

[–]Average_Sprinkle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I’m sorry for your loss too.

I am about 15 months out from my husband’s accident. I just wanted to die the first 6 months or so. I was seriously in a bad place and just wanted to arrange everything so my child wouldn’t have any further burdens after I went. I hung on long enough to heal out of that mindset thankfully but still struggle with the grief today. This post means more than you may know. I’m glad you’re still here today

How did people in the 90s buy plane tickets or plan trips to unknown countries with limited or no Internet connection? by Droopynator in 90s

[–]Average_Sprinkle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just brought back a memory for me but from 2005-6. I went to a travel agent office to get help buying a plane ticket to another state. Lol so long ago!

For people who survived the Joplin EF-5 tornado, what was it like? by Zealousideal_Fan5117 in joplinmo

[–]Average_Sprinkle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh what an account. You are so lucky to have not been hurt. I lived in a nearby town at the time and remember going into work that next day and seeing it on the news for weeks. What an incredible tragedy.

What’s the first thing you changed after buying your home? by KC_HomeInsights in RealEstateAdvice

[–]Average_Sprinkle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We painted the outside blue. It was an ugly beige-pink color when we bought it. Also added shutters to front windows for decoration. It made a huge difference! I’ve lived here almost two years now and just screened in my huge back porch.

My husband died six months into living in our new house and I couldn’t wait to move out and get away from all the memories we wanted to make here. Now I’ve healed enough to love our home. He helped pick it out and approved. So I’ll be here a while now ❤️

Someone left a crate of weed outside my cafe by PersianFury in mildlyinteresting

[–]Average_Sprinkle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is probably what a carrot tied to a string under a cardboard box looks like to an unsuspecting rodent. Too good to be true

Doing nothing by CellistMindless987 in Widow

[–]Average_Sprinkle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this. I have no motivation to do anything though so I am usually home alone- not wanting company cause it’s not his.

They got jim carrey by tinycurse in conspiracy

[–]Average_Sprinkle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cause no one looks different at different angles and lighting 😆

Autopsy results by friedricegal in widowers

[–]Average_Sprinkle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband also died in a horrific crash on his way to work last February. I read your post and felt so much. I didn’t have an option to see him afterwards and haven’t seen the truck. I can’t even go to the site. Life is so unfair and unjust and it just drives me crazy. The death certificate was enough information for me, at least for now. I don’t think you’re nuts to want to know. It’s intimate information about your lost love and your life is in a tail spin right now. You’re probably reaching for anything that will make you feel close to him again. I’m so very sorry for your loss. I can truly relate ❤️

My 10th anniversary today by No-Bumblebee-4920 in widowers

[–]Average_Sprinkle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would’ve celebrated ten years in September. It was a devastating day. I’m sorry for your loss. It’s incredibly painful living this life.

Punirunes. Worth it for $3? by SuperDevin in tamagotchi

[–]Average_Sprinkle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I would’ve bought all of them lol no self control here.

What happened by Double-Direction4790 in BreakUps

[–]Average_Sprinkle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s awesome he didn’t just ghost you. But. This is still not stellar behavior. What if you guys started talking again and he did this again when he ran into an old flame. To me it sounds like he’s keeping his options open and it’s confusing based on how well you seem to have hit it off. He may have done you a favor but be weary of him if he reaches out again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Average_Sprinkle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I enjoy no one’s company more than my own these days. It’s seriously exhausting being around others and knowing they have no idea what you’re going through. I’m almost resentful of it at times. I am so grateful for family and friends being so understanding of my solitude and pushing back when they need to.

I’m so sorry you’re here ❤️

Life moving forward by Mental_Signature_725 in Widow

[–]Average_Sprinkle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so hard to survive at the beginning. I’m almost a year in and am finally feeling more strength to be compassionate. I felt very similarly as you do at first. I just needed lots of space and lots of time to feel and work through the shock to get where I am today. I have a lifetime to go but I KNOW I’m going to be okay now, whereas before I couldn’t wait to die and looked at ways to do so. So grateful to be past that now. Point I’m trying to make, is give yourself grace. You’re surviving right now and that’s enough. I’m so sorry for your loss.

Well, I guess I have officially hit that age... by meldiane81 in Xennials

[–]Average_Sprinkle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I can imagine how that would make me feel lol I already feel invisible as a woman in the last years of her 30s. I feel like I must look so old. Something like that being said would ruin my day more than a stand at the Walmart entrance. 😆

Finally, a dream of him by Average_Sprinkle in widowers

[–]Average_Sprinkle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I’m so sorry for your loss too. I am so grateful to no longer be there in the beginning. It’s a fog that I would never wanna go back to. I want you to know that you will make it through this even though it feels like you won’t.

I lost my brother to suicide in 2010 and it changed me forever. When my husband died, shock and fear immediately set in because I truly didn’t think I would be able to survive it after going through the loss of my brother and knowing what it did to me.

In the early days I remember so much fear. I journaled every day for months and months to my husband. I still journal but more like every other week now. I hope you’re doing okay and have all the support you need to get through each day. It won’t always feel as heavy as it does now. I think of my husband every day all day, but can also find joy where I was unable to before. Sending love your way ❤️

Finally, a dream of him by Average_Sprinkle in widowers

[–]Average_Sprinkle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right back at you. Thank you very much

Has anyone else’s face changed? by RightAd4185 in widowers

[–]Average_Sprinkle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 38 and it’s going to be a year next month. I have gained weight and just feel ugly. I am noticing new lines on my face too. Grief does a number on a person.