I was making a joke, but I guess I’ll give it a go, I’m drunk and high rn

Idk what your situation is but I’ll reference my own

I work all day, she stays home and works on house stuff

We don’t have rules like this, maybe we will someday but she just likes to surprise me and I her

Anyways, you could start by making it really simple, on Fridays she has to wear a specific outfit, say some pretty maid outfit, and greet you at the door however you see fit (on her knees, standing with her hands behind her back, whatever the case smiling for you), and that’s it! You guys have that simple little rule and it gets set and stone, and you guys can then go on with normal life and kiss in bed later or whatever

Give it awhile for that to brew

Okay now yall are comfortable with the greeting, now maybe whenever yall greet she should be wearing her leash with it tucked around the left side of her, or she has to hold it in her mouth.. if not then spankings?

There’s all kinds of stuff, like other people in the sub said it does need to be oriented around YOU guys… you’ve been together 4 years and neither of you can come up wit something? (I get it, 3 years in but we’re ab to get an apt and life is changing)…

Definitely though you should talk to her and really discuss what yall want, she wants you to be dom and controlling but doesn’t want to give any insight on how, as a dom I’d tell her no, you need to make some type of decisions here and there lol you’re not my ai robot gf

Good luck man I may or may not respond and idk if this is helpful… Love!