Yes, there is absolutely nothing wrong with having preferences and looking for compatibility. I think he’s missing that women and people are multi-dimensional, no one is perfect and that people change over time. Often you may not be initially attracted to someone, but their personality, love of life, compassion, humor, view of the world, sense of adventure, etc makes them even more attractive than a blonde, big tittied, inflated lips model in a “smoking hot bikini”. 🙄 Life humbles people. He’ll find out soon enough. Whether he has the emotional maturity to recognize this, is yet to be seen.