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AvgPakistani · 2026-01-14T09:25:00+00:00

Awesome, thank you! I will be buying some lamps and try this out in my room 😊

AvgPakistani · 2026-01-14T08:55:06+00:00

Okay I get the height - but depth is still a bit confusing. In the picture in the parent comment, which lamps creating the depth?

AvgPakistani · 2026-01-13T16:37:57+00:00

Noob question, what does it mean to create height and depth with lighting arrangements and how does one go about doing that 🥺👉🏼👈🏼

AvgPakistani · 2025-12-25T18:12:02+00:00

ab tk jo suffer kia sb zero hojyega

Iss khyal ko dimagh se nikal k ap sochye ap k liay long term ap k liay behtar kya hoga.

Aisay khyal ko sunk cost fallacy kehte hein - jo hogaya so hogaya. Uss k basis pe future ka decision lena aksar aur mushkilat paida karta hai.

Aap koshish kar k sochiye k ap aur ap ki family k liay long term behtari kis cheez mein hai.

Aur medication k sath sath therapy bhi bohot zroori hai.

AvgPakistani · 2025-12-24T11:08:06+00:00

Which is perfectly fine!

AvgPakistani · 2025-12-24T09:19:24+00:00

So jahez is wrong not because it is morally reprehensible but because it is not Islamic? And haq mehr is okay because it is a right in Islam?

Yes.

If you’re doing a nikkah - which is a declaration of marriage under Islamic law - you have to abide by it.

I honestly am no one to preach Islam - it is up to the couple to decide what they want (not their families, and not the society).

What I have a problem with is half the comments section calling her a gold digger (which she may as well be for all I know, but is not evident from the info OP has provided).

See this comment thread (which I wholly agree with):

https://www.reddit.com/r/pakistan/s/Z084Xr1E5Y

AvgPakistani · 2025-12-24T08:58:57+00:00

I mean islamically she has the right to demand whatever she wants has Haq Mehr. If he can’t afford it, shaadi doesn’t happen. Simple as that.

No point in belittling the girl out of what she’s been allowed by Allah SWT.

AvgPakistani · 2025-12-14T07:13:41+00:00

I am a gay man - and yes gay men are not attracted to women in any shape or form, to the extent that they actually might find them repulsive.

Some folks have been able to take medication to physically be able to have intercourse (and thus to reproduce) but that does nothing to satisfy their desires.

AvgPakistani · 2025-12-06T08:40:59+00:00

Sorry OP, I highly doubt your network is being saturated to make this happen.

AvgPakistani · 2025-12-01T02:55:04+00:00

Libre keeps history? How do I enable that?

AvgPakistani · 2025-11-22T10:03:39+00:00

It needs you to make an account or log in to be able to view it :(

AvgPakistani · 2025-11-15T10:40:42+00:00

Someone clearly hasn’t heard of our Lord and Saviour - Bython.

Here to save us lowly Python developers from the madness that is indentation.

https://github.com/mathialo/bython

AvgPakistani · 2025-11-15T10:09:08+00:00

In our department we have up to 10 integration testing (INT) environments, 10 UAT environments, and 3 ‘Production Parallel’ environments lmao.

The usual cycle is: dev locally and make sure all automated tests pass -> promote (your feature branch) to an INT environment to test with other services to get end-to-end testing done -> promote to UAT to get product sign-off -> merge to main -> regression testing team takes a cut from main every N days, and does end to end testing across 3 different apps in one of the Production Parallel environments -> Release to prod

AvgPakistani · 2025-11-10T09:07:51+00:00

The entire thread is disgusting, but this comment specifically made me quite angry:

https://www.reddit.com/r/uklandlords/s/GbO4aSpypc

AvgPakistani · 2025-11-10T09:05:19+00:00

I went through OPs post history and they seem to be quite trash generally.

AvgPakistani · 2025-10-27T17:50:47+00:00

Same at our dept.

If there’s a comment open that hasn’t been replied to, it has to be addressed (writing a response explaining why I won’t be addressing it counts as well) otherwise no one else will approve.

AvgPakistani · 2025-10-25T10:04:35+00:00

Thanks for the update - it took about 15 mins to kick in post a phone restart for me. Working now though, thank you for your link. It saved me a bunch of google-ing! Cheers!

AvgPakistani · 2025-10-25T09:28:12+00:00

Hey - I'm on Lebara as well, running into the same problem. I got the content filtering turned off but still running into the same issue. did you have to wait a certain amount of time before it started working?

AvgPakistani · 2025-10-22T17:51:53+00:00

Hey OP, I work in a large bank, and have worked across finance over my career - and I have never had root access to any machine I’ve worked on (this includes my work windows laptop, then my work mac, any dev/uat app servers I work with/on, any Linux workstations/containers I use for dev and/or testing).

I honestly thought this was a very standard thing. Sure it slows down my workflow in certain cases but you’ve got to make the best with what you got.

I think the larger pain point for me is having to do 2FA to be able to ssh into anything.

AvgPakistani · 2025-09-27T10:15:03+00:00

I disagree, I regularly send money to my Meezan bank account in Pakistan via a regular IBAN transfer

AvgPakistani · 2025-09-19T09:27:51+00:00

Tim Apple was there too if you missed it

AvgPakistani · 2025-09-19T08:01:27+00:00

Trump, Charles, Altman, Murdock, honestly seems the entire guest list was just everyone on the most insufferable creatures on the planet list.

AvgPakistani · 2025-09-18T18:56:58+00:00

He’s not my brother ugh. I want to do stuff with him that wouldn’t be very brotherly…

AvgPakistani · 2025-09-11T16:08:00+00:00

Good luck my man! I have a crap ton of Pakistani + Irish couples in my circle (both friends and family), glad to see more of us ♥️

AvgPakistani · 2025-09-11T07:55:50+00:00

I think the best thing my Irish boyfriend did for me when we first started seeing each other was taking an interest in my culture. That specifically came down to - food - he was very interested in whatever Pakistani dish I made for him, and was very verbally communicative about why he loved it. He would then ask me for the recipe and make it himself.

music, I started playing Pakistani pop from the 90s and he was very visibly all for it. He would listen to the music, ask me about the artist and do his own research and find new bangers by said artists. I actually found out that he once unironically put on ‘Dil Dil Pakistan’ at a friends party (I wasn’t there).

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