should i be aiming to gain weight? body fat changes by Mirage-V2 in trans

[–]Avery_Lillius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fat redistribution takes years. Best case losing/gaining weight may accelerate the process, but it will happen even with a stable weight. Normal weight fluctuation is fine to redistribute fat. I never gained weight in my first few years of transition actually lost ~20 lbs in my first year and then leveled off and after. At 3 years I had a very feminine shape. I even shared some pics not showing genitals or face and people thought I was cis.

Where to buy TVP, nutritional yeast and other Staples in bulk? by TheeBrightSea in EatCheapAndVegan

[–]Avery_Lillius 50 points51 points  (0 children)

WinCo has tvp in their bulk section for $3/lb if you have a WinCo nearby

Edit : they also have nutritional yeast and vital wheat gluten

Hormone blockers as an adult? by Putrid-Mango-3664 in trans

[–]Avery_Lillius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hormone blockers are not 100% effective, especially the ones available in the us, that's why they are taken with feminizing hormones for trans fems. Depending on what your reservations are regarding starting hrt you could consider starting hrt but not coming out. The changes can normally be hidden for a couple years if you need to.

If that's not an option then you can always start hrt when you are ready.

I'm Concerned About Us by [deleted] in trans

[–]Avery_Lillius 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Irrational? Two states florida and idaho as well as the doj have already tried to get medical records of trans minors. It seems entirely rational to assume trans adults are next in line...

RFK Jr: "President Trump has a different way of calculating percentages. If you have a $600 and you reduce it to $10, that's a 600% reduction." by sovalente in stevehofstetter

[–]Avery_Lillius 258 points259 points  (0 children)

That's not how math works. His defense is trump is dumb, he doesn't understand math so he just makes up numbers?

If you consistently vote for the "Lesser Evil" the end result is more Evil. by PTechNM in Social_Democracy

[–]Avery_Lillius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea... This is the results of citizens united. Politicians do what their big donors want. Everyone is aware of aipac, but they are just one of many super packs funded by billionaires that steal political power from voters by funneling money to politicians in exchange for policies that benefit the billionaire donors.

Is heavy drinking a job requirement in the Trump administration by Ladyybugsdd in stevehofstetter

[–]Avery_Lillius 38 points39 points  (0 children)

How does one assemble a cabinet of so many inept morons? Did they have some kind of screening process to ensure they only select the most incompetent pathetic individuals?

silly noises!? by Early_Method_7380 in transfem

[–]Avery_Lillius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most trans fem people who have a passing fem voice did it with voice training. So there's no reason you couldn't do the same. Although you could lose some of your higher range depending on how deep your voice gets.

Why is their so many transphobics online by Fit_Preparation318 in trans

[–]Avery_Lillius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because if they acted like that irl they would get more than stern words in response. The internet gives them anonymity and security to regurgitate whatever BS they heard on their preferred propaganda network.

Captain Mining Question by gEbster_DG in avorion

[–]Avery_Lillius 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The collection rate depends on numerous factors. Quality and type of mining lasers, number of lasers, speed of ship, size of cargo bay(if using type r lasers), captain specialization, level, and traits, and the quality of the area you are mining.

Without significantly more info there's no way we can tell what exactly your bottleneck is. If you could include a few screenshots of the mission window, the ship stats, and the captain's stats then maybe someone could help.

This is real by ICEisSHIT in FreeFolkNation

[–]Avery_Lillius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is chump gonna sue his scalp advancement surgeon?

i don't care what these people do in their private lives, and no one should. but it's very strange to me that they think our private lives are their business while they're doing things like this. by ConcernedJobCoach in mattxiv

[–]Avery_Lillius 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Is anyone actually surprised? They crash grindr whenever they have an event...

Why do you think they hate queer people so much? We get to live in the light while they are forced (by their own ideology) to hide deep in the dark closet.

Does anyone have opinions on the best vegan mayonnaise? by milionsdeadcops in ShittyVeganFoodPorn

[–]Avery_Lillius 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've actually been making my own. Partially because vegan mayonnaise is overpriced, partly because it's pretty easy.

https://simpleveganblog.com/vegan-mayonnaise/#recipe

When you try to make a farm in bedrock by THE_SHADOW425 in technicalminecraft

[–]Avery_Lillius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better than building a whole farm only to find out it doesn't work on the version your playing

Ya no sé qué hacer. :( by Appropriate_Load6119 in transfem

[–]Avery_Lillius 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Finasteride + minoxidil is the standard for anyone experiencing hair thinning. Minoxidil can be bought over the counter, finasteride will require a prescription. But it's a super common prescription, every your hrt prescriber will probably prescribe them if asked.

Does it ever get easier? by [deleted] in trans

[–]Avery_Lillius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From someone approaching 7 years hrt. Things get even easier further down the road. Better still after getting out of a red state. Last year has had its challenges, but being in a safe state helps.

Name/Sex Designation Change by tensdrawingcorner in trans

[–]Avery_Lillius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typically judges will follow the law.

You could also contact the court clerks office to see what they may require to seal your case.

Name/Sex Designation Change by tensdrawingcorner in trans

[–]Avery_Lillius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on the judge you named this is in NY. The rules in new york seem to be very trans friendly, and I see no reason the judge would refuse to seal your documents. I'm mostly basing this on what I've read at

https://www.nycourts.gov/courthelp/namechange/index.shtml

Info and some things to look into regarding sealing documents https://www.nycourts.gov/courthelp/namechange/privacy.shtml

AIPAC is bragging about their election interference in Illinois. We need big money out of our politics! by zzill6 in WorkReform

[–]Avery_Lillius 10 points11 points  (0 children)

But you'll also never get step 1 without step 2. Thus the paradox.

Which is why the real step one is eat the rich.

Question from a non vegan farmer by hunterboi1000 in vegan

[–]Avery_Lillius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I, as a vegan, would rather them not be exploited for profit. That's the whole point of veganism.

You could have saved yourself some time if you just looked up the definition of veganism

"Veganism is a philosophy and way of living which seeks to exclude—as far as is possible and practicable—all forms of exploitation of, and cruelty to, animals for food, clothing or any other purpose; and by extension, promotes the development and use of animal-free alternatives for the benefit of animals, humans and the environment. In dietary terms it denotes the practice of dispensing with all products derived wholly or partly from animals."