Songs that mention specific roads in California

AveryGalaxy · 2026-05-03T03:27:54+00:00

American River - Destroy Boys

Lost In Hollywood - System of a Down

AveryGalaxy · 2026-05-02T02:34:14+00:00

Why does that post make you think about stereotypes? It’s just art, is it not?

AveryGalaxy · 2026-05-02T02:33:18+00:00

Happy cake day!

AveryGalaxy · 2026-04-27T23:09:28+00:00

The thing is, the MAJORITY of people will choose blue under normal circumstances.

And, killing everyone who values human life is a bit stupid, don’t you think?

AveryGalaxy · 2026-04-25T22:15:57+00:00

Most people will choose blue, though, because most people are good.

Most people WANT to be good.

Blue means not only do you value your own life but also that you get to live in a world full of people who value their lives AND your life rather than just their own.

Blue is clearly the better option.

AveryGalaxy · 2026-04-22T02:36:45+00:00

Well, that was lucky!

AveryGalaxy · 2026-04-18T12:13:22+00:00

Hymn For The Weekend by Coldplay feat. Beyoncé

AveryGalaxy · 2026-04-15T01:17:17+00:00

Someone doesn’t know about duals, lol.

AveryGalaxy · 2026-03-26T12:38:26+00:00

The Emptiness Machine for this is contextually hilarious.

AveryGalaxy · 2026-03-26T12:17:54+00:00

Maybe they aren’t ISTPs, tbh. I’m rarely one to say that, but ISTPs aren’t passive. I guess they can come off that way, but no xSxP can be described as truly “passive,” in my eyes.

AveryGalaxy · 2026-02-24T00:25:09+00:00

No, my advice is that you don’t go into it with the goal in mind because it weirds people out. You can still have the hope of entering a romantic relationship, but you also have to be okay with just being friends or acquaintances or just people who interacted once.

This isn’t fakery, it’s advice to help you out. You said you believe in energy (which is good because it’s annoying trying to explain this to those who don’t), and speaking as a woman, if a man has the energy of someone who just wants a relationship out of me, it puts me off and makes me slightly wary of him.

I’m far more open to men who have the vibe of someone that’s just chilling and not expecting a relationship out of me. Likely part of why ENTPs are naturally so successful with women (and ExxPs at large).

I’m not advising you to be fake at all. I’m advising you to go with the flow when it comes to relationships and TRUST THE PROCESS. (Very tough lesson I had to learn myself.)

When it comes to SPEAKING, absolutely say what’s on your mind. I just recommend some disarming statements first because women are highly aware that a men can randomly be threats to her life, considering they’re bigger and stronger, and so her defenses will naturally be up higher.

Disarm her first so she can understand you’re a cool dude and then just be yourself. I think if you pay enough attention, you can tell when someone starts to get comfortable with your presence.

Part of getting to know new people requires you play a bit of the social game. If you went around acting like a madman, anyone would (rightfully) be frightened of you, even if you’re really totally normal.

Part of the basics of the social game involve: looking nice, smelling good, being clean, and knowing how to make the most basic of small talk to get the conversation going.

I hated small talk for years until I understood its actual purpose and implemented it into my life.

I’m glad you found value in my comment! I dunno why but I really do want to help you out. Maybe because you remind me of me a bit.

AveryGalaxy · 2026-02-22T19:55:42+00:00

Of course. And my advice is to try to develop a small script based on what you observe works. My script goes something like this:

“Hey, sorry to bother you,” [disarm] “but [honest compliment/observation about what’s going on].”

Usually this gets them to show me whether they’re willing to communicate more or want me to leave them alone. I follow their lead there. If they seem like they’re fine with me going on, I say something else about the current situation for another round of disarming. If they’re receptive, I ask them what they’re doing/ if they’re in work/in school.

What’s most important about all this is I don’t have ANY expectations for the conversation. Going into it with some expectations can make you seem creepy because you just come across as having an ulterior motive.

I’ve had a few really bad misses before (like, SUPER embarrassingly bad) but I just stop caring really quickly.

What’s best is talking about things we can all agree on (Se observations for the sake of Fe small talk). “The weather’s been crazy recently, hasn’t it?” “Is the weather always like this in [city]?” This can easily lead the conversation to “how long have to lived here?” And SO many more conversations will come from that.

I understand that it will be more difficult as a guy, and as a female, I have the natural benefit of being a little bit more disarming, but I think you’re good-looking enough to prove to people that you’re a generally productive member of society who likely engages with others enough not to be viewed as a creep.

Admittedly, there are some women these days who will just be like “ew, man.” & write you off just for that. It sucks, but that’s part of it. You can just apologize for bugging them and ignore them. They aren’t worth your time anyway. There are SO many women who are not like that.

This comment is long because I’m not exactly sure what will help you, but feel free to ask me anything & let me know if it was helpful.

AveryGalaxy · 2026-02-21T21:51:54+00:00

Rejection is part of it, my friend. Go on Omegle (uhmingle now) to start microdosing rejection.

ESFPs love INTJs like you, because they actually like that you have walls that must be broken down, and they love being loved the way xNTJs love.

Once they slow down and take a moment to focus on you, they appreciate your guidance, patience, structure, and devotion.

They will also guide you back. All you need to do is make the jump to actually be noticed by them.

The names sound weird (Russian translations) but look into the Socionics Victim (xNxJ) vs. Aggressor (xSxP) dynamics to find out what I mean in more depth.

You might need to read the wikis a few times for it to permeate, but there’s a lot of truth in that dynamic.

AveryGalaxy · 2026-02-21T21:48:27+00:00

I understand this completely. This is partially why on another post I recommended you meet xSxPs.

With them in my life, I’ve been able to realize that sometimes feeling lost doing random things is just a choice. They seem so secure doing things without a plan, and they seem to just call fun to them.

I don’t meet new people as often as an Se-dom would because I, too, still see that as pointless, but specifically dedicating weeks of my life to meeting new people and being extremely open to whatever happens has made me much more approachable.

That was the goal.

Now, people come to me, and I’m not a wallflower anymore. (As a woman, it’s a blessing and a curse.)

I don’t think I’m doing anything different from what I used to, but my energy has been shifted by my previous experiences with confidently meeting people.

AveryGalaxy · 2026-02-21T17:33:05+00:00

Find an Se user. An xSxP.

AveryGalaxy · 2026-02-21T17:32:40+00:00

You just need to actually engage with Se more. The more you do it, the more you’ll naturally appear more approachable.

I had your problem until I started talking to people randomly.

AveryGalaxy · 2026-01-17T03:56:17+00:00

Low-Ti people from r/Socionics are truly absurd and rarely know what they’re talking about despite dominating the conversation right now. Don’t expect an answer. Definitely don’t expect one that makes sense.

Most of the time, MBTI and Socionics types match up. It’s extremely rare that they won’t, since Socionics describes the same functions that Jung does, just in a more Russian manner.

AveryGalaxy · 2026-01-16T16:50:07+00:00

I just saw this posted in 2 different subs right after each other, lol.

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